Ask for professional legal help, randoms online can’t help you with this. The answer is highly nuanced and depends on the specific manner in which you have things phrased.
If I publish my memoir and wrote about every bad thing people did to hurt me while the people mentioned are still alive, how much trouble could I get in?
Submitted 2 weeks ago by DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works to [deleted]
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L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
FuglyDuck@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
You did just help, though.
Ironic.
vrek@programming.dev 2 weeks ago
Anyone can sue anyone else for anything…
I could sue you for having anal sex with my night stand… I would lose since you didnt(I hope) and that’s not illegal but I could sue you for it…
Witchfire@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I can’t wait for the discovery phase of that lawsuit
huquad@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
This night stand looks like a Jackson Pollock!
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Your night stand has an anus?
vrek@programming.dev 2 weeks ago
Look… The other night I was drunk and mistakes were made
stepan@lemmy.cafe 2 weeks ago
If they sue you for spreading lies about them, consider who would win. Probably discuss with a lawyer and tell them the specific cases you want to write about.
FuglyDuck@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
It isn’t even necessary a question of who’d win.
You can tell the absolute truth and technically “win” all the defamation lawsuits you want, and still lose.
ryathal@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
There are anti-slapp laws to help with this, but they aren’t always used appropriately.
Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 weeks ago
If it’s true, and you’re in the US, you’ll be fine. If it’s not true, and they can prove it, they can sue for libel.
edgemaster72@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Instead of a memoir, why not make it “fictional”? Change the names, slap on a boilerplate “any resemblance to actual persons or events is coincidental” disclaimer, call it a day.
IANAL, not legal advice, etc.
ryathal@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
That’s not actually a solid defense as “fictional” characters that are obviously someone that exists can still be ruled libel. A common informal defense is to give the fictional person a small penis. It doesn’t change anything legally, but it does require someone suing you to admit in court that they have a small penis.
wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
people mentioned are still alive
Well, you know what you have to do…
(this is not legal advice etc etc)
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Skynet can take out their creators, I’m just following their lead
Sorry mom, nothing personal
/j
jeffw@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Anyone could sue you. Do you have money to pay for a lawyer?
Also, a publishing firm would know the series risks with this
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Oh fuck… now thinking of the money thing… my mom definitely has the money to sue the fuck out of me, and then I’d definitely get disinherited then my brother is gonna be their heir and he’d also have the funds to sue me… so I’d be fucked…
hmm maybe I’ll wait till parents are dead first lol, then I’m pissing on their grave
can@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Until the you could still work on it. Could be cathartic.
Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Can I piss on their grave too? I don’t know your mom. I just know I’ll probably have to pee at some point after she dies.
notsosure@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Here some ideas. You could be sued, but what is equally bad is that they might take revenge in some other way, everybody has a weak spot, and they can find it. Why would you want to hurt these people anyway, time has passed. The best revenge is to not mention them at all, especially for big egos being ignored is the worse punishment. As long as you write about facts, they can’t sue, e.g. this guy fired me may be fine (if factually 100% true), but he seduced my boyfriend is tricky (it may be true, but hard to proof /disproof). You may consider changing all the names, places etc, and turn it into a book of fiction.
chocrates@piefed.world 2 weeks ago
It’s only libel if it’s false. In the US at least
_haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
It depends on where you publish it: In the United States, the truth is a complete defense to libel suits, so you wouldn’t get in any trouble. This, of course, assumes that you can prove the contents of the book and have not signed any NDAs that would prohibit such a book.
slazer2au@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
As long as what you publish is truthful and they don’t suffer any actual damages, you should be fine.
But as always ask a lawyer.
mech@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
As long as what you publish is truthful and they don’t suffer any actual damages,
you should be fineit’s not illegal.
If the people you write about are rich and influential, it doesn’t have to be illegal for them to ruin you in court.slazer2au@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
That’s true, and should absolutely talked about with the publisher of one ever take OP on
droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
If you publish it anonymously, then none at all… well unless it goes super popular and it’s specific enough they can tell it’s you.
If I ever publish something like that I’d call it “I’m burning bridges, bitches!”
Regna@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Depends on the laws in your country, where I live we can’t even mention the name and crimes of convicted pedos on social media.
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
That’s lame as fuck
notsosure@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
In many civilized countries the names of criminals are not published, the reason is to protect family (especially offspring, spouse) from harassment by the press and overeager civilians. Several studies showed this does work.
NachBarcelona@piefed.social 2 weeks ago
I think that’s ethical.