oof. Advertised for a junior/entry level position in my team (academic research), got 74 applications, many with PhDs. Rough.
Daily Discussion Thread đąđ Monday, August 5, 2024
Submitted âšâš3â© âšmonthsâ© agoâ© by âšSeagoon_@aussie.zoneâ© to âšmelbourne@aussie.zoneâ©
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melbourne_wanderer@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Nath@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I know someone who had this problem about 15 years ago when she tried to get an entry level job. Her PhD made her a less attractive candidate because she was over qualified and employers didnât trust sheâd stick it out. But, she couldnât apply for senior positions because she didnât have enough experience.
It was the worst Catch-22. A very difficult period for her.
melbourne_wanderer@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
this is a difficulty for people who go straight from undergrad to PhD. It can also be a slight warning sign (but absolutely not always) if a phd grad has no experience at all, because usually phd students need to supplement their scholarship/RTP, and supportive supervisors will give good students a boost with some casual work to give them experience/time on the books.
But yes - I often encourage students to get some experience, one way or another, while studying. Often, the type who go straight from one degree to the next are precisely the type who worry that taking a few hours out to do paid work each week will negatively impact their academic performance, etc, and they need to be gently reminded that a well rounded application is stronger than a straight H1 student who has never seen or done anything!
Mittens_meow@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Why is it that thereâs always something out of balance. If itâs not work life then itâs health or money. When they are all broken then it feels hopeless
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Iâm guilty of this kind of thinking too. Been recently starting to realize the balance isnt how things feel to us, its our ability to âride the wavesâ so to speak, and you can find balance wherever you look even if you may not like how it feels.
Not sure I fully believe that myself just yet, but the more I explore it the more it seems like there might be something to it.
mysticgreg@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Oh man I hear you. Good health, finances in order, work bearable. Pick two.
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
The google tells me thatâs called a project management diagram
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Iâm perfectly balanced. All three equally suck! đ
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I feel exactly the same way damn
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
After hearing of the last psychologist I found not taking new clients, I went through the whole process of finding another one with a trustworthy and empathetic face (yes I judge people entirely off of their face. Donât @ me), getting a new MHCP, getting a new referral, making another appointment, trying to organise for the session to be paid in advance again. Iâm finally done, and have found one that seems fine. I hope it works out. I donât want to have to find yet another one
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Donât feel bad about choosing a nice face. Bedside manner is so important.
Imma relate my experience here and it was quite self revelatory at the time.
I had an injured shoulder, from an assault, and was referred to a surgeon for diagnosis and treatment. He was very kind and friendly and reassuring. Even when we had to demonstrate the actions that caused the injury I felt safe.
Later in the week I had to get some xrays. The technician was very professional and he had a neutral face. I was triggered and had a panic attack.
Attackers have uncaring or neutral faces.
later I was thinking how my doctor put on a kind face on purpose , he knew my history and knew how to make me comfortable. The xray technician either knew and didnât care or didnât know how to handle my case.
Iâm better now tho seeing a disinterested face always worries me. That is a face of violence.
StudChud@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Such a pain trying to find a psych you click with so you can make the most of therapy ugh. Iâm glad you have found someone and booked and appt!! Thatâs awesome!
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Iâm not sure if youâre already doing this (apologies if you are) but you can get a certain number of counseling sessions and a security camera funded through Victims of Crime.
I really hope it provides some help
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Good idea, but I believe that they only provide support in cases of violent crime. A burglary while not home probably doesnât classify.
Iâm still a minor, so for the next 6 or so months, Iâll be able to have my sessions paid for by the department. I think the place Iâve chosen is $100 out of pocket after the MHCP Medicare rebate, but I donât really know how that works, so thatâs a them problem for now.
Iâm not too sure what the plan is once I turn 18. At the moment $100 out of pocket is pushing it, but still affordable once a month, but Iâm unsure how my circumstances will change. Plus the MHCP is only like 5 sessions a year or some stupidly low number. Itâs one of those things I donât think Iâm going to spend much time thinking about since I have zero clue whatâs going to happen
RustyRaven@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
The woman buying my sewing machine just picked it up. She did not accidentally overpay me by thousands of dollars. I guess the dream was not prophetic.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
oh well
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Happy monday erybody :(
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Happy Monday to you too.
fullkitwanker@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I have a big preso tomorrow. To about 100 attendees. I have to talk for about 10-12 mins and Iâm prepared. Itâs just that I get so nervous my heart starts pounding crazy fast.
My previous presos have also been in front of the same crowd but that was for like 2-3 mins as I had someone share the time but tomorrow am all alone. Which means that I need to take questions as well.
My heart rate is already high thinking of tomorrow đ€ can someone give me some tips to calm down? Please donât say slow breathing because it just makes it worse for me đ
Iâve also been told I give great presos but I gaslight myself into thinking it was bad. Iâve prepared pretty well but still nervous as shit as this is the biggest one so far.
TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
My late bloke was an excellent after dinner speaker, but got horribly nervous beforehand. To the point of vomiting with nerves. He eventually figured out how to manage his anxiety by playing cats cradle while he was waiting to be introduced to the audience. The simple repetition of the hand movements helped him through those awful minutes before he started to speak. He was fine once he got going. Zillions of vidjos on youtube on how to do it. He liked doing the apache door more than the eiffel tower or witches broom one as it was more complex and required more attention. And the evidence could be stowed in a pocket quickly when he stepped up to perform. Pre-performance anxiety is very real and can be very debilitating, but tends to evaporate once the performance starts. Hope this helps a bit.
fullkitwanker@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Thank you!! Iâll look these techniques up on YouTube đAlso sorry for your loss
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Youâre nervous because you know you are good and donât want to disappoint. And youâre nervous because youâre doing a good thing that you want to do.
So many hugs. You can do this. Weâre so proud of you. đđđđđ
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I like to get there early so I have time for a last stress poo. Acute stress goes to my bowels, sorry. And to check out the venue and stuff.
Also you can overheat a bit when youâre in a stressful situation, and that feeling of being too hot makes the stress worse. If you can lose a layer or two it can help.
Youâll be awesome.
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Iâve had a weirdly positive day⊠I mean, a little unexpected. Even though I was running late, I made good time. Even though I missed tea break, had a shortened lunch, wasnât all that hungry and ran out of time (and verbally road raged a little on the way home), I:
- made it to a Uni appointment
- had some meaning conversations in intervention deliveries
- made to my extra-curricular session on time
- had some more meaning conversations
And just all round one of those days where for a moment you feel as if youâve woken up, are about 95% yourself and things feel somewhat good⊠like a distant memory.
Iâm even in one my fav burger shops that always empty and there are about 8 or so other people eating in and it feels⊠nice.
No guarantees for tomorrow,
just_kitten@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I felt the good vibes rubbing off on me from your comment with how wonderful your day was! Savour the feeling, itâs totally ok if tomorrow doesnât reach todayâs heights, because it sounds like you filled your cup plenty with today đ (okay I say this because sometimes I feel a bit sad when the next dayâs been a comedown from a Good Day. But sometimes itâs easy enough to just enjoy the Good Day for what it is)
What a bonus that your burger shop was lively tonight as well. The owner must be having a nicer than expected Monday too
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
so many hugs đđ
StudChud@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Fell asleep for a bit, but have a GP appt tomorrow morning. Iâm trying not to get overly anxious about this, because itâs probably nothing, but its such a different pain than I am used to.
Like, sharp, and then achey, and sharp if I rub my eyes (which I do without thinking). I have no idea what I could have done to it, like itâs a weird spot. Just under my right eye, where the orbital hole ends, on my cheekbone. I know I keep posting, but Iâm anxious ugh!!!
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Youâre seeing a doctor. In the meantime donât touch and use warm compresses for comfort.
So many hugs
Taleya@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Could be a stye, it seems to be the season.
Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Maybe itâs a pimple on the inside of your eyelid or something? Or a subcutaneous ingrown hair it some such
StudChud@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Maybe? Theres nothing on the skin, no marks, no bruise or discolouration. No lump I can feel underneath, just the top of my cheekbone/orbital.
Hopefully it is just a stupid zit. I can deal with that.
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Could be nerve pain, maybe even referred from TMJ or a tooth? Best of luck, hope you can get checked soon
StudChud@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I do grind my teeth, in stressed itâs a fracture. Itâs probably nothing though lol
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I wasnât gonna go anywhere today but I need m&ms.
bull@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Normal, peanut, crispy, mixed or one of the bullshit limited edition flavours?
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
bullshit
dark chocolate raspberry
I dunno that sounds delicious.
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I didnât mind the brownie ones, but they needed to be served warm, otherwise the brownie bits were like little stones. I havenât tried any other limited edition ones
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Maybe I need m&ms too. Youâve got me thinking about them.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
As I was pulling out of my driveway, an evil looking Tom cat was in my backyard judging me, which is a cheek cos I donât shit on other peoples properties.
Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Yayyy!!! Canât wait to start a newwww work week!!! đđđȘđđđ„łđ„ł
mysticgreg@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
General Failure Error reading Monday (A)bort Âźetry (F)ail?:
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
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Thornburywitch@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
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Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
It thinks Iâm a robot đ€
Catfish@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Who are you and what have you done with Force?
Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
What ever do you mean?! I have always LOVED my job and wouldnât quit for anything! I would do this even if they didnât pay me!!!
useless_modern_god@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Fuck yeah letâs do this
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Hmm, how about FUCKING NO.
Mittens_meow@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I donât have enough sugar in my house to vaguely get pumped enough to echo that sentiment
StudChud@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Called out of my shift, couldnât sleep until 4am and only for two hours.
Gonna make that GP appt today for my eye, itâs just hurting so much worse. Ugh!
Happy Monday! Lol
melbaboutown@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Man I love my cat. Sheâs just a big old teddy bear and a sweetheart. Even when sheâs a bit spoiled itâs cute
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Toddler took my phone. I asked for it back, he disappeared for a moment then handed me back the purple ring from his tower toy thing. He looks satisfied with our âtradeâ and buggers off again, only to leave the phone behind on the floor anyway.
Duenan@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Dropped off the transfer of shares papers to the executor of my grandmaâs will today.
I wanted to mail them off so I didnât have direct contact with the executor but it wasnât to be.
Drove out of my way and got stuck in a one sided conversation I didnât really want a part of due to the family feud going on between the executor who is my Aunty and half the family which consequently made me get home later as well.
Hopefully with that out of the way the distribution of the will can go ahead.
Parts of my family suspect that the Aunty has an unfair share of the will or has been stealing or misappropriating funds related to the will. She dumps all her emotional baggage on me because she considers me the nice one of the family but all I wanted to do was run away from her.
wscholermann@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Have we entered the era of peak fake?
- instagrammers with enhanced images
- scammers pretending to be someone else, even your own bank.
- deepfakes
- autotune and pitch correction.
- so called live performances with pre recorded audio (yes Celine Iâm looking at you)
- people living their fake lives in social media making out itâs better than it really is.
- Politicians telling anything but the truth.
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
tried to book a camping trip for cup day weekend. Limited to âglampingâ (ie: power and a hot shower) cause I was gonna bring the little fella, but no joy. Everythings booked out. Prom, Eildon, Bright, Philip Island, all totally booked out. The fact that itâs still months away and its booked out blows my mind.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Todayâs song
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
operation get rid of stuff continues , another dozen books Iâm never going to read are sorted to go out , more knickknacks are going
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Anti-gratitude thread đ
Balancing shit is hard.
Taleya@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
HOLY FUCK ORVILLE S4?!!
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
omg, I have finally cleared all 50 levels of bubble town. it only took a few years and many thousands of attempts. I took a screen shot. Iâm a bit numbâŠlol
Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Thereâs someone stood in front of the Magistrate court on William St with a couple of big posters behind him, handing out flyers. He keeps repeating âJudges are motherfuckersâ nothing else. At it for over an hour now
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Gratitude thread đđ
Grateful for getting more sleep than I did the night before last.
Duenan@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Tweaked my shoulder again yesterday and Iâm getting a headache and also sending odd sensations and pins and needles down my arm/hand again.
Thought fully recovered from it a month ago.
Pilk@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
The race riots in the UK make Cronulla 2005 look like a childrenâs tea party.
just_kitten@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Round 2 of using the vegetable and tomato paste. This time with frozen pesto, frozen green veg, and canned springwater tuna mixed with pasta. Another win, definitely added an extra depth of flavour without tasting tomatoey for very little cost and effort. I will say Iâm also proud of my little habit of chucking in some cardamom seeds to pasta or other non Indian dishes. It adds a certain je ne sais quoi.
Pretty good meal for zero prep. Cost about 3.32 a serve minus the homemade pesto, and most of that wouldâve been the tuna and Fancy Expensive Pasta
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I finally heard back from the school lady (Iâm a bit concerned with how many times Iâve had to follow up), and she fixed the issues with the enrolment paperwork, which Iâve now signed!
For some classic bureaucracy related reasons, they need a photocopy of a guardians personal identification. Probably going to be a difficult thing to obtain when my guardian is the secretary of DFFH. But as of now, thatâs no longer a me problem, thatâs something theyâll all have to work out together.
It's....
A non issue though, as Iâve been through this process dozens of times. Usually they just provide a copy of my court order and a stat dec and itâs all g. But itâs worth noting if you ever decide to run an organisation and impose restrictions you canât possibly foresee anybody not being able to meet, youâll eventually meet somebody youâll have to make an exception for đ€·ââïž
Baku@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
My monday morning activities fell through, so now Iâm just tired. I donât know whether to go back to sleep for a bit, or stay up. If I stay up, Iâll be cranky by tea time. If I sleep, I run the risk of missing packages (I know I have at least 1 coming)
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
In-person interviews are a lot, especially at 9am on a Monday. But Iâm now done. Early slots are worth it.
I think it went pretty well. Weâll see.
tombruzzo@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Best of luck. They feel so odd to do now, itâs hard to believe they used to be the norm.
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
I know. What do you mean, I need to put on shoes? Not to mention drive somewhere?
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
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TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
theyâd better be offering a coffee to go with the interview!
anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Good luck!
PeelerSheila@aussie.zone âš3â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Fingers crossed mate