StudChud
@StudChud@aussie.zone
Put a fork in me, I’m done.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🃏 Wednesday 1 April 2026 6 hours ago:
No pressure, no obligation, and grief is a complex, multi-faceted pain that no words can adequately describe.
So with all kindness, love, and care
the cat distribution system may be trying to help you in it’s own weird way. Your love for Melbcat is not dishonoured or diminished by liking another cat. The heart is infinite in it’s love, and is not depleted by loving more.
I’m thinking of you and sending you my love 💜
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 1 day ago:
Eh try not to worry about it. There’s bots and just idiot Americans and Aussie cookers on here sadly, and they’ll downvote everything that goes against their ideology.
The points mean nothing
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
Thank you, I’m glad too. It scared me to ask if we could catch up, but honestly it helped so so much.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
It absolutely gave me a complex about my worth as a human. But hearing dad’s side, and his experiences, it helped so much to hear him say he did want me and he has no regrets about me coming into being. I am wanted and loved. It’ll take time to incorporate that into my brain properly.
Thank you for your kind words and care 💜💜💜 this community has helped so much
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
I love all of those foods, but together?
That is an atrocity.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
💜💜💜
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
Apartment below me is doing renos blegh. So loud when it echoes up the alleyway oof. Also hear the weeping of one of th residents next door (assisted living building), I hope she is okay.
tw abuse
I spent yesterday with my Dad. He travelled all the way from the East to me, braving the replacement busses. We had a delicious lunch at a local cafe and I updated him on how I’m going. I finally told him what my mum said to me, that has coloured all my experiences since I was 14. And he said it was unforgivable. We commiserated about how we were victims of her abuse, and he said that it’s okay if people don’t understand because he understands. It was cathartic, exactly what the small scared child in me needed. I messaged my cousin (mums niece) on Facebook , and told her I what Pop did to me. She can do what she wants with that information, as she is a mum to two kids. I don’t expect anything from her or to believe me, but I felt I needed to say something (something I wish someone had done for me).
I’m feeling scared, but more confident that I can be okay and eventually even happy.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🧃 Monday 30 March 2026 2 days ago:
Holy shit he was alive!? Wtf!!!???
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🍇 Thursday 26 March 2026 2 days ago:
:3 thank you!!!
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🍇 Thursday 26 March 2026 2 days ago:
Can I come too?
- Comment on Discussion Thread 😃 Sunday 29 March 2026 3 days ago:
Least it’s easier to sleep; sleeping in Summer is a fool’s errand for me lol
- Comment on Discussion Thread 😃 Sunday 29 March 2026 3 days ago:
An entire neural reset and coffee please, O Mighty and Merciful Chef 🙇♀️
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎪 Saturday 28 March 2026 4 days ago:
I hate vaccuming carpet. Fuck carpet. Should be illegal lol
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐈⬛ Friday 27 March 2026 5 days ago:
Nah I don’t have a PO box, but I’m honestly not adverse to giving you my address lol, I trust you.
I also appreciate your offer immensely 🙏 I’ve just lacked an appetite at all, so eating has become a major chore. I have soup I can reheat tonight, but I’ll let you know if this doesn’t stop 💜💜💜 you are truly the kindest soul
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐈⬛ Friday 27 March 2026 5 days ago:
Weighed myself today. Lost 5kg in less than two weeks due to the depression. Jfc.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐈⬛ Friday 27 March 2026 5 days ago:
Tis it’s own breed, bred in California from imported collies.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐈⬛ Friday 27 March 2026 5 days ago:
Aw puss will be alright. They’re tough little guys, true survivors. I’m sure he’ll be rapt with the straw :3
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐈⬛ Friday 27 March 2026 5 days ago:
Just skip Autumn and go straight to Winter I see.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🍇 Thursday 26 March 2026 6 days ago:
It’s a good excuse, and honestly it is the kick in the bum I need to sort my mental health out.
But also, fuck REAs 😂
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🍇 Thursday 26 March 2026 6 days ago:
Inspection on Monday. Good incentive to clean up my depression clutter but still ugggghhhhhhhhUUUUHQHQHAHAHQSHHSIBSUPSGIWVHEIHWWONXNXYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ad infinitum
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🥞 Wednesday 25 March 2026 1 week ago:
This pit in my gut,
Like carrying a thousand kilos of air;
Unbearably heavy but nothing is there. - Comment on Discussion Thread 🎩 Tuesday 24 March 2026 1 week ago:
We shall bestow upon them the blessing of compulsory voting and entirely rework how their elections are performed. Also we exile the GOP to Epstein island, with no resources and an abundance of hungry north Australian crocs.
But really it mostly stems from the Union not properly punishing the Conferdates lol
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🦉 Monday 23 March 2026 1 week ago:
Got Heavy Heart by You Am I stuck in my head on repeat.
Great song, no complaints other than I’m already severely depressed rn and don’t really want to dwell on my own heavy heart at one in the morning lol
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐠 Saturday 21 March 2026 1 week ago:
Few things I really need to sort out this year, posting here for accountability tbh.
- investigate with professionals whether I am autistic (it would make so much sense if true)
- investigate with professionals regarding pmdd symptoms
- practice and enact self care routines
- practice cleaning more often so the home doesn’t become a clutterbomb
- talk to my dad more, cultivate the relationship I want with him
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🐢 Friday 20 March 2026 1 week ago:
Got the insomnias so I’m playing some random horror game from itch.io. it’s actually pretty good, but it is a siren head game (siren head: resurrection by show_more) lol so it’s a monster we’re familiar with. Already got the monster to glitch out on stuff which is pretty funny, but it did lull me into a false sense of security with it’s behaviour and then changing it so I died ha.
Lucky I’m a gamer and save heaps so no real progress lost. I’m fixin’ to fuck up old mate.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎲 Thursday 19 March 2026 1 week ago:
It’s not ethical or nice, but sadly not illegal. Like you said, only illegal if it’s faulty. Legal to deny a “change of mind refund” within reason.
Even my local Woolies has changed their refund policy to be stored credit instead of a refund of money.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎲 Thursday 19 March 2026 1 week ago:
I could have benefitted from the same tbh. Mum was also a very paranoid helicopter, so hitting adulthood was very hard - all the chores I never got taught, those little grandma/ma tricks and tips for cleaning, nada.
It’s hard in adulthood having to re-parent yourself and find these resources, but I believe in you! It can be done. And honestly I reckon you’ll find it easier to learn when you’re not living with mum. Some mum’s like the control over the household (for a variety of personal and patriarchal reasons), so sometimes it takes leaving to give yourself space to learn. You got this girl!
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎲 Thursday 19 March 2026 1 week ago:
Yup exactly, no notes lol
Plus, from my experience as a phone monkey, if you’re kind and understanding they will go above and beyond to help. If you’re a jerky jerk, no extra stuff for you lol.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎲 Thursday 19 March 2026 1 week ago:
No. They can ask you to resign. But they can’t fire you for being sick. They also don’t have to put down “employee unwell” as the termination reason though.
So fucky.
- Comment on Discussion Thread 🎲 Thursday 19 March 2026 1 week ago:
1 hour 20 minutes so far for my call to Centrelink.
Sigh. I don’t blame the phone monkeys, they’re working at concentrix lol. I’m just emotionally and mentally compromised and this call is just gonna make me cry when I’m done lol.
