Anon is so angry by their own logic they are not intelligent.
Anon is emotional intelligence.
Submitted 2 months ago by throwawaybanana@discuss.online to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 2 months ago
ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 2 months ago
How dare you bring facts and logic into an emotional argument!
glimse@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This is bait but emotional intelligence is understanding your emotions, not the emotions having intelligence
MehBlah@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Everyone sees what they want to see. Anon is blind, always.
Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Or not very emotionally intelligent, if you will.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The contemporary use is from management theory.
It was a metric made up to measure management candidates. From there it got into the self-help industry, and now that’s why everyone posts it on their dating profiles.
blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I usually think of it in terms of recognizing others’ emotions and adjusting your words/actions to better cooperate or de-escalate
glimse@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’d say they go hand in hand. Intelligently rgulating your emotional responses
renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
“You can’t be emotional and intelligent at the same time” is a misogynistic dogwhistle, anon thinks women are less intelligent than men, and I suspect the whole rant is informed by anons misogyny
SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Jk Rowling doesn’t have the benefit of the doubt for that to work. Her works are dripping with status quo reinforcing shit neither herself nor her character are capable of growing past what they were born as.
rat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
It’s not bigoted to recognize the type of language and stereotypes that are used against marginalized people. If you’re a woman, you’ve almost certainly been called “too emotional” or “on her period” before as a means to dismiss you by people like this who think that emotions and rationality are incompatible with each other.
rockerface@lemmy.cafe 2 months ago
“Intelligence” isn’t about knowing a lot of stuff or even having experience. It’s about being able to use your knowledge and experience to solve problems. So, by that logic, emotional intelligence means a skill of solving problems pertaining to emotions.
Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Smart emotions if you’d like.
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
Demonstrates their point by raging-out unintelligibly. Never mentions gender. Commenters say its about hating women. Sure.
Emotional Intelligence at a singular level amounts to taking the appropriate time to compose oneself, but at the same time, just because one shows emotion doesn’t mean they don’t have a point.
I agree OP was likely rejected by someone, but I’ve seen gay men and lesbians use these phrases to try to manipulate their SO or counteract their SO’s bullshit, more often the “calm” one overtly attempting manipulation and gaslighting.
Bringing gender or “misogyny” into it is laughably besides-the-point to me. I saw a meme page try to say the 90%-of-prisoners-are-men statistic means its men who are overly-emotional, like the people who say women are too emotional have a point re:emotions, and only got the “women” part wrong. My fellow bitches, the “calm” ones are not on your side.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
We need that chart that shows gay LTRs have the lowest divorce rate, and lesbians the highest, with heteros slightly less than lesbians.
MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
Not here, not now. That’s another thread.
over_clox@lemmy.world 2 months ago
AI = Actual Ignorance
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
Always Idiotic
Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Actually Indians
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Man, don’t tell them about other forms of intelligence, they’d stroke out
5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
reflection is OFF THE FUCKING TABLE DIDN’T I SAY SO ALREADY I’M ENRAGED AT THE MERE THOUGHT OF THIS WHY WOULD ANYONE HURT THEMSELVES LIKE THIS BY LOOKING INSIDE I’M ANGRY HELP NO DON’T HELP AAAH. /s
AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Looks like anon only has the emotional part
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Fake: OP
Gay: Everyone in this thread taking this shit so seriously and getting mad about it.
BurnedDonutHole@ani.social 2 months ago
Take a deep breath and touch grass.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
If you find yourself getting angry (or god forbid, agreeing) with something Anon has said, you might be doing it wrong.
Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
The only ones getting mad are emotionally intelligent lmao
Nangijala@feddit.dk 2 months ago
Feels a bit like a self report.
Kellenved@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
A bit??
Nangijala@feddit.dk 2 months ago
Just a smidge ;b
RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Anon is an emotional moron.
cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 months ago
Looks like anon ist emotionally intelligent.
Jolteon@lemmy.zip 5 weeks ago
Oh, hey there Taravangian!
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 months ago
-30C° EQ
UntimedDiffusion@piefed.zip 2 months ago
Anon isn’t emotionally intelligent