Just be bi? Solves a lot of it.
Why do so many people seem confused about what appeals to male gays? Do they not know how sexual orientation works?
Submitted 20 hours ago by TheBat@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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BreadOven@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Kolanaki@pawb.social 15 hours ago
I mean… I am pansexual and no, I don’t fucking know how sexuality works.
How do you determine who is “hot?” How does just looking at someone, with their clothes on, turn you on? I don’t work that way. I don’t get it.
I’m not attracted to men or women. I am attracted by penises and vaginas and buttholes and balls. The only thing that would make me sexually unattracted to a person, is if they have absolutely no genitalia at all and had a plastic doll crotch.
I know this isn’t normal. If it was even common, I’d surely have found another person that is the same.
Rubanski@discuss.tchncs.de 8 hours ago
I would say face and body shape. Sometimes voice. General appearance in terms of confidence and, in later stages, ability to socialize and “present” themselves.
orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 hours ago
Poor Megan Fox… how far she fell.
Naich@lemmings.world 19 hours ago
She definitely looks better in the lower picture.
thermal_shock@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Omg, I never like her acting, but she was FAR from unattractive, even if not my type
But God damn she’s barely a manequin’s type now. Wtf do celebs fuck themselves over. Same with starlight from the boys.
Dozzi92@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
eager_eagle@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
I had to look her up. I don’t get why some women seem so terrified of aging that they become something… well, not human-looking.
Rubanski@discuss.tchncs.de 7 hours ago
Imagine your whole life consists of thousands if not millions of people saying you are good looking. Suddenly, age takes it’s toll and now it’s only hundreds. Now the dopamine flow (a lot of) people get from admiration, is dwindling . I bet basically investing a lot of your stat points into appearance ( by luck and genes), now withering away, makes you way more determined, trying to reverse that process. Especially if you have no skill to fall back on which could outweigh your appearance “effect” but will still keep generating adoration/respect/interest by people.
Nasan@sopuli.xyz 18 hours ago
Without knowing all the facts, I’ve been placing the blame largely on her relationship with Machine Gun Kelly. Man, fuck that guy.
Though I’m sure a lot of it was her own doing too.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
I assume at least two variants: very effeminate men or buff and hairy/otherwise traditionally masculine men.
MumboJumbo@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Or y’know, just regular dudes.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Gay men like men is definitely a tautology, lol.
DrDystopia@lemy.lol 15 hours ago
That too.
WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Check out the work of Luca Guadagnino. Very male gaze on male gays. Daniel Craig included.
cmgvd3lw@discuss.tchncs.de 20 hours ago
It depends on the age group they are trying to appeal to.
bdonvr@thelemmy.club 12 hours ago
Uh there’s plenty of gay dudes the top pic would appeal to.
Other prefer… different. But I think most would at least appreciate that bod.
SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 hours ago
Why are you gaze?
TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Do you perform ze obligations?
caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 15 hours ago
IWW4@lemmy.zip 16 hours ago
I get that this is a shit post, but I am honestly confused.
What is the OP saying?
TheBat@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Appealing to male gays vs appealing to male gaze.
garbagebagel@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
This is a really fucking funny joke and I am so sad I needed you to explain it.
renamon_silver@lemmy.wtf 15 hours ago
I will translate. The OP is saying there is a distinct absence of male ass in the first pic.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
Yeah, I didn’t understand the link between the image and the text either, thanks! 😅
IWW4@lemmy.zip 10 hours ago
Ahh ok, I get it. Thank you