Anon is emotional intelligence.

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• UntimedDiffusion@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Anon isn’t emotionally intelligent

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• Sanctus@anarchist.nexus ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Anon is so angry by their own logic they are not intelligent.

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  • ChicoSuave@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    How dare you bring facts and logic into an emotional argument!

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• glimse@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  This is bait but emotional intelligence is understanding your emotions, not the emotions having intelligence

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  • MehBlah@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Everyone sees what they want to see. Anon is blind, always.

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    • Buddahriffic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Or not very emotionally intelligent, if you will.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The contemporary use is from management theory.

    It was a metric made up to measure management candidates. From there it got into the self-help industry, and now that’s why everyone posts it on their dating profiles.

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  • blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I usually think of it in terms of recognizing others’ emotions and adjusting your words/actions to better cooperate or de-escalate

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    • glimse@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I’d say they go hand in hand. Intelligently rgulating your emotional responses

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• renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  “You can’t be emotional and intelligent at the same time” is a misogynistic dogwhistle, anon thinks women are less intelligent than men, and I suspect the whole rant is informed by anons misogyny

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  • SlurpingPus@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    ‘Harry Potter is antisemitic’

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    • Duamerthrax@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Jk Rowling doesn’t have the benefit of the doubt for that to work. Her works are dripping with status quo reinforcing shit neither herself nor her character are capable of growing past what they were born as.

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    • rat@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s not bigoted to recognize the type of language and stereotypes that are used against marginalized people. If you’re a woman, you’ve almost certainly been called “too emotional” or “on her period” before as a means to dismiss you by people like this who think that emotions and rationality are incompatible with each other.

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• rockerface@lemmy.cafe ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  “Intelligence” isn’t about knowing a lot of stuff or even having experience. It’s about being able to use your knowledge and experience to solve problems. So, by that logic, emotional intelligence means a skill of solving problems pertaining to emotions.

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  • Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Smart emotions if you’d like.

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• MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Demonstrates their point by raging-out unintelligibly. Never mentions gender. Commenters say its about hating women. Sure.

  Emotional Intelligence at a singular level amounts to taking the appropriate time to compose oneself, but at the same time, just because one shows emotion doesn’t mean they don’t have a point.

  I agree OP was likely rejected by someone, but I’ve seen gay men and lesbians use these phrases to try to manipulate their SO or counteract their SO’s bullshit, more often the “calm” one overtly attempting manipulation and gaslighting.

  Bringing gender or “misogyny” into it is laughably besides-the-point to me. I saw a meme page try to say the 90%-of-prisoners-are-men statistic means its men who are overly-emotional, like the people who say women are too emotional have a point re:emotions, and only got the “women” part wrong. My fellow bitches, the “calm” ones are not on your side.

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  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    We need that chart that shows gay LTRs have the lowest divorce rate, and lesbians the highest, with heteros slightly less than lesbians.

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    • MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Not here, not now. That’s another thread.

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• over_clox@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  AI = Actual Ignorance

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Always Idiotic

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  • Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Actually Indians

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• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Man, don’t tell them about other forms of intelligence, they’d stroke out

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• AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Looks like anon only has the emotional part

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• 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  reflection is OFF THE FUCKING TABLE DIDN’T I SAY SO ALREADY I’M ENRAGED AT THE MERE THOUGHT OF THIS WHY WOULD ANYONE HURT THEMSELVES LIKE THIS BY LOOKING INSIDE I’M ANGRY HELP NO DON’T HELP AAAH. /s

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• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Fake: OP

  Gay: Everyone in this thread taking this shit so seriously and getting mad about it.

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  • BurnedDonutHole@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Take a deep breath and touch grass.

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      If you find yourself getting angry (or god forbid, agreeing) with something Anon has said, you might be doing it wrong.

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  • Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The only ones getting mad are emotionally intelligent lmao

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• Nangijala@feddit.dk ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Feels a bit like a self report.

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  • Kellenved@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    A bit??

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    • Nangijala@feddit.dk ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Just a smidge ;b

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• RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Anon is an emotional moron.

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• cows_are_underrated@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Looks like anon ist emotionally intelligent.

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• lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  -30C° EQ

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