Nemo

@Nemo@slrpnk.net

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do you guys sleep?⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  20 if I can get away with it, 18 otherwise

  and NEVER socks

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Can it take months to get over being laid off?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  I loved my old job and being forced out was both sudden and heartbreaking. It’s been almost two years and I still get a pang through my chest when I see something that reminds me of it. It’s like a bad breakup, in that way.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  What distinction are you making, here? Everybody seems, to me, to be a black box that only relates to others through their inputs and outputs. How else can I like someone, if not by what they put into the world?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Any Engrish-like community in here?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Is that a typo, or you’re looking for a community based on casual racism?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Earth will only be around for another five billion years or do, so no.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  He’s the one being unreasonable.

  He’s recently made one big change that he likes and is interested in trying other big changes. See if you can direct him to try something a little saner.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I hear a lot of "ACAB", why don't I hear "APAB"? (P as in Politician)⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Maybe try again without the misogyny.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What is with the obsession with gender neutral language on relationship topics ?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  There are times when it’s relevant and times when it’s not, and the latter is a lot more prevalent.

  But on reddit, the real reason is because about three years ago reddit admit let mod teams know that misgendering anyone was a violation of site-wide rule one, and if we mods didn’t crack down on it, the admin would crack down on US.

  Insisting on gender-neutral language is a way to keep clear of that.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is flirting redundant?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  If I only did what was necessary, my life would be pretty miserable.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is flirting redundant?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  So you should just treat the person you’re interested in like you would any other person.

  But flirting is how I treat every other person!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Because they’re an existential threat. You may think it’s unlikely that they come to power. But an unlikely event with terrible consequences is still worth trying to prevent.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How does HTML actually run on a computer?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  HTML doesn’t “run”. It’s not a scripting language, it’s a markup language. All it does is mark sections of the document for the browser to display.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does anyone use a phone without a protective case?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I used to not use a case, because I had a ruggedized hiking phone that didn’t need one.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I tend to think the the obligation to action falls more heavily on the privileged. Those who aren’t marginalized have a duty to use their position to correct the injustices.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  The price of meat is currently artificially lowered by several factors, including government subsidies and lax regulations. Correcting that would be good for everyone, even if it made meat a “sometimes” food for everyone but the rich.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I am having a weird experience on the Fediverse.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  wrong domain?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what’s the difference between “he died” and “he’s dead”?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  “Dead” is an adjective, modifying the antecedent of “he”, not an adverb modifying “is”.

  Contrast “he is well”, where “well” modifies “is” as an adverb vs. “he is good” where “good” is an adjective modifying “he”. There’s no grammatic signifier which is which beyond the modifying word itself, so you need to see whether it’s in adverb form or adjective form.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what’s the difference between “he died” and “he’s dead”?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  “he died” describes an action

  “he was dead” describes a condition / state / quality

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨WTF is a rural town in the USA?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  “urban” means city, not town

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does noise from different nearby sources 'add up'? Or do the different sources cancel each other out? In any case, please provide a formula and an example⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  They add up (in the sense of getting louder) if they’re harmonized or party harmonized. They cancel out if they’re opposing or partly opposing. They become more continuous but not louder if they’re out-of-synch.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Kids see you reading an e-book, they don’t know what you’re doing, they just see you staring at s phone.

  Kids see you reading a physical book, they see you’re reading, and what you’re reading. It helps foster a love of reading in them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do you think a story that mixes magic with super advanced technology can work?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Like most things by Philip K. Dick, the man who has more movies based on his writing than any other author?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How many angels can dance on the head of a pin?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  zero or more

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨An alternative spelling of the alphabet that makes more sense⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  split all vowels into the two-four sounds they actually make

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨An alternative spelling of the alphabet that makes more sense⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  aay ebe eke ede eay efe ege ehe iay eje eek ele eme ene oay epe eque ere ese ete uay eve ewe ekse yay eze

  but if we’re making changes, we should really get rid of C, Y, X, and W; bring back thorn; turn all soft Gs into Js… the list goes on

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Not for me. The written word is much more vivid and conveys information much more efficiently than video. Other people process things differently, I know, but that’s how it is for me.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has the use of a comma instead of the word "and" in English news headlines always been a thing?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  My whole life, yeah.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨In the U.S., are all voting booth areas required to have carbon monoxide detectors?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I’d be more likely to blame the lead exposure on the deregulation that red areas tend to favor, but I know the truth is more insidious: both are correlated to poverty.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is there a community dedicated for serious discussion?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  They’ve dealt with so many bad actors in the past

  This is for sure part of it. Remember that most of us fled here from reddit, and many made a clean break. For me, that includes avoiding political discussion communities. I actively moderated two conservative political communities for years (r/AskConservatives and r/Tuesday) and also r/As an American, where political discussions often came up. I’m just exhausted by it. I’ve seen every bad argument under the sun from and towards every major political position.

  When I spooled down reddit, resigned my modship in r/AskConservatives, and came to lemmy, I resolved to a) never mod a discussion community again and 2] never sub a political discussion community. And my life became so much better! I still engage with politics IRL, with real people in my community, but have zero interest in seeking out the same here.

  So yes, if you want to discuss certain topics here you’ve got an uphill slog. And if you don’t want to be treated like a bad-faith actor you’ve got to put in the work to build a reputation as a good-faith one. There’s no shortcut for that; users recognize each other here.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Whats the best way to deep dive into learning a language without apps?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  If there’s a local community / cultural center, they probably offer classes or even immersion. My local mutual aid society has Spanish-immersion craft night once a week.