Fuck that I look way better.
I look older, sure. With less hair. A lot more single. But I’m down 90lbs and I’ve finally figured out style
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Fuck that I look way better.
I look older, sure. With less hair. A lot more single. But I’m down 90lbs and I’ve finally figured out style
That’s awesome, congrats! This is the kind of inspiration I need.
Same here. I’m getting a lot more attention from people who I thought were way out of my league when I was younger.
Oh I haven’t gotten any attention, mostly because I don’t get out of the house much.
I could. Probably should take a cooking class or something
Weirdly this is true.
I’m a lot less attractive in my appearance but aparently more attractive as a person.
and I’ve finally figured out style
Heeelllll yeah \m/
Nah, with age I become wiser and my look is more or less stable for the last 20 years. Just more white hair but that doesn’t look bad.
You’re maturing wrong :)
I feel like this is less true for women.
Yes, men definitely grow old better when it comes to looks. Women live longer than men though.
Partly! Some women explode out the gate with a little age on them. My ex-gf was pretty in her 30s, but in her late 40s would turn heads when she walked in the room. And then there are the plain Janes in high school that turn out OMFG years later.
100%. Also cleaning the kitchen. Always cleaning the kitchen.
And laundry. Always folding the laundry.
Not if I never fold it and just pull out of the basket for the rest of my life
The key to a successful relationship is to have one partner that is sort of ok with doing the laundry and one partner that is sort of ok with doing the dishes.
This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.
…which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.
Me when I look at my highschool id card. I thought I was hideous then. Now, on the other hand …
I feel seen. DON’T LOOK AT MY THOUGH I’M HIDEOUS!
Not as hideous as you’ll be in a few years!
The nice thing about not being naturally attractive is that as I get ilder and start to freak out about my physical health, I get better looking.
So for the most part I’m happy about always looking my best because dear god I’m gonna die at 40 if I don’t start working on my health now.
with estrogen… you just keep looking better
is there any sub where I can post my pictures to get a female eye on it? Lately I’ve been feeling very meh about myself
Reddit has subs for that but people are really not fair. Pretty people post pics of themselves and say they look awful. Yeah right.
Honestly I just want some ideas for mixing up my style. I’m jealous of my wife and daughter for all of the fun dresses and jewelry and whatnot they can do but masculine outfits don’t really allow for many options
There is if you know where to look, but yeah, I feel you. I want to wear long flowy coats and such, but they’re all cut at the goddamn hip.
I think guys usually look better when they get older. More charisma, confidence. Not all but quite a lot.
And I think the attraction level of genders change. Women are super attractive when they are 20, but its hard for them to stay attractive when they are 40. For men its the other way around… They look better at 40 than 20, and age better.
Of course just my opinion.
Blergh
Nah.
Some people age well, others don’t. IMO the ratio is about the same in any gender.
I hated my hair but I sure do miss it.
partial_accumen@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I’d change that as : “Being an adult is mostly realizing you didn’t look as bad as you thought you did because the only person that was concerned about that was you. Everyone else was doing their own thing focusing on themselves, just like they are now.”
ickplant@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I like this version.