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Anon is a paramedic

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Submitted ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works⁩ to ⁨greentext@sh.itjust.works⁩

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  • yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Aye, don’t send innocents to war, not their war, but fuck politic dumbasses. Let ppl gain some living salaries, nothing luxury, but something to live with, throw some respect if they do weirdo decision about themselves… don’t act like an assholes who know better how others should be. Don’t push anons to such stories, to no stories where they pick a shotguns and aim, anyone.

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    • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      He who wants war, must be sent himself.

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  • SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Don’t tempt me. I’d relish a chance to hurt him like that. Not worth to die for it though.

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  • snoons@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    fffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

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  • affenlehrer@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
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    • Object@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Image

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      • affenlehrer@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yeah but the green text said something like: “There is no better food in the world than pancakes”

        It was super specific. Why not “a parent losing their child”?

        You are right to call me out but as a father of a daughter I felt a bit attacked and just thinking about the combination of her and suicide made me not think right. I’m sorry.

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      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        nah, twitter not the only place.

        try hating out with a insecure person. they will do this about literally everything you say.

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      • MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        wait what was the comment?

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    • 5ibelius9insterberg@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Nooooo…. It’s the manly love only fathers can feel for their sons. Every other love is tainted, because Females^tm^ are part of it. Only Anon and his dad can feel this purest form of affection. /s

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      • MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Females™ got me rolling.

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    • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Grief if not a competition.

      For fuck sake…

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    • TheYojimbo@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      How is that your take from this post ?

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      • affenlehrer@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        It’s very specific (not parents losing children), repeated twice (green and white text). I’m a father of a daughter. The thought of something happening to her made me not think right and write it.

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  • guerilla_ontologist@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    maybe this is helpful for people that are actively suicidal but i deal with a lot of passively suicidal ideation and to me this comes across as emotionally manipulative scolding.

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    • kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I get it but you are in less immediate danger and the post isn’t targeted at you then. Please get the help you need though.

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  • mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    killed himself after coming back from Iraq

    GOOD 🦀 🦀 🦀 🦀

    don’t wanna know how many parents had the same reaction as his because of what that shitstain was at the very very least enabling. The fact that he got so bad he couldn’t live with himself anymore tells me it was more than just paper-pushing though…

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    • lemmur@szmer.info ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Bro wtf?

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      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        some people here think anyone who ever works for the military is a person who is awful and deserves death or worse.

        they are idiots and awful people themselves, but they feel they are good people for being so hateful and horrible to ‘worse people than them’.

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      • mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I’m just a karmic justice enjoyer

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    • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Unfortunately, the people that most deserve it are the ones that have zero issues.

      The ones who tried to survive in something that turned out much different than what they thought or what they were sold are the ones who get fucked up by it.

      I guarantee you the people behind Abu Ghraib are sleeping well and believe they did the right thing.

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      • mathemachristian@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Unfortunately, the people that most deserve it are the ones that have zero issues.

        yeah they run for congress

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        The ones who tried to survive in something that turned out much different than what they thought or what they were sold are the ones who get fucked up by it.

        so they didn’t know they would be killing people? That the war was unjust? Have they paid attention to any war the US was in before signing up for the least moral army in the world?

        I guarantee you the people behind Abu Ghraib are sleeping well and believe they did the right thing. As did the people who manned the Gulag watchtowers, the Nazi gas chambers or whatever.

        They raped kids in front of their moms, they do not “believe they did the right thing” they’re just cruel because they’re taking cues from the dirlewanger brigade.

        The people who manned the gas chambers famously weren’t ok after, but a complete mess. I don’t know what you mean by the people manning the gulag towers, no abuse similar to abu ghraib or the concentration camps is known to me.

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  • man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Damn that’s some fucking sad shit. Gave me some goosebumps.

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  • Juice@midwest.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Shutup I’m not crying you’re crying

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  • rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    People with dead fathers: Sucks to be you, I guess

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      TBH my dad dying was one of the best things that ever happened to me.

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      • MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Those achievements sound impressive, and I’m proud of you. I know it’s not nearly the same to read it from me - a random fediverse stranger - as it would it to heard it from him, but I still want to say it. Also glad to know things got better for you.

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  • someacnt@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
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    • boletus@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      To society, your existence is inconsequential. To your family though, your existence is paramount. An individual suicide has almost no effect on most of society, but has a tragic and lifelong impact on everyone you care about.

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      • someacnt@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
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    • figjam@midwest.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      You are wrong. Your father may hate your actions but he does not hate you the person. If you take some steps to turn it around he would be rooting you on (even if he does a shit job of expressing it)

      Your story isn’t done.

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      • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Making a reply this confrontational is probably doing more harm than good. Cookie-cutter replies don’t help, you need to actually tailor the response to people’s needs.

        Also, sometimes parents are completely terrible people. I have a grandmother that only sees people as things to manipulate. She doesn’t care about her kids apart from how they affect her image, because she’s a Trump-level narcissist. Making claims that could easily be wrong also hurts your case

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    • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      “Society” hates you? Then suicide would only be a net gain if you cared about everyone’s feelings equally. Fuck the bigoted mouthbreathers that would cheer to see you dead, every day you survive despite the odds is a tiny middle finger.

      Pissing in Jeff Bezos’ morning coffee would probably make him unhappy as well, yet I’d gladly do it and not feel bad about it. Respect and tolerance are an opt-in thing. If someine denies it to others, they don’t deserve it themselves

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    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      nobody cares about you that much. nobody hates you.

      you hate yourself.

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  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Life ends eventually anyways, whats the rush? Just not give a shit and do what you can.

    Do you really think you being the one who is shot will make this a better place to live? What if you could die slightly later in life for a good cause?

    That said I get it. Life blows for the vast majority. I didnt have kids so they didnt have to go through the pain of existence. Did you get your vasectomy yet?

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    • Soup@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      One night I had the weird headache out of nowhere. Still don’t know what it was or where it came from. No idea why, but I ended up on the couch just thinking “everything is bad, I’m bad, why even bother, I fucking suck at everything, etc.”

      I’m pretty good at separating myself from my own thoughts, especially when things get out of hand, so I knew to just sit and let it blow over. This was very, very good because in that moment I caught a glimpse of where someone might be if they were thinking of commiting suicide. It was such a strong force of self-hate and hopelessness all I could really do was lie there and hope it would pass.

      Had a normal day after that, but holy hell. There’s not a lot of logic to it, the best you can really do is be kind to people and pray they see the lighthouse in the storm.

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      • starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yeah people who don’t get this are lucky enough to have never experienced long periods of their entire reality being negative. Not just thoughts, the experience of getting little to no positive feelings at all from anything. Living with that for a few days/maybe weeks is bearable, but for quite a few people that’s just their full experience (and loss of community etc makes it worse).

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    • poopsmith@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Chronic pain and discomfort can certainly make you want to rush to the end.

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