lessthanluigi
@lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org
- Comment on Anon orders food 2 days ago:
Walking 30mph
- Comment on Anon is a tourist 1 week ago:
Maybe OP is just out of the swimming sync with the rest of the crowd
- Comment on Anon has been misled 1 week ago:
Username checks out
- Comment on Anon has been misled 1 week ago:
She is a creep?
- Comment on Anon notices a problem 1 week ago:
He doesn’t count. Too much Silicon Valley for Seattle
- Comment on Anon notices a problem 1 week ago:
Comes from Seattle, not Silicon Valley. That is why
- Comment on Anon is an imposter 2 weeks ago:
Laid off and back into NEETdom
- Comment on Anon is incompatible 1 month ago:
Anon is Obsolete Absolute
- Comment on Anon is married 2 months ago:
I also do love it when my imaginary wife cooks launch for me as well
- Comment on Anon works out the question to the final solution 2 months ago:
Yea Anon, she totally hasn’t had rando dudes ask her that question all the time as a history major!
- Comment on The forest guy 3 months ago:
~Bartlebi Žižek
- Comment on Anon cares about the environment 3 months ago:
I also blame gregorious techorious for this mess
- Comment on Normies 3 months ago:
Motherhecker got me in the end right there, I’ll tell you that!
- Comment on Enshittification: Science and Applications (published by Nature) is hit with "pooptical power" 3 months ago:
A poolictical optics nightmare, if you will
- Comment on Anon makes a big mistake 3 months ago:
be on ifunny
First mistake
- Comment on A labyrinth of woo 3 months ago:
To be fair, you can still do that today
- Comment on A labyrinth of woo 3 months ago:
I miss when this image would be handcraftedly 3D modeled and not just have been given a prompt to generate an image
- Comment on Anon wonders what went wrong 3 months ago:
Seditary lifestyle
- Comment on Anon takes a writing workshop 3 months ago:
Dude, anon, that is her flirting with you so she can de-virginize you. Now’s your chance, big king!
- Comment on Biological Women 4 months ago:
And Women of Mass Distraction
- Comment on Anon is a youtuber 4 months ago:
Now we’re talking! That or a guy constantly ranting into the mic about paranoia and politics while he teaches you about internet privacy
- Comment on Anon is a youtuber 4 months ago:
It’s more like does he have a 1:1 facsimile of her shop/recording studio.
- Comment on Anon is a youtuber 4 months ago:
Anon makes bitter sexist propaganda
- Comment on Anon is a youtuber 4 months ago:
Idk man, for some reason sometimes I prefer the hobby videos that don’t have tits, or at least who gets more into the hobby/has better details.
- Comment on Anon watches Lost 4 months ago:
He is the only thing I remember about that show. Then again, I have never really watched it
- Comment on Anon enjoys videogame music 4 months ago:
Anon’s vibin
- Comment on Anon is emotional intelligence. 4 months ago:
-30C° EQ
- Comment on Turpentine story 4 months ago:
Anon had too much turpentine to clean what he has soiled. And he won’t forget it!
- Comment on Anon is triggered by RedNote 4 months ago:
/c/redtexts
- Comment on Anon is terminally lonely 4 months ago:
I guess how I found my friend was really complicated and a bit of an adventure. But what I would do was go to a local casual sporting event (street dodgeball) in my city, albeit sketchy but cool. Didn’t even have to talk. I also had really bad social anxiety. Being able to talk to homeless people on a regular basis for me made it a lot easier to talk to people who make 6 figures.
I would say if you can find a card/tabletop game shop that you can hangout there for free would be a good place. In a place like that, a lot of people are in the same boat. Pushing through the entry barrier is the hardest part, and it does not always work out. But when it does work, then you can carry on from there. Also see if the shop has some events you can attend. (I’m also a paranoid person, to the point that I think the store music is trying to get me)
Maybe also look for local sporting events. It doesn’t even have to be super intense or clean or dirty.
What helped my social anxiety is my friend said that muggers look for people who don’t look people in the eye or have confidence or smile. So, when I walk by people, I look them in the eye and smile. So now instead of feeling powerless and a social outcast, now I get to see them as wrong and muggable. You will have to power through it first. And then you will eventually get a person smiling back, or even starting a conversation. You’ll be suprised how different other people are and how they think of the world.
Anyway, thank you for coming to my TedEx Talk!