He was being a bad person the moment he thought “I hope she gets abused by her boyfriend.”
That said, he’d only saying that because hes incredibly close to being depressed and in extreme self loathing in response to being rejected and trying to protect his his will to live via delusional projection and lashing out. “IE she’s the one with a problem not me. I’m great. She’s a piece of shit and deserves to suffer.”
People who don’t delude themselves about how great they are unfortunately usually don’t respond to rejection with “I need to improve myself” or “I’m just not his/her type I’ll find someone.” but with “I should kill myself, its hopeless. I’ll be romantically alone forever and I can’t take it.” and the sheer mortal terror of potentially thinking that way causes the delusional insulation and projection.
Sibshops@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
The sad part is that the incel thinks the boyfriend will abuse her because that’s exactly what the incel would do in that situation.
Honytawk@lemmy.zip 3 weeks ago
He doesn’t just think that, he hopes for it.
He hopes the girl has a miserable time in order to get back at her for shooting him down.
Some people do not deserve companionship it seems