This is bait but emotional intelligence is understanding your emotions, not the emotions having intelligence
Anon is emotional intelligence.
Submitted 13 hours ago by throwawaybanana@discuss.online to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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glimse@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
MehBlah@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Everyone sees what they want to see. Anon is blind, always.
UntimedDiffusion@piefed.zip 12 hours ago
Anon isn’t emotionally intelligent
Nangijala@feddit.dk 2 hours ago
Feels a bit like a self report.
renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 hours ago
“You can’t be emotional and intelligent at the same time” is a misogynistic dogwhistle, anon thinks women are less intelligent than men, and I suspect the whole rant is informed by anons misogyny
SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
rat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 hour ago
It’s not bigoted to recognize the type of language and stereotypes that are used against marginalized people. If you’re a woman, you’ve almost certainly been called “too emotional” or “on her period” before as a means to dismiss you by people like this who think that emotions and rationality are incompatible with each other.
Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
Jk Rowling doesn’t have the benefit of the doubt for that to work. Her works are dripping with status quo reinforcing shit neither herself nor her character are capable of growing past what they were born as.
Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 13 hours ago
Anon is so angry by their own logic they are not intelligent.
ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
How dare you bring facts and logic into an emotional argument!
rockerface@lemmy.cafe 9 hours ago
“Intelligence” isn’t about knowing a lot of stuff or even having experience. It’s about being able to use your knowledge and experience to solve problems. So, by that logic, emotional intelligence means a skill of solving problems pertaining to emotions.
Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 hours ago
Smart emotions if you’d like.
5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
reflection is OFF THE FUCKING TABLE DIDN’T I SAY SO ALREADY I’M ENRAGED AT THE MERE THOUGHT OF THIS WHY WOULD ANYONE HURT THEMSELVES LIKE THIS BY LOOKING INSIDE I’M ANGRY HELP NO DON’T HELP AAAH. /s
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
Man, don’t tell them about other forms of intelligence, they’d stroke out
over_clox@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
AI = Actual Ignorance
Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 hours ago
Always Idiotic
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 6 minutes ago
Demonstrates their point by raging-out unintelligibly. Never mentions gender. Commenters say its about hating women. Sure.
Emotional Intelligence at a singular level amounts to taking the appropriate time to compose oneself, but at the same time, just because one shows emotion doesn’t mean they don’t have a point.
I agree OP was likely rejected by someone, but I’ve seen gay men and lesbians use these phrases to try to manipulate their SO or counteract their SO’s bullshit, more often the “calm” one overtly attempting manipulation and gaslighting.
Bringing gender or “misogyny” into it is laughably besides-the-point to me. I saw a meme page try to say the 90%-of-prisoners-are-men statistic means its men who are overly-emotional, like the people who say women are too emotional have a point re:emotions, and only got the “women” part wrong. My fellow bitches, the “calm” ones are not on your side.