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@i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Can’t catch a break
- Comment on Is a parent expressing regret of giving birth to a child directly to that child a normal thing that parents do? 22 hours ago:
I think it happens often. Doesn’t make it right. I’m sorry she said something so hurtful to you.
If you want advice or just to talk, message me. I will listen.
Curious about the meaning of life? I don’t think we’re really assigned roles. We’re just kind of here. You can just do the minimum if you want, just securing food and shelter. Or you can choose to do more if you have the means. You have the freedom to assign your own meaning to your life. I find most people either pursue religion/spirituality, community service, knowledge, or pleasure.
- Comment on I guess they hate shoppers (context below) 4 days ago:
Wow, what a maze. Are there accessibility laws that might be violated where this is?
- Comment on frienemies 6 days ago:
I wish my enemies were more logical. They just make bullshit up and bully me instead. Completely useless for self-improvement.
- Comment on Amazing. 1 week ago:
I bet that smelled fantastic.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Make your home as unattractive to pests as possible. You’re not going to be able to have airflow and keep the pests out of your computer.
Below is a dump of things I did when I had to deal with roaches.
Reduce moisture as much as possible. Roaches love water. Any leaks, even slow ones, should be addressed. Puddles should not be left ever.
Seal up any holes. If they’re coming out of around your outlets, there is some foam sheets you can install behind the plate to seal up that gap.
Seal up your food in your home as best as possible. No bags with clips. You must put it all in airtight containers.
Keep your kitchen and dining area clean. Never leave any dirty dishes out. All leftovers should be dealt with ASAP. Clean your sink, counters, table, and floor.
Take special care to maintain your dishwasher. Clean your garbage disposal daily at the least.
You must only eat in your designated dining room. Do not eat anywhere else.
Clean all of your floors daily. Sweep and mop. Vacuum your couch.
Take out your trash daily at the least.
You will also need to treat for the pests. If you’re sharing walls with other households and they’re not doing the same as you and they are not getting treatments, you have my condolences.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
One thing that would make a creep a creep is a power imbalance of some sort. For this to exist if we’re only considering the age gap between adults, is if one adult is so young they’re being taken advantage of.
A 20 year age gap where the younger is early 20’s is creepy, because the younger’s lack of experience makes them vulnerable. A 20 year age gap where the younger is in their 30’s or beyond isn’t, because the younger likely has the maturity to avoid being taken advantage of.
Are there any other factors that would make this creepy, like you have influence over this person’s career? If not, then no worries! Enjoy dating.
- Comment on It was africa all along 2 weeks ago:
Gender dysphoria, continental drift
- Comment on Good morning here is a terrible idea. 2 weeks ago:
Oh, what a cute noisy present. Perfect to stay at gift giver’s place when you visit!
- Comment on Sleep well 2 weeks ago:
Fair enough. If I witnessed a deer bashing its own brains out, I would definitely be so fucking freaked out my memory would be doing wild shit about the encounter, too. Filling in details that weren’t there, not noticing that only part of the brain fell out, just completely unreliable.
- Comment on Gardening idea 4 weeks ago:
What a prick
- Comment on I tried to be as honest as possible. Apparently I am evil oO 😈 5 weeks ago:
Photo of a screen: chaotic checks out
- Comment on That's only fair 5 weeks ago:
Yes, that is the Colorado state flag.
- Comment on Old skool 5 weeks ago:
Judging by the lack of flared base, the recipient will not be having a good time.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
Yep. My therapy was used against me in a court case. As a result, I just figured out how to deal with most things myself.
It has very negatively affected my health and isn’t optimal, but it’s a lot better than the alternative.
- Comment on I'm jealous 5 weeks ago:
Fuck you vegetables, you little delicious motherfuckers. I will eat your dicks and corpses.
- Comment on I'm jealous 5 weeks ago:
Getting that brocussy
- Comment on Math is amazing! 1 month ago:
NaN with you again
- Comment on How do I decrease acne after shaving my face? 1 month ago:
Do you have any metal allergies? If you think you do, you might consider looking for a blade without that particular metal. Most stainless steel contains nickel, which is a fairly common allergy.
- Comment on Winning 1 month ago:
It’s the physical manifestation thing. It also helps you try to be more mindful of your feelings. For instance, if you normally feel anxiety in your jaw, and you find your jaw tightening again in whatever situation you find yourself in, you might see if you can slow down and think of your next steps. Why am I feeling anxious? Should I take a break?
This only really made sense to me for the emotions that I strongly felt physically, like anxiety so bad I would get tunnel vision. For smaller physical reactions, not so much.
- Comment on when 1 month ago:
All of those beans, hanging out together, bodies touching. Ghey.
- Comment on The Circle of iLife 1 month ago:
I definitely have to give it to wireless sets, they are really convenient. I’m clumsy and it’s nice not having to be aware of the cable. (The sudden yank out of my ears… Aaaaaaargh.)
But I’m also forgetful (I don’t always remember to charge it…) and I have a low tolerance for connection problems so I do prefer wired in some scenarios.
I don’t get some people’s obsession with hating on wireless earbuds and headsets.
- Comment on Yep 1 month ago:
This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.
…which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.
- Comment on Anon watches Jurassic Park 1 month ago:
And best hope you’re not a minority when they come knocking.
- Comment on Thank 1 month ago:
I can’t polish a turd. :(
- Comment on I'm a 6'1" man with size 3 feet which means every they measure my feet at a shoe store, the Brannock device gatekeeps my gender 1 month ago:
So I’m not sure if you know this, but in the US the big kids sizes and the adult men’s sizes are the same. For example, a men’s 5 is the same as a big kid’s 5.
Next time you need to use a Brannock device and you’re sized out, have them get the one for the kids.
- Comment on Bros being bros 1 month ago:
Raw dogging women. The gayest thing a man can do.
- Comment on Anon has regrets 1 month ago:
I need a fitting room
- Comment on Ok, thanks... 1 month ago:
It was probably the shade of blue that didn’t suit your coloration. If you really did want blue hair, there is likely a shade that would harmonize with your features better.
- Comment on this is not satire this is not satire this is not satire 1 month ago:
I hate how misogynistic traditional art is! Just last week, when I was drawing, my pencil started ranting about “feeeeemales.”
- Comment on Getting a bit crowded in there. 1 month ago:
Looking at this makes my back hurt.