Is this it? Is there anything more to life, am I missing something?

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Currently I am a uni student, working 4 days a week during the summer, moving to about 3 during term time.

Every day I’m not working I feel tired constantly, regardless of amount of sleep. I push through anyways to get the work that needs done finished, then sit down and just collapse basically. I wouldn’t even call it relax, just sit and switch off.

I don’t have any energy or motivation to play games anymore, even though I used to play avidly. I play guitar but it’s been feeling like I’m not getting as much out of it now…

Once I’m out of uni, I’ll be in full-time and, if I get into the industry I want, more mentally taxing work.

In short, is there something I’m missing here, or is work-eat-sleep-repeat all there is until I retire? Cause frankly I’m more sure I can be arsed if not…

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FlyingSquid@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Life is what you make of it. There’s no meaning, no purpose. You have to make your own. That takes effort, but it can be rewarding.

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- theKalash@feddit.ch ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  
  There’s no meaning, no purpose. You have to make your own. That takes effort, but it can be rewarding.
  
  It’s like an open sandbox RPG. But you’re forced to play it.
  
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  - Silviecat44@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    And the devs are lazy and don’t add new content
    
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- Seraph@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  I've always said the meaning of life is a blank page. You get to fill out out. But that's both freeing and terrifying at the same time.
  
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  - ChexMax@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    Except it’s not really you /get/ to fill it out. It’s more like you have to start filling it or you will die. If you ever let your pen stall for too long, you will become homeless, and you will starve. I’m just so tired and my page is still so blank.
    
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- millifoo@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Indeed.
  
  www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3VqAsMXE7o
  
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ConditionOverload@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
There’s no meaning to life. It’s a scam of an idea that we all fall prey to. Instead, think of it as just creating new meaning to it every single day depending on what you think and do. It’s a liberating feeling, to be honest. Because now you don’t have to stress yourself out to figure out some grand meaning [that doesn’t exist] and inevitably failing and being depressed over that.

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- LanternEverywhere@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Absolutely correct. There is no inherent meaning to life. You get to decide what the meaning of your life is. For me, this is the purpose of my life:
  
  Be happy, and make other people happy too
  
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  - Bizarroland@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    I disagree a bit.
    
    There is a meaning to life, but too many people are taught that the meaning of life will be foisted upon them by the invisible hand of fate and fail to realize that the meaning of life is kind of like the meaning of lego. You are given all of the pieces, what you make out of it is what is valuable.
    
    So I agree with you that you do have to make something out of life to have a meaningful life but I disagree that it's a void and nebulous thing that you somehow have to wrest a shape from the nothingness for it to matter, that it has no inherent meaning.
    
    The meaning of life is that we have the opportunity to create something out of the pieces we are given, not that we have to make a meaning out of something that is meaningless.
    
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Metaright@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I am 26 and have been in the workforce for a few years.

In short, is there something I’m missing here, or is work-eat-sleep-repeat all there is until I retire?

Yes, except for the fact that you and I will not be able to retire.

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- WarmSoda@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  I’m almost twice your age and found out the holy 401k that I’ve been putting money into magically has hardly anything in it. So yeah, I’m not getting the retirement that was promised either.
  
  But luckily I got brought down with a huge illness, so I get to “retire” on medical disability. I’m thankful for that.
  
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  - Metaright@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    That must have been devastating. I'm sorry to hear that.
    
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Emperor@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
In short, is there something I’m missing here, or is work-eat-sleep-repeat all there is until I retire?

You might die before then. I definitely saw “bottlenecks” in my mid-20s and late-40s where friends dropped like flies and some never got back up again.

Anyway, it sounds like you are having a crisis - people talk about the mid-life crisis but they can happen at any age but often a turning point:

Late teens - wait! I have to grow up and get serious?

End of Uni - wait! I have to get a job and all that other adult nonsense?

30 - wait! I should really be married and having kids by now.

40 - wait! My biological clock is ticking, I haven’t been promoted like I thought I would and my body is starting to creak.

50 - well that didn’t turn out how I wanted but there’s still time.

60 - where did my life go? Ah well, retirement is looming, I can’t wait for all that free time.

70 - death is looming, where did all that free time go?

Unfortunately, the meaning of life is what you make of it, so start managing your expectations.

I can’t claim to have any clear answers but find.out what you love doing and build your life around doing more of that. Don’t let your worklife eat into your personal time. Stop caring what people think about you, but that’s not a license to be a dick. Make the world a better place for having you in it. If you need help, ask. Eat well, don’t smoke, drink in moderation and wear sunblock - these things will help your later life be more worthwhile.
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- atticus88th@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  I think at around age 50 theres some negative sentiment towards younger generations and that racket they keep making. Source: am 50
  
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  - can@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    I truly hope this never becomes me.
    
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Cabeza2000@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

Every day I’m not working I feel tired constantly, regardless of amount of sleep.

It may be worth to check this with a doctor. What you describe may be sleep apnea. It is less common in young people but is better to check.

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- Hunter2@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  That, low Vitamin D levels (I suffered from exactly this due to being a shut-in + pandemic quarantine) or a bunch different things.
  
  You definitely should not be waking up tired from just working. Get checked.
  
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rowinxavier@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Yes, there is more.

You sound like you are experiencing burnout and as a result anhedonia and depression.

Burnout is a very real clinical condition caused by the demands you are operating under being dysfunctional in some way. It is very real and can lead to a dangerous depression.

Anhedonia is the loss of enjoyment in things you previously enjoyed. For example, when I had anhedonia video games because uninteresting, boring even, and the effort required to play was too much and there was no reward to playing.

You need to deal with this before it escalates into full blown depression and burnout. It can take much longer to fix than it will take to stop now, so get started ASAP. Starting an antidepressant may be helpful, it may not, but it is just one tool and I personally would avoid it having done it before.

The other steps for managing burnout are largely about changing the demands on you, the level of connection to other people, and what you do to relax. Exercise is a really helpful tool and honestly is what makes me resilient against another bout of burnout now.

Good luck

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- Lemmylefty@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  This comment right here.
  
  With burnout and depressive states your ability to foresee the good in life, or even experiences outside of the grind, is severely curtailed: you essentially develop emotional tunnel vision. A psychiatrist can help you break the negative spiral.
  
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DrQuint@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Just sounds like Vitamin D deficit, or something else related to not getting proper rest from sleep. This is not typical of someone your age.

Funny enough, I’m only saying this because I hate how fast some general practitioners are at diagnosing it, so the irony isn’t lost on me. But you’re actually stating the issues, and not just saying “I’m a programmer/factory worker” which is all it takes with them and why I despise it.

Get a blood test done if you want to make sure. Don’t just listen to the internet.

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markr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Also I am just thrilled that so many here have encouraged you to view your awareness of just how shitty the system is as a mental illness, as a failure on your part to be correctly integrated into society. There is nothing wrong with you. What is wrong is the system itself.

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Vlyn@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Make sure that you’re not depressed, this sounds like it. But it doesn’t have to be a mental thing.

Get your bloodwork done at a doctor (tell them you’re constantly tired / don’t have energy), that’s the first check. If that checks out then you might be getting enough sleep, but it’s shitty quality.

For example despite 8+ hours a night I was feeling like crap most of the day. Well, my nose closed in the night and I couldn’t breathe properly, which lead to awful sleep (I just had an operation for it, it has already gotten better but is still healing off). If you can breathe well through your nose, maybe do a sleep study to check if you actually get restful sleep.

If all of that checks out too, then you might have to do lifestyle changes. More fresh air, sun, workouts, eating better, but you know the drill already.

I’m also like you at times, and have been for a long time, but it does get better. One thing that’s a bit crappy though is if you’re in the US then vacation time is very limited (here in EU countries we don’t have that problem as much). But really first check your health, you might confuse something being wrong with your body with a mental problem.

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Sami@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
That’s why we need to strive toward working less hours in general. Full time hours take up most of your waking hours when you factor in prep time, commute etc

What you do with your free time can make a world of difference of course but the math just doesn’t work out when you get home and have like 4 hours to deal do everything you need to do before you have to go to sleep.

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- mattreb@feddit.it ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Agree… The fact that many people here think that if you’re not happy woking, eating, sleeping then you’re probably ill, it kinda scares me tbh
  
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Stinkywinks@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
We were tricked into thinking being meat bots for the rich while they prance around the Disney land we create for them, is our purpose. And every miserable bastard will tell all the other miserable bastards to do the same shit because they are miserable bastards.

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tasty4skin@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
The system that requires you and I toil away day by day is temporary. One day (maybe not soon) we won’t have to work our lives away, either because we’ll need to survive or because the collective consciousness will finally realize that we’re living post-scarcity.

Either way, that’s what I look forward to and in the mean time I just do what I can to make sure I’m not completely miserable.

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dumbcrumb@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
As others have said. If you feel like shit all day no matter how much you sleep then its most likely a diet issue. It’s crazy how normalized completely shit diets are. Its not going to be easy to fix. You’re going to have to do a lot of experimentation and research to see what works for you. I never really had a terrible diet and I felt okay most days. Never thought much of it but once I started to exercise more and looked into sports science on diets I realized how bad my diet actually was. After changing it and getting proper nutrition I was pretty shocked at how much better I felt. I was awake and alert all day and got great sleep. Definitely get a blood test or something. I also recommend doing some research on getting quality sleep. If you’re getting a lot of sleep but its shit quality then it doesnt mean a whole lot. Consistent sleep schedule, eating at the right times, and managing the light you take in during the day can make a huge difference.

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- SoleInvictus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
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  - elscallr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    You might check out mealime. It’s got the same information, only you put in a meal plan and it creates a shopping list. So if 2 recipes call for a half a head of cabbage each it’ll have you buy a single cabbage.
    
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  - scarabic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    We found these too expensive and wasteful, for what you get, to continue using them. But we did keep some of the recipes and we still make them on our own.
    
    If this helps someone get a jumpstart on home cooking, it’s well worth it. You can get the same from just trying more things from a cookbook but if the hassle of planning and shopping is a barrier to getting started, then by all means try one of these services and learn to cook.
    
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nuxetcrux@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I was a chef for over a decade and worked in Michelin kitchens where I gave myself up for next to nothing. When I made it to two stars, I began vomiting repeatedly every shift, working at a loss of $100 dollars a day. Eventually, I broke down and tried to kill myself by the city river, but regrettably I failed.

If you live in America, all I can say is that if you are a man and you don’t work, and you are alone and have no one to support you, you will eventually be killed. If you aren’t killed on the street, you’re killed in lock up because it’s illegal to exist here without employment. Mental facilities funnel into jails where the bodies pass daily. At my city’s coroner’s, there are 400+ deaths unaccounted for, 100+ murders per year. I was sent there as a warning in California’s HAM program. I was forced to watch people die and watch their autopsies as well as tour the whole facility, examining all the corpses. All the corpses whose genitals have catheters in them are people who died with no one to claim them, their organs are placed in hefty bags which are then sewed haphazardly back into their torso. The working class bodies are all Mexican, all under 60.

When I was homeless, on two occasions people tried to murder me and they only stopped because they thought I was dead. My medical debt in my twenties reached over ten million from all the hospital stays. I’ve learned that there are fates WAY worse than death, and you should always have the materials for an exit bag or an LD of insulin. In our society, if you are an extremely poor man, your agency amounts to, “will I continue to suffer another day? Or will I do what everyone wants and liquidate myself.”

The reason I say all this is, when you don’t want to work, remember it’s not just money you lose but also the good will of others, including family members. The people you respect most put clown makeup on every day and freak out when you don’t. I know this because I made a small fortune on the gamespot/and squeezes and my fortunes literally changed overnight. The money literally solved all my problems and I’m left disgusted. It also showed me how hard I was working for so little. I know now I’d rather die fighting breathlessly, as I always have, fighting for myself and my life. My life in the street was FAR more meaningful than the ones I’ve lived according to cowardice, constantly learning to cope with cowardice. The bottom line: make sure you know you’re ready to leave the beaten path before you do because I promise you, life outside the social contract is indeed nasty, brutal and short.

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- madcaesar@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  God damn, this comment is a wild ride.
  
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- roterkern70@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  God… I am sorry you gone through all that. And, it’s very brave of you to explain your life, difficulties, different situations and your perspective. Thank you. You really gave me an insight, I mean it.
  
  While reading this, I thought about my perspective to life. I am in my early twenties and try to do different stuff to earn my life, pursue some kind of satisfaction. This makes me get tired every day, and consider killing myself constantly. Now, I don’t.
  
  This summer I’ve gone through an emptiness, moneylessness. I agree, without money, I think about what to eat in the most economical way. That leads to more depression. Then every night I tried to find a purpose to not to kill myself and with this comment, it’s done. I accept a perspective to life now.
  
  Seeing all successful people, whether successful since born (nice family, good looking, no major illness…) or by later (breaking the chain of poverty, being the best at one stuff…) people damn kill themselves or be in a depression either thisbor that way. This fucking possibility stays there.
  
  Seeing this situation, I accept the life on it’s own. That’s it. Born, study, socialize, work, get lost. Again, with your comment, I rationalized my perspective. I am, really, now happy with who I am and know how to make it be that way. Do my business, and fuck it. There’ll be no miracles, there’s no one to help you be happier.
  
  Thank you. I wonder how can I prove it but you really helped me. I needed some rationalization.
  
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  - nuxetcrux@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    I’m so proud you’ve had a breakthrough. Your two greatest allies: patience and curiosity. With those you can become whatever you want.
    
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WtfEvenIsExistence@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

I don’t have any energy or motivation to play games anymore, even though I used to play avidly.

That sounds like me. You know what was happing to me. I was diagnosed with depression. I’m not a doctor so I can’t diagnose you over a internet forum post, but you might want to to see a doctor for potential health issues, or perhaps you might be dealing with a mood issue.

I used to write and worldbuilding for my story, but ideas have run out and I just have no energy to continue writing. That’s probably due to depression.

Asking for the meaning of life? Lemmy’s great and all, but I don’t think I’ll find it here lmao

The meaning of life is what you want it to be. The universe has not given us one.

Biologically? It’s to reproduce. For your DNA to continue existing (or at least part of it).

Evolutionary? For out species to survive and go on conlonizing the solar system, galaxy, universe… etc.

Technologically? To achieve immortality.

Philosophically?

To find happiness. Do what’s pleasurable to you (Hedonism).

To be a good person. Make the world a better place (even if only slightly).

To acquire more knowledge for yourself and share the knowledge to progress humanity. (Eg: Conduct science experiments, find fossils, identify unknown species (there are still a lot of unidentified species, oddly enough), etc.)

If this is to close for comfort for rule 3, feel free to delete mods

There’s also another community where you can just talk !chat@beehaw.org life and stuff.

Also, I know you are busy with college and stuff, but when I had an existential crisis, I found this show called The Good Place, it helped me process some thoughts regarding existence and stuff. You might want to watch it when you find the time to do so.

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EndOfLine@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
It sounds like you are describing depression. Here are some things that help me when I get to feeling like this. It’s not easy to do when battling with low energy and a lack of motivation, but they help.

Do more outdoor activities. Normally in the form of walks, or biking to nearby locations instead of driving.

Drink more water. Basically, I just have a glass of water before drinking anything else.

Eat better. Nothing too extreme, I make an effort to prepare more foods at home and include more vegetables.

Change things. I’m not talking about a life change. Rearrange furniture, put up some different wall art, change your lighting, swap out the background images on your computers and / or mobile devices, etc.

Spend time with your thoughts. I would try to spend about 15 minutes to an hour each day sitting in silence, with no distractions. I don’t force any thoughts. I just wait to see what bubbles to the surface. It usually helps me identify problem areas that I need to focus on.

It is also possible that you have started down a life path that you feel you are “supposed” to pursue and not necessarily a path that you want to pursue.

It could also be that you are burned out between school, work, and social obligations. Making more time for yourself or taking some time off, if that is an option, might help.
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Shazbot@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
You’re experiencing burnout. Rest up enough to improve your mental state, not finding joy in previous hobbies is a telltale sign. Try something that requires less critical focal or lets you take reprieve from your day to day schedule; vegging out, going for a walk, casual talk with friends, get counseling if you feel you need it, etc. The system will bleed everyone dry and leave them to rot if you let it. Take that time back and invest it in yourself.

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- Wincing5185@mastodon.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  @Shazbot
  "The system will bleed everyone dry and leave them to rot if you let it"
  👆
  This! Exactly this.
  Our system is designed to explore the weakest. Once you get trapped on the rate wheel you are done.
  It's almost impossible for someone from a lower income family background to climb the "ladder".
  A few things can help :
  - Live with less
  - Do a job that you like
  - Eat healthy
  - Do exercise
  - Get a Hobby
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uglo@iusearchlinux.fyi ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I was in the same work-eat-sleep-repeat for years and the only advice I have is to go see a psychologist (the one who helps by talking, sorry for my English). Ironically, but you need to work to build the work-life balance, and that’s may be hard on start

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ZMoney@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Well, capitalism has been hinted at here, but as far as I can see, nobody has suggested that we try to change society so that it’s less oppressive. I realized a while ago that profit doesn’t motivate me, and it sounds like you might have as well. I suggest (in addition to following the excellent medical advice) that you seek out your local socialist organization. Life doesn’t have to be this depressing.

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johnlobo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
lmao, you’re still young, don’t worry it will definitely get worse or better depends on your luck

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- WhiteHawk@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  That’s… not very reassuring
  
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Art3sian@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I attribute my loss of interest in things to social media. My attention span is just cooked.

I’m not depressed. I still deeply want to do the things I love - guitar and gaming are two interests of mine too. I just can’t stay with either for more than 5 minutes without being bored.

And yes, being perpetually tired is your new adult reality. I negate tiredness by hitting the gym for an hour each day. One hour of working out = 5 to 6 hours of unbridled energy for the day regardless of commitment. As I get older though, I get diminishing returns on this as the week goes on.

I also think it’s semi-natural to get more bored and tired as you get older. Technically, we’re supposed to grow up, breed, take care of kids, and die. That’s our deal. No where in there are we supposed to have room for a career, two hobbies, 10 close friendships, annual overseas trips, and weekends partying. Just my two cents in this area. Not a scientist.

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Donebrach@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Do you know if you snore? You may have sleep apnea where basically you stop breathing multiple times a night. Makes for chronic exhaustion and is very under diagnosed . You should look to get a sleep study done.

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- The_Mixer_Dude@lemmus.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  This is great advice. To add to this, over sleeping in general will tank your energy and make you feel even more tired. To add to this I know personally that feeling as if I have slept through a big portion of my free time will make me feel very upset and definitely make my depression worse. It’s taken me a very very long time (probably 6-7 years) to actually realize this and force myself to not just slump around on days off but to actually get a proper amount of sleep and wake up early in the morning. Typically I will get up anywhere between 6-8am and I always feel much better as I know I have so much of my day ahead of me to work on projects or even just relax and watch TV, play video games, or spend time prepping for my week ahead just to do some simple things to minimize the amount of work I have ahead of me during the week.
  
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- scarabic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  I’ve been looking into this with my doctor and he showed me some example sleep study results. Some poor fuckers stop breathing, have an adrenaline response to overcome that, sip out of sleep for a second and then go back in, as often as every 30-40 seconds during the night
  
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EricAux@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
There isn’t much else unless we start a revolution.

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EyeofHorus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Up to now, you’ve been following the track your society has laid out for you, growing and building yourself into a useful and civilized adult. Unfortunately, this where the tracks end.

No one will blame you if you fall into the perpetual cycles of materialism and let the world grind you up in exchange for occasional pleasure of increasingly empty quality.

The only escape I have encountered is to find something that calls to you, and to treat it as more important than yourself. The hard part about that is that other people, your friends and family and strangers online, who do not themselves worship the same, will criticize your choice. And you’ll have to decide which you can afford to do without.

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theKalash@feddit.ch ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

or is work-eat-sleep-repeat all there is until I retire?

Yeah pretty much mate, welcome to adulthood.

If you make enough money you can occationally take breaks from the routine and do something fun.

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- Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Assuming one gets the chance to retire. The trajectory things are currently on, I’m not counting on it.
  
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  - theKalash@feddit.ch ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    I’m definitly not counting on it. Couldn’t even afford a prope retirement plan as they are advertised and recommeded.
    
    My retirement plan is probably picking up extreme sports when I’m really old … let the odds do the work.
    
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CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I might get downvoted for this, and fair enough, but you should try shrooms.

I’ve got severe depression and social anxiety, so I’m familiar with the whole “what’s the point of this?” mindset. Shrooms kind of gave me a different perspective on life, and why it’s so precious and worth experiencing.

And while it’s anecdotal, I know many people that’ve had similar experiences. Either way, I hope things get better for you!

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- scarabic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  The mystery of life is not a problem to solve, but a reality to experience, a process that cannot be understood by stopping it. We must move with the process. We must join it. We must flow with it.
  
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sanguinepar@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
You’ve had lots of advice, so I’m not going to give any, but wishing you well mate. It’s really hard when things feel like this. I hope it gets better for you soon and I’m optimistic that it will.

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Eideen@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Sounds like you are burnout.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_exhaustion

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grayman@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
Your metabolic health is trash, your gut bacteria is probably shot, and good chance you have sleep apnea. They’re all related. Low metabolic health causes sleep apnea. Crap diet causes you to be fat which causes sleep apnea. Poor gut health means low nutrient absorption so you’re more tired. Sleep apnea means you’re even more tired. Tired people eat like crap.

Go find a good dietician. Fix your gut. Eat strictly only non processed foods. Exercise 30+ min a few times per week.

It’s hard as hell to start doing all those things, but once you have the routine you’ll feel amazing. Diet fix first though. Without nutrients you can’t do anything.

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- scarabic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  Take internet diagnoses with a grain of salt but honestly this is a good list of things to at least investigate. Sleep health, diet, and exercise would put 90% of doctors out of business if people just took care of them (source on that: my doctor).
  
  I would add depression to the list. Depression is not what most people think it is, and it can manifest with some of the symptoms listed here. Talk to a general doctor about it as a starting point.
  
  Also it should go without saying that any addictions that may be involved should be addressed as well.
  
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chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

I don’t have any energy or motivation to play games anymore, even though I used to play avidly. I play guitar but it’s been feeling like I’m not getting as much out of it now…

Once I’m out of uni, I’ll be in full-time and, if I get into the industry I want, more mentally taxing work.

If you don’t want that life, refuse to live it. You can survive on less money than you’d think, and you may be able to find ways to make money that are more chill or enjoyable. You can aggressively plan for a very early retirement. If those turn out to be next to impossible, well, you may have a very hard time, but you can still refuse to work and deprive society of what it definitely does not deserve from you.

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