Anniversary this week. 26 years. Ooof.
Daily Discussion Thread: đ€čââïž Thursday, 16 January, 2025
Submitted âšâš2â© âšweeksâ© agoâ© by âšBaku@aussie.zoneâ© to âšmelbourne@aussie.zoneâ©
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useless_modern_god@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Wow! Congrats đŸ
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Thatâs one successful hook đș
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congrats đđ„
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congratulations, I hope you have many more happy years together. đ„
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congrats!
anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Happy anniversary!
SituationCake@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congratulations!
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
đđ
StudChud@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Mickey is so tolerant. He was incessantly scratching one of his ears, as if something was in there. So I told him âIâm going to grab my phone for the torch, and Iâll have a look pussâ.
He trotted to the tiles in the kitchen and flopped on his side so his problem ear was facing up. I was able to have a look, and noticed one of his body hairs was stuck in there. He let me gently tweeze it out and heâs been so happy since.
He is so fucking smart.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Beware of cats like that. First comes the flopping closely followed by world domination.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Before you know it, your entire life revolves around them and their fluffy demands.
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
What a good boy.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
That is so damn adorable â€ïž
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Looks like Reservoir is affordable, easy to get to Brunswick and Coburg and to work.
Will go have a look the next couple of days at a few places. Really wanted Brunswick but if I donât get a pay rise that ainât happening.
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Beware of Fawkner & Dallas. They look close but the agents are likely putting lipstick on the pigâs butt hole.
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I know about Dallas. But is fawkner really that bad?
TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Rezzaâs just up the road from Thornbury/Northcote, with all the open mic venues and music. Itâs a lot nicer than it used to be. May I recommend the butcher on the main drag? Has lovely grass fed beef, properly aged. Some good op shops too - the St Georges Anglican Church one is a hidden gem. Small but very choice stock. I did look into houses in Rezza when I moved out of EBrunswick. The lake side is lovely.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Reservoir is 10km from the city and close to inner north suburbs with the cool music venues! Inner-ish west could be another place to look? Or would you even consider somewhere north west or north east? I will have to have a think about suburbs
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Sounds damn good to me!
Pilk@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
If you live on floor 4 of an apartment building in the city and youâre currently cooking up something lemony/spicy/smoky/meaty, please invite me over for dinner. The smell entering the elevator when the doors opened on your floor was ambrosial.
PeelerSheila@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Not sure exactly what Iâm doing today but I know it involves a huge batch of mushroom sauce and some pretty big lasagnas. So đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ«đ« hey thereâs no emoji for lasagna! Why havenât I realised this before?
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Have spoken to more people today. Theyâre bailing. The director has set an all hands meeting for Tuesday, where she will no doubt tell everyone sheâs leaving.
Morale is non existent at the moment. Regardless of negotiations, im here till I move house. Then Iâm out.
Unless the interview i have Monday comes through. Then itâs worth living in the middle of nowhere for another 6 months.
Taleya@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
weâre at the point today where weâve got the doors open but both of us working from home with cats free ranging and mingling under supervision please donât make us regret this please donât make us regret this itâs been six weeks I want my house back
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Iâve been sitting down all of 4 minutes and already my resolve for no coffee is being tested.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Just paid $200 so I can take a four hour test to say I have the literacy and numeracy skills to be a teacher. They threw in an âonline convenience feeâ too. đđ„Č
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Spoke to some more people at work today. Theyâre all interviewing for other places.
Far out.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Thanks for all the well wishes yesterday with the doggo. He had surgery yesterday, and the vet said it went well. đđ
Baku@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I tried tofu for the first time today. Honestly, Iâm a pretty big fan. I didnât try it in anything fancy, just a small fried rice. I wasnât sure I was like it, but tbh I donât think I wouldâve noticed anything wrong if they told me it was a chicken fried rice
Force_majeure123@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Donât you open that trap door! You are a fool if you dare! Stay away from that trap door! âCos thereâs something down there!
Baku@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I got bad family news in early November. Another death. It was somebody else that I never got to meet, but was directly and quite closely related to me
Iâve been thinking about it for a few months, and have even brought it up with my psych, but nothingâs really helped. Itâs weird because I know that Iâm meant to feel something, and indeed do feel something, but itâs unidentifiable and not overwhelming emotion
Apparently 2 days before he died, he tried to get in contact with me through child protection. Because of bureaucracy, I didnât find out about it until over 2 weeks later. That made it worse. Nobody knows what the message was, but trying to contact me was one of the last things he ever did :/
bacon@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
sky pretty
just_kitten@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
I am done for the day, sadly later than Iâd hoped as I did not pick up the pace much in the afternoon. Now I must battle the tennis crowds to get out of here. So hungry. Might have a pizza tomorrow as a treat
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
super tired and have migraine, think I will have a lie down
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
this headache is just about approaching âbail from workâ levels, but I have a psych appointment after work so I cant go home to come back in. And there is a not 0 change the headache is due to stress so its pretty necessary.
Thornburywitch@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Iâm putting this under a NSFW, as it may be triggering for some of us. Concerns a situation that Iâve become aware of at work. Iâm not sure I have all the details either. But thereâs a moral dilemma here that I would welcome some feedback on.
messy divorce case
A really messy divorce case. Husband accused by wife of child abuse, which he denies. Kids (2 aged 6 & 9) have been examined by psychs and doctors and donât show signs of abuse. Barring a claim by the elder child that Dad wonât let him have more than one fizzy drink per day. Both kids are scared shitless of their mum, who is a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic who refuses to take medication. When in her custody, kids have twice taken themselves down to the Salvos begging for shelter overnight. Kids now in husbandâs custody exclusively, and doing well in school.
Wife has sprayed accusations of child abuse across several forms of social media targeting : 1) husband, 2) her dentist, 3) kidsâ doctor, 4) her doctor, 5) two teachers at the kidsâ school, 6) four of her neighbours. All âtargetsâ have been investigated by the police specialist unit, and all except one have been cleared of any such crimes.
However, the dentist, doctors, and the teachers have all been sacked from their place of employment, and the dentistâs wife has been forcefully requested to resign from her tennis club and other social groups. And none were re-instated when the accusations turned out not to have any evidence supporting them.
One neighbour is still under investigation, but the others have been cleared. I donât know if thereâs been any further effects on them.
Given that several of the accused persons have suffered very real financial and social harm from accusations that may never be truly forgotten so long as the web exists. And they will be under suspicion for the rest of their lives and probably their families as well. Even though theyâve been cleared of wrongdoing.
Question for the DT hive mind : should the wife (who is clearly a very damaged person) be sued for libel/damages for her accusations? Has she committed a crime here? Should she get some sort of penalty for making false accusations? Or should she get off scot free because sheâs mentally ill and presumably not in full control of her actions? Yes Iâve muddied up some of the details for privacy reasons, but the basic dynamics are as accurate as I can make them.Alamutjones@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
What up
useless_modern_god@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
HEY ! HO ! LETS FUCKIN GO !
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
ta da, tried on an old pair of jeans and they fit again đ now to get into even smaller jeans and pants , maybe even some blouses that are way too tight
useless_modern_god@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Phrase you might not have heard in real life:
âWalking around moneyâ
I love this phrase. Similar to âpocket moneyâ
Taleya@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
bankaust appears to have shat out o joyyyyy
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Should be a bright naked eye comet in the next few days. Lookinâ SW-ish close to the horizon at sunset.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Took melatonin last night. Woke up with a headache and drowsiness. Read some papers and it turns out the optimal dosage is 0.3 mcg according to some. I probably ended up taking 1.5mg. Ya live and ya learn.
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Helllooooo.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
5pm rave choon get it like blaaaow
Gonna move a bit more mulch now⊠like blaaaow.
Thankfully the soil / mulch sitch is drawing to a close. Starting to resent the shovel.
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Contact signed, deposit paid. Mad Kermit arms flailing!!!
useless_modern_god@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Yay! DT housewarming party
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Please remove your shoes and donât piss on the neighbourâs fence
tone212_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congrats! So happy for you.
Bottom_racer@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congrats!
StudChud@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Fuck yesssssss!!!
anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Woohoo! Congrats! đ„ł
TinyBreak@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
how long is settlement?
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
30, going in fast Captain.
just_kitten@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Aaaaaahhhhh!!! Congrats!!!
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Whoa. Congrats đ„đ
Sticking local or more hunt for a new coffee shop sitch?
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
About 3km difference. All the favourite things are still in range, just accessed a bit differently. What postcodes do to price tags is outrageous.
SituationCake@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congratulations!
Eagle@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Yay!!!
Duenan@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Woo hoo!!!
SpinMeAround@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Yayyyy!!! Thatâs so exciting!!
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
đ
underwatermagpies@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Woohoo! Yay! All the screaming! đŸđŸ
Catfish@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Much, much screaming đž đ
PeelerSheila@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Hey congratulations! đđŒđ
Seagoon_@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Congrats. đŸđ
Thornburywitch@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Woohoo! Best feeling ever.