If a gay man and lesbian woman have sex, is that gay or straight?

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• darkishgrey@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I believe the sex would he heterosexual, but the parties would still be homosexual. This happened a lot in lavender marriages. The fact they had sex to produce children didn’t change their sexuality.

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  • kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Similarly, e.g. two bi men getting married is a gay wedding, even though neither party is gay. The relationship can be described independently of the people in it.

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    • FozzyOsbourne@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I think that’s why we call it “same-sex marriage” rather than “gay marriage”

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• abbadon420@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’ve wondered the same thing when I was twelve, but eventually I grew up to realise that it was a stupid question.

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  • Rampsquatch@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sir, this is a shitposting forum.

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    • abbadon420@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I get confused sometimes

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  • semisimian@startrek.website ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sir, this is a Wendy’s.

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  • garbagebagel@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    You know it’s not a great question but it’s better to ask in a relatively safe environment than to make assumptions.

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• expatriado@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  they just happened to meet in a closet

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• moxlas@discuss.online ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Homo - same sex intercourse, hetero - man and woman having sex. Their orientation won’t make intercourse gay, it’s between different sexes so the act itself is heterosexual.

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  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    What even is sex?

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    • moxlas@discuss.online ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      An act of intercourse. But yeah what is life?

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• FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Remember, it’s not gay if both dudes are straight…

  Nah, in all seriousness, I think it would be heterosexual sex between two gay people? Idk.

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• ryedaft@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Just like when two straight men have sex?

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• 60d@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You’re gay if you watch.

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  • And009@lemmynsfw.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Image

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    • 60d@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      It’s also how gay people reproduce.

      A third person watches and is Become Gay, Destroyer of Sphincters.

      But if a baby results, it’s hermaphroditic.

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• jlow@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  The wouldn’t, though, so 🤷‍♀️

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  • KAtieTot@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    They might. Sexuality is a spectrum.

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• LordWiggle@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  If a gay man orders 15 kilos of potatoes online through 4g network while he travels by train between Amsterdam and Paris with an average speed of 130km/h, how many liters of Fanta does he drink?

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  • kingpepe8006@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Enough to feel FANTAstic

    Badum tshhhh

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• son_named_bort@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Having sex is gay

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• ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Hey everyone in the comments, you seem to be experts on the terminology

  Care to explain this comic to me? Oglaf: Memory (NSFW)

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  • Pacattack57@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Ya this is so convoluted and I feel like there are several jokes that are supposed to be obvious here. Usually the joke in this kind of stuff is the absurdity of the entire thing.

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  • FourWaveforms@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Are these two comics, or one comic where they turn into cats halfway through

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    • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      One. They are just cat suits. Also, I think the characters never appear before or since so there is no context that can help.

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• Microw@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’d say sexual intercourse in itself can’t be homo- or heterosexual since that is a denomitor for people’s sexual attractions.

  The sexual intercourse would simply be male-female sex.

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• kandoh@reddthat.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  A good time is what it’s called

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  • crusty@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I don’t think either is enjoying it

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    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah as a lesbian it sounds uncomfortable, awkward, and overall unpleasant

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• Denjin@lemmings.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Hetero - from the Greek ἕτερος meaning different or other

  Homo - from the Greek ὁμός meaning same

  Irregardless of the orientation of the people involved, if its two different gendered people having intercourse it’s heterosexual intercourse. It just wouldn’t be any fun for the people involved.

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  • kandoh@reddthat.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s only homo if it is clone sex. gotcha

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• GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yes.

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• codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Human beings are not proscriptive. A “gay” “man” is a human being with biological characteristics typical of human males, who acts in a manner society describes as masculine, and who feels attraction towards similar sexes and genders of people.

  If that person is forced into sex with a person they don’t feel desire for, I dunno, that’s some kind of thought-experiment rape. If a “gay” “man” has sex with a “lesbian” “woman” and it’s consensual for both of them then they are both, by a descriptive measure of what acts have occurred, bisexual people, who have just engaged in heterosexual coitus.

  That’s assuming that both of them have engaged in homosexual acts before of course. By the nature of this thought experiment, they both could be people who self-describe as such without actually having done it.

  They are free to consider themselves whatever they want, because self-descriptions of people are always based more on aspirations and desires than facts. Lots of billionaires consider themselves good humanitarians, and lots of straight people have suppressed homosexual desires. People are complex, contradictory, and our language falls behind in accurately describing reality.

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• Freshparsnip@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  This happens in the movie The Wedding Banquet

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• heyWhatsay@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I can tell from the comments that nobody has actually been in this situation.

  And the answer, is that it’s queer, not straight.

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  • FourWaveforms@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sounds bi to me

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  • Pacattack57@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Please provide an in depth analysis for your response. Thanks.

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