!socks with sandals!<
Whoa! A little warning before dropping something that hot in here!
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Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
fat
Not a deal breaker. The dad bod is in. I suspect other dad qualities are also in. Like sweatpants and socks with sandals.
bhamlin@lemmy.world 2 months ago
RagingRobot@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Do the dad qualities of already having a wife and children help? Lol
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
Doesn’t get more dad like than being a dad!
xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
If you have enough money that your dad titles gets a sweet prefix
BudgetBandit@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I prefer the gender-neutral glucose-guardian
Krudler@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The dad bod is in
Among fat chicks. Healthy women want healthy men.
SSUPII@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Vespair@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I mean as a guy I think the dude looks easily 100x better in the “before” pic. I don’t know who this dude is at all, but that before pic is already a perfectly comfortable, healthy-looking body. Before looks approachable and friendly, while still healthy. After looks high-effort and very motivated; that’s a lot for some people. A lot of people want somebody they can relax on the couch with popcorn with, not somebody who is gonna wake up every 6am to go running.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 months ago
Well yeah, I like having something to work with too. Skeletons be too spooky for me.
JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 months ago
Guy on the left doesn’t look “unhealthy” though. I get your point though.
SSUPII@sopuli.xyz 1 month ago
Absolutely, I would never doubt it (as anybody should from a picture alone).
I noticed that a good chunk of many that like to single out people and relations based on size they also think anything different than a stick is unhealthy and only “who is in the league” would consider it. It is just something not grounded in reality, and everyone will like what they want.
Valmond@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Youngsters wear Birkenstocks with socks in France.
Yes and it’s quite popular (age group like 16-20 I guess) possibly the summers footwear.
I kid you not.
Wolf314159@startrek.website 2 months ago
OG sandals involved socks always. Granted fashion has changed a bit over the various millennia since the invention of sandals and socks.
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
White New Balances. Irrational obsession with turning off lights …which always left on for no apparent reason.
MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
A lot of us have lights on because we lived or live in dangerous places. I’ll never be turning all the lights off.
blargh513@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Oh bless your heart.
You realize that.a young woman who is even mildly attractive can pretty well have her pick of men her own age. She dont want no tubby dude 20 years older, wearing clothes from Costco and driving around in a Subaru crosstrek.
Once us guys hit our 40s we just disappear into the hedges like homer, just part of the background.
Zozano@aussie.zone 2 months ago
Look, champ, I don’t even know where to start with that screed of yours; it’s like you veered across every social lane marker at once and somehow managed to cut off common decency in the process. The whole thing reads like a rolling pile‑up of smug assumptions. you blast past nuance, tail‑gate empathy, and just keep flooring it on the highway of bad takes. People are out here trying to keep their traction in a world full of potholes; maybe set the cruise‑control of basic respect before you rear‑end reality, yeah?
How dare you talk shit about the Subaru Crosstrek. We’re dealing with a 220 mm ground‑clearance, symmetrical‑AWD, snow‑eating, gravel‑spitting, apocalypse‑commuter that will outlive three of your fashion cycles and still start on a minus‑five morning without a whimper.
It’s a five‑star‑safety‑rated go‑anywhere hatchback that gulps eight‑litres‑per‑hundred on the highway while your precious status wagons guzzle twice that idling at a café; it holds its resale value like a dragon sits on gold; throw a kayak on the roof, a mountain bike in the back, and go touch grass. The Crosstrek is the Swiss Army knife of daily drivers; slagging it off is like mocking duct tape - it only proves you’ve never fixed anything in your life.
blargh513@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Oh lovely, the Subaru Crosstrek. The automotive equivalent of a bearded man in hiking boots who’s never seen a mountain. Yes, yes—220mm of ground clearance, symmetrical all-wheel-drive, and a CVT that responds to throttle like a golden retriever responds to algebra.
You call it an apocalypse commuter? Please. The only thing this thing has ever survived is a steep mall parking ramp. It’s not a rugged off-roader—it’s a cosplay Jeep for people who think flannel is a personality. This car talks a big game about conquering snow and gravel, but starts hyperventilating the moment it sees a hill and a headwind at the same time.
And let’s talk about power—actually, let’s not, because there isn’t any. Merging on the motorway in a Crosstrek isn’t just dangerous, it’s spiritual. You put your foot down, say a quick prayer to the gearbox gods, and hope that the CVT decides to simulate a gear that moves you forward rather than just turning fuel into unpleasant noise. Resale value, Swiss Army knife, duct tape metaphors—fine. But at the end of the day, it’s a hatchback with hiking stickers, delusions of grandeur, and the acceleration of a depressed tortoise.
It’s not that the Crosstrek is bad. It’s just that it pretends so very hard to be brilliant—while delivering the dynamic excitement of a soggy oat biscuit.
Someone64@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Did you AI generate this entire response…?
lowside@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Older dudes can absolutely get younger girls. However, they are mostly going to fall into 2 categories. Serious emotional/psychological issues. Or looking for a sugar daddy without as much stigma.
If you are in great shape, have a good personality and a good job, then at 40 you can still pull girls in their 20s without to much trouble. If you let yourself go, and have nothing to show for your age then it will be a lot harder.
The better question is why would you want to? What would you even talk to them about?
HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Can confirm. However, something happens in your mid 40s, I think the third growth stage of humans. In the space of about a year I went from beautiful 20 something women actively engaging with me, to suddenly something like primal visceral disgust instead.
Sort of like how they reacted when I was in my 20s. Which is why I was completely unprepared for that tiny window of opportunity.
Penis emerged unscathed.
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
“Did you see [X] video on TikTok?”
Me: Lowers newspaper while looking somewhat confused.
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
I’m 40, and I am still getting plenty of play. 🤷♂️
mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
plenty of play from 25yo hot women?
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
The last girl I was with was 27 and pretty hot.
Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Ironic that you complain about men disappearing in their 40s when this happens so pervasively to women it’s called Invisible Woman Syndrome.
Aging out of societal relevance is hard for everyone. Let’s not pretend that this is a uniquely male thing, especially when women are pressured to conceal their aging to a far greater degree.
grindemup@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Honestly I don’t see them complaining nor are they pretending that it’s uniquely male. I just don’t see any words to support that. Do you think you might be reading a bit too much into it?
Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Nope. Just reading with basic comprehension:
The context of which was that women don’t experience this because OP was making the claim that young women can ‘have their pick of men’ when ever they want.
SpaceShort@feddit.uk 2 months ago
You’re forgetting the part where there are women your age.
robocall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I asked this guy for an engagement ring and he let me pick out the one I wanted!
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
I’ll have you know I drive a Toyota minivan and shop at Sam’s Club because we don’t have a Costco. Much to my disappointment.
Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I switched from the Sam’s Club 30 minutes away because I was tired of getting Walmart grade crap to a Costco 50 minutes away. Prices are a little higher, quality seems not quite as much higher and when we do the math, the savings over just going to Target or whatever aren’t always there
HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Hey! I wear clothes for Goodwill, get it right.
robocall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Salvation Army has coupons!! Don’t waste your money!
nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 2 months ago
But Salvation Army is anti-union and damn near anti-homeless. So, they can get bent.
trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m 25 and several people have planned cross continent trips to have sex with me and you’re wrong.
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
25 year old girls don’t want w5 year old guys. women also prefer married men to single men.