Submitted 1 week ago by briongloid@aussie.zone to melbourne@aussie.zone
A minor PSA.
If you’re doing it a bit tough and you’re the Carlton area, Kathleen Syme library have a fridge in their entryway with free Fareshare meals available. Max 2 per person.
Particularly good for chronic health gang, as they’re heat and eat meals
Thanks to all for the words of support yesterday.
Ended up cooking dinner for everyone, bro had a go (so I had a go back naturally), so left mine in the fridge and went to the beach lol.
Highlight was getting dumped by a wave and doing my shoulder hitting the seabed. Nothing like a few endorphins followed by some wine on an empty beach. It was actually very calming heh.
Hottest take from the night was that I need to get vaccinated (whooping etc.) if I / p’s want to see his baby due in May. Problem is I’m up to date and he was/is anti-covid / flu vax. Basically threatening the parents that if I’m not vaxxed (not them) they won’t be seeing their future grandkid. Fucking wild. Making me out to be a risk to their unborn kiddo is fucked and classic acute NPD manipulation.
Anyway hopefully the cunt leaves soon.
I am not at all attempting to undercut your experience here (your bro is being a dick 100%). Wanted to clarify that whopping cough is a different vax to standard flus. I didn’t know that until I needed to go get one to see a mate’s bubba.
I think it was just an attempt by bro to assert himself in front of p’s. Happened many times before. It makes no difference here as all the fam has had their boosters recently (funnily enough except for bro, had to leave the room when I heard that).
I don’t understand why you’re so beholden to him.
If you’ve had a falling out with him I wouldn’t be paying him a visit to see him or his family let alone having a family meal with him.
It’s a tricky one. Family and all that. But yea I won’t be rushing over to theirs for dins.
Let me get this straight… you’re vaxxed but they’re saying you’re not? He’s not making sense.
Anyway I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this shitshow. And that your dad keeps cornering you into dealing with him/them. The ultimatums and emotional blackmail are out of line and if it wasn’t for your mum I’d suggest distancing yourself for some peace
Yea you’re spot on, it is absolutely emotional blackmail / unreasonable ultimatums. There’s no solution to this.
That sounds pretty awful mate.
I just wanted to say that I’m NC with my brother, he’s blocked on everything and has zero way to contact me or find me. I might get a message from a relative if he dies, but they all know the NC and understand. Sometimes you just need to look after yourself.
I’m sorry to hear that. They say blood is thicker but if they’re an arsehole then that’s that.
Well done you on taking the high road and also for looking after yourself (hope the shoulder‘s ok). I’ve got some idea of how difficult these things can be to deal with (it’s SIL for me)
This is a really weird thing to be pleased about, but I answered a question on AskHistorians today and everyone seems to like my answer.
Yay, I know things
And these are absolutely the things we are here to celebrate! That’s awesome!!
📜 💐
Urgh the neighbours across the carpark are being super irritatingly loud tonight, i thought this was one night I could turn leave the window open and get some fresh air but I’m half ready to scream out of the window. I hate it here so much. I just want to fast forward to June and finish this degree and get out of here already.
I understand how you feel.
Tomorrows the big day where I found out if I’ll be getting that raise (which will increase my salary until I leave lol)
Beautiful day outside!
here’s hoping 🤞
I hate when they prune their nails with their teeth!
How do they do that without being tickled
I can’t even bear to watch it makes me so uncomfortable …lol
Gotta clean the beans
He’s deciding what part of your body he’s gonna snack on next.
Well he does like stepping on my nipples when he cuddles up, I’ll have to hide them away 😂
I worked hard today. I am tired but happy with what I got done. A bit blowy out there.
Another dude messaged me on discord. He’s quitting tomorrow.
It’s almost a game to see who’s next. He’s a good dude. Solutions architect.
We only have 1 lol
gees, that’s not great
does the company even care?
It appears that they are taking the “if i don’t acknowledge it, it isn’t happening” school of thought.
The odd part is this part of the larger org is the only one turning a profit lol
This is such a wild ride to follow along with!
Same! I’ve never experienced this before. It’s a train wreck lol
🍕 WORLD PIZZA DAY 🍕
Oh damn. I ate my pizza one day too early. :(
I had pizza on Friday. We are trendsetters.
I’ll participate in World (leftover) Pizza Day!
The boys have broken into the auto feeder. Pre dawn carnage of cat biscuits and robot parts. I am not awake enough for this.
Cheeky devils!
Little buggers! How did they do it?
Brute force disconnecting the holding bit from the technology. Probably watched me do a refill and figured it out. They lack thumbs not brains!
Please cat stop snoring :(
When I was a kid every caat we had would choose to sleep on my bed, never my parents bed, and they’d purr like a cesna. I loved it but I’d also lay awake at night thinking "Jesus Christ can you not?"
I find the purring helps kick my insomnia. Cat doesn’t always want to sleep in human bed. So cannot apply as necessary.
No
It’s a nice day and I’ve lazed enough. I’m going out
Mickey bit my face last night, my eyelid. He was pissed off because I was sleeping in bed rather than the couch (it’s been cooler, so the couch/Aircon combo isn’t necessary).
I hissed at him three times lol and he got the picture. He’s been very sweet this morning, I wonder why haha
My WhiteBoy used to very deliberately insert one claw into my nostril an effective and obnoxious wake up method
They truly are little terror-blessings 😂
Cerys did this to me with my twat.
Once.
new pillow has been rejected after 1 week of bad sleep and headaches, old pillow is back , sleep attained, still need more sleep
::: spoiFaceler Title Face has stopped weeping as of Friday night/Saturday morning and I have been able to put my preference of topical cream on it. It’s looking so much better. I’m hugely relieved! :::
In other news it is Elder Minipeelers birthday soon enough to begin discussing cake, and a San Sebastian/Basque cheesecake has been mentioned with hope in their voices. So I guess I’m making a San Sebastian/Basque cheesecake, which I’ve never done before 😳. It looks reasonably straightforward but one of the local cafes does an utterly superb one that I will of course be comparing mine to. The cost of just going there and buying a whole cheesecake off them will be out of the question given how much they charge for a slice.
Comparison is the thief of joy - yours will be cooked with all of the love and hope you have! Though having a quick scan of the recipetineats go at it, I have absolute faith in you!
Thankyou 🙂 That’s the one I decided to do because they made it so many times and it was described in the simplest way lol. There were a few others I looked at and they just didn’t hit me as doable like that one did. I’ve also decided that it will be enjoyable because cheesecake, and we will enjoy it even if it doesn’t quite turn out the same (because cheesecake 😆but also because Elder and Miniest both really appreciate effort made for them, I’m lucky in that they see and appreciate the effort I make 🥹).
hugs, so happy you are feeling better , it was very worrying
And I bet the B’day cake will be delicious . 😊
I’m really glad to hear that you’re feeling better :)
Whatever you make, they’ll love it im sure ❤️
Nah, back to bed.
Are you me? Just trying to get myself up and moving again after crawling back under the doona an hour ago
Whoosh Whoosh 🪂
🍍🥚🍕🍧🍰🧁🥧🍦🍨🎂🍮🍭🍬🍫🥜🌰🍪🍿🍯🥛☕️🍵🍺🍶🥤🧋🧃🥂🍷🥃🍸🍹🧉🔋
With the wind outside I don’t think you may have missed your landing zone.
We tried many times. Had to use the time travel machine.
Hell yeah.
Pizza I guess, very windy pizza
🍕
Good morning
Tomorrow is looking like a sick day
Severe thunderstorm warning apparently. The radar’s looking pretty spicy but it looks like the worst of it might slip past me to the east.
Adding to motorcycle man in my street is new mustang man. Always seems to have someone to go early on weekend mornings and the car is loud AF. Honestly can’t win with these people.
Also there’s motorcycle man 2, less frequent but when he does ride, it’s early 😴
Can’t sleep. That’s all.
Partner has been super-stressing out because he couldn’t find his passport (his only valid ID).
I go to the back bedroom, look in his sock drawer, and there it is. His relief is enormous!
Sometimes “vagina-owners” are better at finding things than “penis-owners” 😂😂
reddit.com/…/why_did_they_mostly_use_sail_ships_d…
If anyone would like to know about Antarctic boats, now you do.
The Worst Journey In The World is amazing, by the way
Applying for a volunteer position and they need two referees that they’ll contact and ask them to write a character reference. I’m kind of scared to ask my manager because she’s busy and also a colleague because of the off-chance that they’ll turn on me. But I should just ask.
Toys is a batshit insane movie but goddamn the soundtrack is a banger
Well that was a temper tantrum. I should probably get a PMDD assessment. But not today cunt.
Goodnight everyone ❤️ Tomorrow will be an interesting day.
My poor little cat. She’s still not seeming well. I’m hoping the blood pressure meds kick in soon because I’m feeling so much worry
MisterFrog@aussie.zone 1 week ago
Turns out the City of Melbourne have a reporting form for illegally parked cars, which they action in real time.
Just got a Tesla fined for parking in a car share spot lol
Wouldn’t normally do this, but it’s always a Tesla or BMW parking in car share spots.
…gov.au/illegally-parked-or-abandoned-vehicles
StudChud@aussie.zone 1 week ago
I approve of this!