KindnessIsPunk
@KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca
- Comment on question for the culture 5 days ago:
That we can agree on.
- Comment on question for the culture 5 days ago:
I myself am poly but I’ve been in a relationships where the other person wasn’t comfortable with it and agreed to monogamy and have been on the giving and receiving end of infidelity. As I’ve gotten older I’ve understood the damage I’ve done and how to properly engage with those feelings and have an open an honest discussion.
I think we actually agree more than it seemed. Feelings aren’t choices. Actions are. And the social punishment for failing at monogamy is often brutal and unfair. I just think two people can still freely say 'don’t act on it and if they both mean it, breaking that hurts. That’s all.
- Comment on question for the culture 5 days ago:
So am I correct in saying under your framework monogamy can never be chosen freely? Or would it be at more accurate to say that if it was chosen it’ll be chosen via action and not agreement?
- Comment on question for the culture 5 days ago:
And that’s fine that’s a completely reasonable conclusion. But the stance you took earlier wasn’t a personal one it was one that it wasn’t right for anyone.
- Comment on question for the culture 5 days ago:
It may be but if two parties agreed to it in good faith and expected it to be the norm going forward under no duress, then they are absolutely a shitty person for not abiding by it.
- Comment on Finally, a real name for your penis 6 days ago:
Pleasure Killer
- Comment on Is putting black beans in my chili a bad idea? 6 days ago:
I love black beans in chili
- Comment on There will be signs 1 week ago:
I know this is just a shit post so I’m not taking it seriously just more using it as a tangent to talk about something that’s been rooting around in my brain for a while.
I have always lived below my means. If I want something I write it down and then if I still want it in a month I’ll think about it but the most important thing to me is that if I buy something I’ll actually use it.
If I won the lottery I don’t think my life would change that much. I know everyone says this but I really mean it. I would probably just donate it.
I simply do not need more money and there are so many people that could really use that money to feed themselves, to clothe themselves. Maybe it’s easier to say now but I don’t think so.
I’ve always had the money to buy a car, hell, at some points I’ve had the enough to do it in cash but I’ve always taken the bus.
- Comment on I'm gonna pay you $100 to fuck off 1 week ago:
Oof
- Comment on I'm gonna pay you $100 to fuck off 1 week ago:
Smart Tube Next?
- Comment on Her: your feed says a lot about you. My feed: 1 week ago:
I always liked Hank Green’s series on Complexly “Ask Hank Anything” where he tries to learn about people from the questions they ask him.
- Comment on Emissions go brrrr 1 week ago:
… Yet.
- Comment on Emissions go brrrr 1 week ago:
We should absolutely regulate the way cars lock down software or obstruct the right to repair.
- Comment on dyk 2 weeks ago:
Now that’s believable
- Comment on We've finally found the cure 2 weeks ago:
TJ and I will be a good time
- Comment on engines 5 weeks ago:
Oh no, they got another one.
- Comment on Dubiousness 5 weeks ago:
Dinosaur moans
- Comment on The script is mysterious and important. 1 month ago:
Is the movie you’re thinking of “I Am Legend”
- Comment on Get on my level 1 month ago:
I don’t wanna fight, feel how you feel.
- Comment on Get on my level 1 month ago:
Oh I know that and it’s why I included kinks and the only reason it had a heterosexual tint at all is because the question did.
- Comment on Get on my level 1 month ago:
That’s stupid then, no offense. The height of children ranges greatly just like the height of adults there’s considerable overlap.
It isn’t something clearly defined, there are no stupid questions but your question is stupid.
- Comment on Heartily agree 1 month ago:
Bless the white text on a black background, thanks for not flash banging me.
- Comment on Get on my level 1 month ago:
Translation for this person because they’ve rightfully been misunderstood: Why does it seem like there is a disproportionate amount of tall men ending up in relationships with short women? This seems to be a statistical aberration when compared against other factors.
The answer is societal expectations of tall men/short women, kinks, standard height deviations among genders.
- Comment on Top of the world, ma 2 months ago:
Of course it’s a joke but jokes normalize ideas. I would never attack it but having a discussion about the underlying message is harmless.
- Comment on Your teenager AND your husband 2 months ago:
That sounds like it was a lot to deal with I’m really sorry I had to go through that.
I definitely have some of the same issues food used to be pretty scarce because I grew up fairly poor and now that I’m doing well for myself it is sometimes difficult to remind myself that I don’t need to eat like this is my last meal.
- Comment on Your teenager AND your husband 2 months ago:
Excuse me, half and half!? People used to give me trouble for homogenized milk.
- Comment on I love doing THIS 4 months ago:
The word of the day is obsequious: obedient or attentive to an excessive or servile degree.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
Sorry this was not what my original comment was supposed to imply. I understand how that was the meaning someone took from it but what I intended for it to say was more that you have to have a framework in which everyone is treated as a citizen until proven otherwise not that People who aren’t citizens don’t deserve rights but I understand why it’s a contentiousissue given the current administration.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
So I’m going to need you to circle around here original point then cuz I don’t get it.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
I would argue it’s become much blurrier in execution and they are no longer garenteed their day in court