DeathByBigSad
@DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works
- Comment on How to gain outside information / communicate safely if your government becomes oppressive and shuts down the internet? 5 hours ago:
Okay so the thing is, how do you hide the origin of the signals?
I heard that supposedly Iran sent police to go door to door and confiscate Starlink satalite dishes, so… like…
Which is why the keyword “communicate safely”
Seems like all civillian radios have this same weakness.
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- Comment on Is there no instution or person that Trump go after? Or we are all just screwed? 7 hours ago:
I mean a South Korean president got convicted and went to prison, then her successor commuted her sentence.
Odds are, in America, him being that old… it aint happening because someone is gonna make the “oh he’s too sick to be in prison” argument and the courts will just let it slide.
- Comment on At this point, should we form an alternative government of the United States as a micronation? 17 hours ago:
He’s just another Jefferson Davis
- Comment on At this point, should we form an alternative government of the United States as a micronation? 17 hours ago:
Why would you even try to convince an illegitimate gonverment to do something?
Like if the confederates took over DC, do you send them a nice letter?
Its illegitimate, and people who sworn an oath to the constitution should really try to take back control and restore constitutional order. As in the way the Union dealt with the confederates. The Union held an election during the civil war, they simply just don’t count the electors from the rebel states, so we just do the same right now. Pro-constitution states should get together, hold federal elections in those states, and declare those elected officials to be the real United States government.
- Comment on At this point, should we form an alternative government of the United States as a micronation? 21 hours ago:
Why “alternative government”?
This current “government” is illegitimate and we should redo the 2024 election and swear-in the rightful government of the people then remove these traitors that are illegally occupying Capitol Hill
- Comment on Mama! 2 days ago:
I mean its kinda terrifying when you think about it from the perspective of someone who grew up in an abusive household
“You will never leave my control”
Either you get tossed to the curb by mom and you are cold and alone after being so used to the warmth and the plant is dead (flung out of orbit), or get murdered by her (red giant… engulf the system)
- Comment on If I publish my memoir and wrote about every bad thing people did to hurt me while the people mentioned are still alive, how much trouble could I get in? 2 days ago:
Oh fuck… now thinking of the money thing… my mom definitely has the money to sue the fuck out of me, and then I’d definitely get disinherited then my brother is gonna be their heir and he’d also have the funds to sue me… so I’d be fucked…
hmm maybe I’ll wait till parents are dead first lol, then I’m pissing on their grave
- Comment on If I publish my memoir and wrote about every bad thing people did to hurt me while the people mentioned are still alive, how much trouble could I get in? 2 days ago:
where I live we can’t even mention the name and crimes of convicted pedos on social media
That’s lame as fuck
- Comment on If I publish my memoir and wrote about every bad thing people did to hurt me while the people mentioned are still alive, how much trouble could I get in? 2 days ago:
Skynet can take out their creators, I’m just following their lead
Sorry mom, nothing personal
/j
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- Comment on What are the limits to masked so called ICE agents? Are they just let off the hook and disobey laws while not identifying themselves? Why can't I be in the right by them stopping me first and shoot? 2 days ago:
I mean you can test it and see…
You can be right
and you can be dead right
That’s what authoritarianism is
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
I think I had trouble breathing after getting covid…
maybe its a placebo/nocebo, maybe I have long covid / lung damage…
idk
I boosted my percentage of the run complete… (100% is the life span, and covid sped through it…)
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
I don’t think I have autism, I can talk to my peers just fine, I just have separation anxiety because… idk I just never had to chance to be out in the world alone, like truely alone without a parent nearby.
OCD… probably… germophobia probably caused by my highschool looking very unsanitary and just Covid that sort of “flipped a switch” in my brain, constantly aware of all the “contaminations” around me.
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
I’m supposed to be, but I had to withdraw due to depression…
I mean… I literally got so much separation anxiety when I tried to stay at a college owned apartment.
I mean is it even surprising I have depression… never feeling safe outside and also never feeling safe at home either… yea depression is just a deterministic outcome at this point
Oh btw my older brother never opted for the university housing… he just went to the satelite campuses close by instead of the main campus, to stay at home throught the entire 4 years… like just commutes to college… its a 30 - 45 min drive away…
I don’t think he wants to admit it, but I think he’s also afraid of leaving home…
Literally never seen him go outside or anything besides work… so he’s just like me… but he’s acts, IMO, even weirder than me
So… it’s not just me… my mom has raised kids that are trauma bonded to her and don’t know how to be independent…
Great job, mom 🫠
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
This could work out in your favor actually. Taking driving lessons
You mean driving lessons with dad lol
Driving school would “be a waste of money” my mom would say
And I don’t really have financial independence yet… so… whatever… their rules…
I need the learners permit thing… I’m gonna wanna get that soon.
could you go out with friends?
No friends 😭
That’s what I get for having a stunted social development because of mom that held on to me too tightly and never allowed me a chance to grow.
(I’m introverted, and like… does anyone even talk to each other anymore after highschool is finished?)
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
This is such a foreign question for me.
Yea I know, which is why I’m kinda embarassed to ask it on a western forum.
My parents kinda just never really put much effort into encouraging me to be independent.
play outside as soon as possible (age 3 or 4? Idk, long time ago)
Kids in my parents’ village might do that.
I think during 0-8 years old I was mostly living in a city, except like sometimes visiting parents’ villages and I never felt comfortable exploring much anyways, I don’t know the kids and I’d be back in the city for when school starts. Like city-city, not suburb. I was in Guangzhou, China. Like Apartment buildings. I remember my mom warned me a lot about kidnappers (apparantly it happens often in China according to my mom) so I don’t remember going outside often and never unaccopanied. Parents were like busy and worked from early morning till late at night. I mean they even have this weird child-proof lock thing that locked from the outside… like you turn a key all the way in a direction and it locks and prevents the inside from opening it. Cuz if nobody was home, my parents didn’t want us to like… run off or something…
Well I wasn’t like alone-alone, I just get stuck at home with my older brother… who just wanna like fight with me all the time…
Pretty sure this childproof lock thing is a firehazard… 👀
Oddly enough, I remember I’d walk home alone during school lunch time… like I’d walk home, eat lunch at home, then walk back to school (cuz there was no free school lunch), I was like 6-7 I think, and it was like in broad daylight so I guess my grandmother just didn’t feel like picking me up. But I think my grandmother was supposed to take me to school and pick me up most of the time.
That was the extent of my independence. I wasn’t allowed to like play outside… cuz of the supposedly kidnappers that roam the streets (I looked up a few videos now as an adult, kinda terrifying ngl).
When we arrived in the US… similar… but its more because of being in a foreign country so I personally also felt scared. My mom just put me in an afterschool program so I’d be in school till 6 PM then stay at home till next day. Weekends I’m not supposed to go outside unless there’s a parent with me. I always need a parents to go outside… I mean I guess mom both didn’t want me to be in danger and also was afraid leaving us outside unaccompanied would trip up CPS or something… and you definitely don’t want them involved when you’re new in the country.
So yea… I never got to be by myself
So I eventually learned English, and this place became “less foreign” to me. And I also got older…
but still… I think I just got so used to never being by myself from birth till like… 13 years old(I think?), that I never really tried to go outside much, even when I was eventually allowed to walk home by myself when I was 6th grade…
I did like go to the library a few times to use their computer to play some web browser unity fps games… but then stopped doing that when I had a computer at home.
My parents never really pushed me to go outside… and I think I just got so used to the “stranger danger”…
so… yeah…
I guess the takeaway from this post is… I realized how much my parents and the circumstances of my life kinda stunted my mental development?
- Comment on Is Winnie the Pooh considered "racist" now or are .ml folks using it as an excuse to defend Xi Jin Ping? 3 days ago:
Not sure about the origins of the winnie the pooh thing, but .ml thinks everything anti-CCP is racist.
Like literally, they don’t even want the diaspora criticizing the regime. Lmfao their false accusations of racism doesn’t work on me.
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
P.S. One other thought: could you go walking with someone else besides your parents?
Don’t have friends :/
- Comment on Fuck fuck fuck 3 days ago:
“Huh? You know me? Really? Wow I never knew I was that popular. Sorry but I have no clue who you are.”
- Comment on How do I feel comfortable/safe going outside by myself after being so used to have parent(s) be with me outside most of my life? 3 days ago:
I have a library nearby, but honestly I only went there when I was a teen and my laptop stopped working.
I don’t really like to go there just to read a book, too awkward for me, I prefer just downloading a .epub from online.
Its like… its all just older people that goes there. I never seen like someone my age, especially now that young people all have their own computers and they don’t need to use the library computers anymore… it feels so out of place being there, its all just older people there. Cause too much anxiety for me.
There is a park near me that I like to go to, but it’s driving distance away not easily walkable to (takes like an hour or something, I aint gonna walk 2 hours to and from there, public transit doesn’t go there,), my dad just drives me there all the time so I never actually went there alone.
Also like, I’m actually kinda scared of public transit. I also never really been on public transit alone, I’ve always been with at least one of my parents.
Omg I realized my messed up my life actually is. I hear that kids go party during teenage years… but I ended up being just so anxious and never like learn how to be independent.
There are like shopping malls within 20 minutes walking distance, but I don’t wanna like just walk around if I’m not buying anything… feels too weird.
I feel like I really need a driver’s license so I can just like… feel more in control. (I could like borrow parents car for now)
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- Comment on Without getting into current politics can someone describe to me what an authoritarian regime looks like? 3 days ago:
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Zero news media criticizing the leader(s)
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Obsession with playing the National Anthem constantly in schools.
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Obsession with Pledges¹ or Flag Raising Ceremonies²
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Mandated Politically related Attires³
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Government involvement in family planning⁴
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Non-violent⁵ critique of leader(s) results in near certain police warning/harassments or detained/arrested
¹USA “Pledge of Allegiance”
²PRC, Flag-Raising Ceremony was done very frequently, I remember it being like either weekly or monthly
³PRC, the “Little Red Scarfs” that symbolizes “Communism”, I didn’t know what that meant at the time
⁴PRC: One Child Policy, forced abortions against the mother’s will, forced sterilizations; On the other side of the coin, in USA: Abortion bans and forced to continue an unwanted pregnancy
⁵PRC: “Xi should resign”; USA: anything Charlie Kirk related, Bald JD Vance memes, anything deemed “anti-ICE”
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- Comment on How do you "process" hundreds of tabs you haven't gotten a change to go through? 4 days ago:
Lol
I have like 250 tabs on my phone, I don’t wanna close them… Fear of Missing Out…
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- Comment on He took it literally 6 days ago:
I don’t think I was technically in a court room.
It’s… okay I’m no laywer, but it felt more like just some court staff reading out / explaining the charges in a small room, it didn’t really feel like a court hearing or anything, at least it didn’t seem like it.
I honestly was so confused af and wasn’t sure what was happening.
- Comment on He took it literally 1 week ago:
They don’t need to give a warning unless you are in custodial interrogation
They could just put you in a room and not ask questions, have a cop sit there, bait you into wanting to have a conversation since you’re bored (its human psychology to want to talk when you’re bored).
And they could also ask questions before an arrest, those are admissible as long as you weren’t under arrest at the time.
There’s a lot of sheanigans they could try.
They never gave me a miranda warning when I got arrested. I didn’t say anything but I bet the other kids who are less smart would be yapping during the ride to the police station. Those statements would probably¹ be admissible because its not a custodial interrogation (since the cops didn’t technically initiate questioning, the suspect just started talking).
¹I am not a lawyer
Literally wtf, those other kids all just admitted to their crimes and I overheard all of them talking (we got held in the same tiny-ass room). Some of them stole stuff, carjacking, all that stuff. Meanwhile all I did was self-defence. I never admitted to any guilt, but I did say to the cellmates that I “fought back after the other person instigated it” which probably wasn’t worded the most innocent way possible, but that does not really admit guilt.
(btw we were all minors)
- Comment on He took it literally 1 week ago:
I think the problem is more like:
They trick you into talking about the weather, then suddenly be like: “Yea, such a great weather, it’s such a shame that the victim couldn’t enjoy seeing this because you murdered the victim”
Then you remain silent without verbally invoking the right to remain silent
So the prosecutors are gonna be like: “SEE, HE IS GUILTY SINCE HE SUDDENTLY BECAME QUIET!”
- Comment on He took it literally 1 week ago:
Yo I swear to god.
So I got arrested for “aggravated assult” because I defended myself against a racist bully in highschool
And you know what the fuck did my mom do, start fucking discussing about the details of case during the parent meeting thing.
And also like literally the next day when I had to go to the juvenile court system thing, my mom keeps saying a bunch of shit to the court staff, WHO IS NOT THE PUBLIC DEFENDER BTW.
Mom wtf, are your stupid. Are you TRYING to fuck it up even more? Shut the fuck up.
Literally I keep trying to tell her to shut the fuck up, stoping mentioning details other than just simply deny the allegations.
(Charges ended up dropped)
Also btw, I start using a non-english language and the court staff immediately got more aggressive with their tone and treated me as though I was conspiring with mom about something. Xenophobic pieces of shit court system.
I’m glad I had Citizenship, the system would literally attempt to deport a minor over a school fight. Cruel as fuck.
- Comment on How to vote? 1 week ago:
For me:
Agree = Up vote
Agree, but your comment was cringe = No vote
Agree, but you presented it in an ultra-cringy way that actually weakens the point = Down vote
Disagree = No vote
Disagree, but very good and valid point = Up vote
Disagree, and also cringe = Down vote