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buddy of mine is in a horrible mood

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Submitted ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Samdell@lemmy.eco.br⁩ to ⁨greentext@sh.itjust.works⁩

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  • Sibshops@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    The sad part is that the incel thinks the boyfriend will abuse her because that’s exactly what the incel would do in that situation.

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    • Honytawk@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      He doesn’t just think that, he hopes for it.

      He hopes the girl has a miserable time in order to get back at her for shooting him down.

      Some people do not deserve companionship it seems

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  • HalfSalesman@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    He was being a bad person the moment he thought “I hope she gets abused by her boyfriend.”

    That said, he’d only saying that because hes incredibly close to being depressed and in extreme self loathing in response to being rejected and trying to protect his his will to live via delusional projection and lashing out. “IE she’s the one with a problem not me. I’m great. She’s a piece of shit and deserves to suffer.”

    People who don’t delude themselves about how great they are unfortunately usually don’t respond to rejection with “I need to improve myself” or “I’m just not his/her type I’ll find someone.” but with “I should kill myself, its hopeless. I’ll be romantically alone forever and I can’t take it.” and the sheer mortal terror of potentially thinking that way causes the delusional insulation and projection.

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    • TheDoozer@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      “I need to improve myself” or “I’m just not his/her type I’ll find someone.”

      Hm… the only thing I can remember thinking after having been rejected was “phew, that didn’t work out, but glad I tried!” and moved on with my life. That… might be more to do with the general dissociation that I’m starting to realize has been a major theme in my life.

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      • blarghly@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        That’s definitely not normal. Most people feel some kind of negative emotion in response to any kind of rejection.

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    • Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The incel mindset is an elaborately constructed self-reinforcing worldview. Anything that might lead to self-improvement is cut off with hopelessness and self-loathing and thought-terminating cliches.

      And Schneier’s Law applies: “Any person can invent a security system so clever that she or he can’t think of how to break it.” Incels trap themselves in a fiendish bespoke prison they have constructed for their own torment. If they didn’t direct that torment outward at people who don’t deserve it, they would be pitiable.

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  • steeznson@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Fake: Anon has friends

    Gay: Anon looks up men on the internet

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    • drewcarreyfan@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      What, so now it’s “gay” to be a man who is sexually and romantically attracted exclusively to other men? Man, what’s up with this world.

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  • red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    If we are the normies, what are 4chan users? The abnormies?

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    • Samdell@lemmy.eco.br ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Lemmy users are not normies

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      • red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        How dare you.

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      • meep_launcher@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        The real normies are the ones you made along the way

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      • j4k3@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Normal is someone you do not know well enough yet. It is a fictitious misconception. If you think about the concept objectively, you likely will not be able to name anyone you know really well that fits into the ideal group you have mentally abstracted as normal. The construct is part of tribalism and our human complex social hierarchy on a subconscious level; we are deciding who is and is not part of our personal tribe and their ranking within that hierarchy relative to our own. Everyone is abstracting on this level, but few are self aware in this space.

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      • nesc@lemmy.cafe ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Why? Having niche interests is pretty normal.

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    • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Lol lemmy is just as terrible with women as 4chan is. Do you remember what it was like here during the man vs the bear question? So many users being the example of why women would prefer the bear

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      • lka1988@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        This has nothing to do with online platforms, and everything to do with terminally-online people who have never experienced socializing with the opposite gender.

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    • waigl@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      These days, there is nothing abnormal anymore about a 4channer in highschool with a self-centered and entitled world view, low work ethics and a video gaming hobby. He is the normie. The guy who volunteers in a soup kitchen and takes active care of his own body is the one who dares to stand out and be different.

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      • Wanderer@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Have you met a youth lately?

        Every teenage and guy in their 20’s has two hobbies doom scrolling and gym. They can’t do anything else that doesn’t involve chatgpt

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    • lime@feddit.nu ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      lol like any of them have abs

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    • schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Everyone thinks of people who aren’t part of their group as “normies”. The Pope thinks of non-Catholics as normies. The Hebrew word for “normies” is “goyim”.

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      • Gullible@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Considering the community, you’re probably better off not talking about Jewish people.

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    • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Artists.

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    • BetaBlake@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Sociopathic deplorables

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    • AbnormalHumanBeing@lemmy.abnormalbeings.space ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      As literally an abnormie, I am appalled by that thought!

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    • Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Like most of us don’t visit 4chan or something…

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    • Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      According to them, robots, NEETs, -oids, etc.

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  • SARGE@startrek.website ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    doesn’t work out

    Hot damn, what an absolute piece of shit garbage human being.

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  • theblips@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I was this guy in my teens (minus the hoping girls get abused part…) and it 100% comes from depression and self loathing. He probably had a tough time getting along with the “normal” kids early on and decided to self isolate. Maybe the now normies had a part in that too back then, bullying him and so on, I know it happened to me… It’s a rough and very hard situation to live through, but there’s hope

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  • roguetrick@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Sloppy Seconds - If I Had A Woman

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  • selokichtli@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Enlightenment. Was that football player enlightened? Yeah, didn’t think so.

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  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Butthurt shithead.

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