Come into my house with shoes on and you’ll be lucky to leave alive
I want someone to overlay the map of countries that still use TP instead if water. Then we will know the real barbarians. \s
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Come into my house with shoes on and you’ll be lucky to leave alive
I want someone to overlay the map of countries that still use TP instead if water. Then we will know the real barbarians. \s
Boomer from Hamilton , Ontario, Canada, and growing up it was probably 70% shoes ON in my parts…lots of kids, in and out constantly.Obviously, snow and mud were exceptions. The 30% shoes OFF homes were the outliers…
It wasn’t until my late teens that I started to notice a shift, personally and societally, to shoes OFF.
Nowadays, even if the host *insists* that I keep my shoes ON, it doesn’t feel right, so I tend not to.
This. Shoes on was the default, not so anymore.
Sandals when I’m inside. On rare occasions I’ll wear socks and house shoes, but that’s usually when I’m cleaning floors or something wet.
I could get behind sandals. I had back issues for years and sometimes the only thing that helped when I was in the kitchen were slippers with a good rubber sole. Even then it kind of felt like kissing your sister - kinda good, but the good didn’t out weigh the moral shame
As an American, I don’t believe I’ve ever been in someone’s home that allows me to wear my shoes indoors unless I am only on non-carpeted floor, and/or not staying long.
People don’t like other people dragging shit on the bottom of their shoes into their living spaces.
I’m curious what state you are in. White people in California very much wear shoes inside.
I’m not the person you asked but this whole thread is wild to me. I’ve lived in 9 different states including CA and I can only remember like 2 homes that wore shoes inside and they were super Asian that had house slippers/shoes they would put on. Aside from special occasions I have literally never seen anyone just walk inside with shoes on and not take them off. Y’all people are dirty lol
I mean, if you live in the north it’s pretty much a given that you want the snowy, soon to be water dripping, winter boots off when you come in from the freezing blizzard.
Shoes on the main floor are ok but not upstairs
Well this makes me more proud to be a Canadian.
Buuut, I’m noticing a pattern. If it’s a very dry country then I guess you have less chance of mud and are more likely to wear your shoes inside.
American here. My childhood home was completely covered in thick carpet, except the entryway and the kitchen, which was laminate tile. Yes, even the bathroom was carpeted. My bedroom literally had shag carpet.
My family always wore shoes indoors. And then wondered why the carpet was discolored, worn, and tearing in places.
I spent 20 years traveling the world after becoming an adult and learned about many other cultures who took off shoes before entering homes. Now I feel weird wearing shoes even in the entryway.
By the way, I’m retired now and living back in my childhood home, which I inherited when my father passed away. The whole place has been re-carpeted, the bathroom and dining room floors have been swapped out for laminate/wood paneling, and when I get around to remodeling the living rooms, I’ll probably switch them to wood floors as well.
I love that you got your childhood home back.
I always dreamed of getting my childhood home back but it’s just not in the cards. It was a beautiful acreage - the house sucked, but the property was what made it great. We had about 15 40 ft spruce trees in our yard, a dogwood hedge that would grow from 5 ft to 8 ft if you turned your back on it for more than 3 days (lol), tons of Aspen for a young Shovel to stomp around in, and a slough in the back for said Shovel to catch woodfrogs.
We sold to move into town a few years after my parents split.
Some dickhead moved in, built a big barn thing on one side of the property and cut the bottom branches of a lot of the spruce trees which ruined a lot of the privacy the place had.
I always wanted to move back, rip the house down and build my own house on it. Instead, I moved my young family to a small town about 15 minutes from where I grew up. I still get the country feel and the connection with the landscape I longed for, even though it’s not exactly the same, and we have a new-build house.
I guess I did ok.
I need mongolia to provide historical context.
If you wear your shoes in the house, you are a a less-than
Our house is not as clean as I want it, but, if we wore shoes in the house it would be way worse. We have a family member that lives next door and is constantly walking around our house with shoes and it drives me nuts. If they weren’t so helpful I’d say something.
Tell me you don’t know anything about the US without telling me.
Not true. Over 44% of you guys like boots inside on so you can continue to lick them. Hence the map accuracy. The remaining percentage didn’t care to vote or had too strict a purity test to rally enough consensus to kick out the boot lovers.
well at least your bio is accurate
How the hell did Canada become a shoes off country when it’s not only surrounded by shoes on but also both of its major contributing cultural influences (UK and France) are supposedly shoes on?
Our outdoors can be very mucky and wet and very dry and dusty depending in the season. Polite northern folk are clean, and we like to keep our hosts houses clean too. Shoes on is considered quite rude. During the summer we allow for short walk throughs with dry shoes on, but you ask first if its ok. House slippers are common but not everyone wears them, up here it’s a “socks or slippers” debate.
This is exactly it. I’m mostly in the sock camp, and only wear slippers at my computer in the basement.
Bare feet is somehow almost as bad as shoes, the only caveat is if you show up in sandals
I don’t know for UK, but France is not a full shoes inside society. It really depends where you live, and probably when.
I have shoes I wear specifically in the house I broke my ankle a couple years ago and ever since, walking without shoes has been uncomfortable and even painful. So I have inside shoes and outside shoes.
You get a pass. That’s a legit reason
Hooray!
Where do slippers fall on this? I’m a shoes off person, but in the winter I’ve started wearing slippers inside.
I wear slippers or socks. Bare feet are just as bad or worse than shoes because of oils and such from your feet.
Shoes stay at the door and showers are taken at night!
Shoes on everywhere for me BUT it’s Birkenstock type sandals indoors.
Yeah this shocked me coming to the Netherlands. Thing is, when everybody else is wearing shoes, you don’t wanna walk around in socks or barefoot cuz the floor gets nasty. It’s a vicious cycle
I feel like the US is very split on this.
Personally I have all hard floors and don’t care if someone has shoes on, but personally shoes in the house feels weird to me.
Hawaii?
100% shoes off, or failing that, flippahs.
chanclas ftw
Dobles para defensa del hogar también
I went to an Indian house and those guys wore shoes inside
Central Asia is definitely shoes off. So this map is not correct.
Am from Florida we flip a coin every time we enter or leave a house on if we are doing shoes on or off.
I don’t know any non foreigners in the IS who keep their shoes on, with the exception of VERY rural areas.
I work from home and only really leave the house to go to the grocery store once every week or two. I wear shoes probably about fifty percent of the time, my feet will start to hurt if I don’t. I have two pairs of sneakers that are over five years old and a pair of boots that are almost twenty years old that I rotate. I think I must just live a lot different lifestyle than most folks.
What the fuck does this mean??
Shoes off means you don’t wear shoes inside your house. The reverse the opposite.
My dad came to visit once. He’s a shoes off kind of guy. Pretty diligent about it too. Problem is, he just doesn’t like wearing them anywhere. Sure go stand in my half mud yard and smoke a cigar and then walk right back into my kitchen.
We decided to show him around the area. Drive out to the coast. Leaving the car, “Dad you might want your shoes.” Get to the beach, as we’re strong into the sand, he stops, “I think I should put my shoes on.”
I fucking died.
All this to say, if you’re shoes off, make sure everyone is shoes on outside.
That last line, I’m going to leave it, but it doesn’t make sense.
House slippers that are never out stomping turds and spit? Nope. All good.
olafurp@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
I want to get another map which includes rules for guests. In some countries it’s shoes off unless you’re a guest.
PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
Canada checking in. If you walk into my house with shoes on, we’re throwing hands.
tamal3@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Practically, there’s no way I’m gonna ask my old arthritic dad to take his shoes off when he comes into my house. Even though he somehow always has the muddiest shoes of anyone I know 😂