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• kitnaht@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  And they still wouldn’t sleep with you.

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  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    What’s the old incel joke? What’s the difference between a slut and a bitch? A slut will sleep with anyone. A bitch will sleep with anyone but you.

    Which is a horrible joke in so many ways, but it so clearly depicts that kind of incel thinking that it merits looking at.

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  • rovingnothing29@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Now that’s a sick burn.

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  • TheBrideWoreCrimson@sopuli.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Last in Line for the Gang Bang

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• gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I agree, and personally find “chaste” or “prude” women unattractive.

  I find it very fascinating and difficult to relate to that large swaths of the population seem to see it differently. The number of times i’ve heard some man say “women should all be more modest” is mind-blowing for me.

  Women, as all humans, have value within themselves, and if they manage to express that (“self-expression”) then the outer world gets to see and share a part of that value. If people don’t act on their instincts, they might as well be dead. Non-constructivists “traditionalists” are only dead weight and don’t contribute anything to society, and i don’t comprehend how some people can see meaning outside of the expressions of the living’s soul. That is why self-expression is so important.

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  • Isoprenoid@programming.dev ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    If people don’t act on their instincts, they might as well be dead.

    Psychopaths: “Oh boy, here I go killing again.”

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    • Turret3857@infosec.pub ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I feel like theres a bit of a leap in logic there, from being open about sex to killing people

      also I tho8ght that was a family guy quote and was SEVERELY disappointed when I looked it up

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    • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      fair enough

      btw i think you’re confusing “psychopaths” and “sociopaths” here. what you’re referring to is sociopaths, i think, who have little concern for human life. Psychopaths, on the other hand, have difficult time making coherent thoughts, but that mostly affects themselves and their ability to work constructively, not so much their environment.

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    • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Wouldn’t it be more efficient if you manipulate others into killing for you?

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  • SitD@lemy.lol ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    in a framework where people are just alive to mate this is a valid theory, but women can also self-express in more ways than offering sex 😂 also, people who only act on their instincts are even more dead than the ones that never act on their instincts. whenever your mode of operation is exactly and only one, never changing, that’s not a good thing.

    anyways, i agree with the core here, which is that vast amounts of the population heavily communicates what criterions others have to fulfill to be desirable. I’d much rather prefer everyone does what they want and chill out

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    • HalfSalesman@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      No, its a valid theory even if women self-express in ways other than sexuality and the post you were responding to wasn’t suggesting “only acting on instincts” in the first place. But that our society of repressing sexuality is making most of us miserable. There is only a select few people who seem to actually benefit from this set up, and that’s people who either don’t actually desire sexuality for direct enjoyment at all or value it and how it interacts with them more for obtaining other things other than sexual things in life.

      AN important thing to note, people expressing themselves in ways outside of sexuality can make them sexier. And being sexier can enhance non-sexual aspects of a person.

      I think the issue people have is they think wanting sexuality from a person means you are objectifying them by reducing them to sexuality, when in reality its that the sexuality is enhanced by them specifically not being an object. There are many reasons sex with a person and not with a dildo or fleshlight is considered a lot more pleasurable but one of them is that people aren’t objects.

      Also almost no one only operates in one “mode of operation” anyway. This isn’t a real problem except in the minds of prudes. The apparent “obsession” with sex for some people is temporal, some people desire sex up front and then want to do other things once satisfied. Some people want to do other things and then find themselves in the mood after some time with the alternate activity. Its not complicated.

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  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    No one asks the iron what it wants to be before it’s hammered into a crucifix. This is why the religious spend so much time grooming their children for their cult.

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• isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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  • Hupf@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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    gelbooru

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• LodeMike@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Zero of this text is green

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    “Anonymous” is

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    • LodeMike@lemmy.today ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Bet

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• AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  He left himself wide open to that one

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  • skepller@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Just like his mom too!

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• AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  This sounds great (as someone sorta into this) until you realize that youre probably also someone shell just fuck and then leave. Also if every woman and or man would be like this it wouldnt be special and you wouldnt look up to it soo… yeah

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  • JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    A relationship is not special because you fuck. It is special because you’re with a person you mesh well with. No amount of fucking will save a relationship that is not built on mutual compatibility.

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    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Right, and someone with >100 partners kinda outs themselves as rubber either incapable of or uninterested in a stable relationship.

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  • exasperation@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Also if every woman and or man would be like this it wouldnt be special and you wouldnt look up to it soo… yeah

    I eat food every day, but there are also plenty of meals I’ll remember fondly and think of as special.

    I like hosting dinner parties where I cook for my friends and family. I can assure you that even though I do this for a lot of loved ones, they generally still appreciate each dinner I make. It is still perceived fundamentally differently from a commercial transaction (like buying takeout from a licensed restaurant).

    It doesn’t just apply to food, either. Sometimes it feels good to have someone do something for you, where the exclusivity or rarity of that act doesn’t even factor into whether it feels meaningful.

    So no, your hypothesis of “if everyone was fucking all the time, fucking wouldn’t feel special” doesn’t seem to hold up in comparison to other things in life.

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  • Bytemeister@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Doesn’t matter had sex.

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  • deaf_fish@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    If it is normalized to be a person who sleeps with a lot of people. Then there is no reason to lie about it. So the thing you’re concerned about would happen less and not more. Unless you intentionally went after people who publicly say they like open relationships. In which case it’s a skill issue on your part.

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• MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  This is the least attracted to loose women I’ve ever been. I hate you, OP.

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  • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Reminds you too much of your own mom?

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    • MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Too much of things recently learned about my mom.

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• JoeKis@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Image source… Asking for a friend

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  • AGNSFWAccount@lemmynsfw.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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    • JoeKis@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      My friend said thanks 🙇

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• selokichtli@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  OP’s mom looks like that?

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• PanArab@lemm.ee ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Or the exact opposite

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• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Why they talkin about my moms?

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  • arin@lemmynsfw.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Sounds like itur dad is the gigaslut

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    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Nah, OP has two gigaslut moms.

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    • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Legit? I joke about my mom being a ho, but my dad, holy shit.

      He was always faithful within the rules of their marriage, but in his younger days, and after they divorced? Dude was a man ho to a good extent. More so post divorce, since his younger days were pre sexual revolution, but I now people he grew up with, and he definitely was not a paragon of chastity at all.

      He also did a stint between his two marriages where he was leaving tracks all over three counties.

      I kid you not, I did home health for most of my working years, and I lost count of how many women (and a few men) would get “that look” when someone would ask which branch of the families that share my surname I was from, and I’d tell them. They’d ask if I knew him, and I’d say he was my dad, and that look, with blushes and some smiles would pop up.

      I’ve actually met plenty of his post divorce partners, since we’ve shared housing for a long time now. And he would sometimes come home with multiple. One night, the guy showed up with three women, another guy, and a bag from the drug store full of condoms.

      Shit. He was only maybe five years older than me at that time. Older than I am now.

      We joke about there being some hidden siblings for me and my sister, but he was too careful for that.

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