deaf_fish
@deaf_fish@lemm.ee
An Embedded Software Engineer who does game dev as a hobby.
- Comment on Existential trolley problem 4 days ago:
I think that is how I would be if on a ship.without a computer, going insane.
- Comment on Marvels Rivals requires creators to sign a contract that removes your right to give a negative review to access the playtest 4 days ago:
That’s by design. They weren’t interested in writing a good game or getting honest feedback. They wanted everyone to buy it and get money for it.
- Comment on A conversation with my wife 1 week ago:
I think it comes down to whether or not there is negative stigma with being circumcised.
We all have to set our own bar on this one, from my perspective, I don’t see that society really cares if a person is cut or uncut.
I would say that if this is causing problems for your life, then you should consider seeking therapy. Even if it turns out that society is gunning for you, getting help can make it easier to live in that society.
- Comment on A conversation with my wife 1 week ago:
My dude, I’m circumcised.
I don’t get out much, is this a thing that happens a lot? I guess I don’t openly declare I’m circumcised to my social group. So there’s no way that they would know. But if they did would they make that a big deal? I have a hard time imagining that they would even care.
Are you sure this is a societal problem and not a friend group problem?
- Comment on A conversation with my wife 1 week ago:
I assume there’s more context than just the statements. If someone randomly happens to use the word cut or snippy in a sentence, I don’t think that means they are making fun of a circumcision.
- Comment on Thomas Edison was the Elon musk of his era 2 weeks ago:
A random person was just so upset that there was a post about a topic that they personally don’t care about, that they decided to whine about it in said post.
A lot of people care about cars. In some countries they are required to do anything.
So, do you do this often?
- Comment on Come on, science! 2 weeks ago:
The science on most of this stuff is done already. Most of your requests could be implemented tomorrow. No problem.
This is not a science problem. This is a capitalism problem.
- Comment on Explain yourselves, comp sci. 2 weeks ago:
Maybe they mean std::vector in C++?
- Comment on It helps to set your preferred age range from 18-110 for full coverage 3 weeks ago:
Yes, if you want an example, look at fetishes. Also if you look through history, you’ll find that what people considered attractive varied massively.
But also to your point, the media that we all consume says that this is the kind of person that looks attractive. And so if you ask most people what is attractive, they will tell you the standard Hollywood type.
But I think most people, if they see someone that gives them that happy brain tingle, would go for it even if who they’re looking at isn’t conventionally attractive.
Don’t get me wrong, if you’re not conventionally attractive, it does make things harder, but not impossible.
If you need a modern example, I’m a fat computer nerd, and my wife found me on the internet.
- Comment on It helps to set your preferred age range from 18-110 for full coverage 3 weeks ago:
This is just venting? lemmy.world/comment/9580103
Then I’m not sure I can tell the difference between venting and someone giving an opinion that they are willing to defend. I’m also not sure how anyone could tell the difference.
- Comment on It helps to set your preferred age range from 18-110 for full coverage 3 weeks ago:
I sympathize and also I disagree that there’s only one curve. Everyone is different about what they like. One person uggo will be someone else’s hotty.
Now, if you’re not conventionally attractive that is definitely harder because everyone’s opinions are skewed.
I also understand that you may feel like just giving up on finding a match. If that’s the case, that’s you’re right. When you really do give up, please stop posting about how it’s impossible to find someone. You’re being discouraging to others who are still trying. And the only other option is State mandated partners. Trust me no one wants that not even you.
- Comment on A very late "Weekly “What are you playing” Thread || Week of March 31st" 1 month ago:
Dungeon crawl stone suop
- Comment on Motivational 5 months ago:
Upvoating for comedy not accuracy.
It’s unlikely to create a successful business late in life, but not impossible. Best of luck to all who are giving it a shot!
- Comment on Think anyone would notice? 6 months ago:
No one is happy. That is how you know you have reached a compromise.
- Comment on Sometimes you have to just "Let It Go" 6 months ago:
This is too real. Please tell me this isn’t a thing.