Submitted âšâš2â© âšmonthsâ© agoâ© by âšSeagoon_@aussie.zoneâ© to âšmelbourne@aussie.zoneâ©
Saturday Weather: Is hot
Sunday Weather: Is rainy and a bit muggy
Today Me: You idiot. Everything hurts. I hate you.
Saturday was an âOrinoco Flowâ kind of day, Sunday was an âainât no sunshineâ kinda day. Todayâs a âCruel Summerâ kind of day
Rest up if you can Gregsy, fingers crossed you recover quickly!
(I think I pulled a muscle on Thursday moving a box I put far too many heavy books into but was too stubborn to lighten up on and Iâve only just recovered)
Thanks!! Unfortunately Iâm already back at work this morning and itâs gonna be a funnnnn week, but weâll get there!!
Ha Iâve made that same mistake before⊠âOh wow look at how many books I can fit in this bad boy, I am a packing genius!!â. Then you go to MOVE the box and ohhhhhhhno :D
Canât sleep. Miniest was upset before bed about how one day weâll all be dead and sheâll be the only one left for a while. Pretty heavy stuff and she was crying and wanted to be hugged to sleep. I comforted her and told her about how when youâre young deathâs hard to fathom because you havenât started really living yet. How itâs like before you were born when there was nothing because you had no consciousness, but once you have consciousness itâs hard to stomach losing it. How itâs like for me in a way, with my parents and grandparents dead and my siblings are all half siblings who are much older. And I worry about the same thing but the opposite way around, that one day Iâll be dead and you kids will be on your own without me to care and advise. Then she told me sheâd like to travel and particularly go to America because thereâs some really cool food sheâd like to eat there, but itâs full of racists and idiots and guns so itâs probably not a place sheâll go. Then she fell asleep and Iâm thinking too much now I guess.
Oh jeez thatâs a difficult conversation to have for both of you.
Give her a hug
and tell her America is also full of nice cool people who make the kidâs shows she loves
Aw hugs peeler đ«
Massive lovely win for today: blood test results back in record time, everythingâs good, new MH plan and a really nice chilled out chat with the Dr⊠and he bulk billed me!!! Ahhh!!! Thatâs like Christmas come early these days given that the gap fee is like 60 (70 after 5pm).
âŠI hate how American that sounds, having to jump for joy at cheaper healthcare based onto the whim of someone else :(
Have been craving mee goreng something heinous this afternoon so treating myself to a nice spicy bowl on Victoria St. This place is always legit. I am riding the high of Nice Things until I can get my kitchen sorted our very soonâŠ
I have to admit after seeing that photo I nearly booked up some egg noodles and mixed random sauces together.
I caved and went for frankfurts with bread instead.
That does look good!
I think youâve inspired me to try my hand at a mee goreng recipe tomorrow.
I hope that job I interviewed for last week calls me back đ€đŸ
Itâd be great leverage.
Letâs hope for good news man
I have a problem with overthinking about things and events that occur or may occur as a result of something.
Itâs definitely one of the things that gives me a great amount of stress and anxiety.
I keep thinking about things and the possibilities and sometimes bad or unpleasant things that happen stay in my mind for quite awhile.
I donât quite know how to handle those feelings and what I should do.
Itâs been suggested that I just move past things and forget, or distract myself to take my mind off of things or I be more stubborn about my own feelings and harden up?
Thereâs been other things, like for example I followed all the steps and did things as soon as I realised or possible and I still get blamed for not doing it soon enough and copped some barbed words, I know it wasnât my fault but still it bothers me. (That was what I was stressing about)
Thereâs possibly more to come in the future as the problem hasnât come close to be resolved and I hope I donât keep thinking about what might happen.
Apologies for the rant.
This is very human behaviour, totally normal.
What helps me with this specifically is saying âWhat if it all works out?â or the similar inverse of whatever your worry is. âI might fuck up my interview and say something dumbâ becomes âWhat if we get on so well, they toss out their questions and we just start chatting like old friends?â
Itâs not like đïž woowoo positive âš mantras âšand manifestation stuff. Itâs literally tricking you brain to make good chemicals instead of bad ones.
For awhile I spent some time with just a movie on in the background and I was scrolling through some happy posts.
Then I distracted myself with some food and a few rounds of Balatro.
Looking for something else to do for a bit then Iâll head to bed.
I think itâs just a bunch of bad stuff happening lately all at once thatâs making me feel overwhelmed.
I still get blamed for not doing it soon enough and copped some barbed words, I know it wasnât my fault but still it bothers me.
what would bother me is not my performance but the person blaming me , thatâs where I would put my focus
a mature and nice person doesnât blame others for events out their control
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It took me so long to start thinking like this but my last boss woke me up to this fact. I have such infinitely better managers now and I could almost laugh at how hard I tried to please unreasonable people.
I know heâs an asshole but it doesnât really make me feel any better about it sometimes.
Sounds like real event OCD. Whatâs worse is when you did do something objectively NQR, but you canât move on from it and you spiral over the potential consequences.
It is a fresh hell.
Some aspects of it seems to describe me.
I do get hung up about events that make me feel crap or if I treat someone badly but in some ways I make peace with it that I have a conscience and knowingly think about my actions and recognise what to treat and be treated appropriately.
Some people need to either get to the point or shut the fuck up in meetings seriously.
Some people need to either get to the point or shut the fuck up in meetings seriously.
just got off a call where I was that guy. Could hear myself rambling but got nowhere.
get to the point
This I very much agree with.
Finally managed to get a hold of one of my friends.
Been an unlucky day where Iâve been able to reach anyone.
Just talking a little bit on the phone helped me a little bit with my stress and anxiety.
Iâm so grateful to be able to do that but I hope heâll be able to call me back to talk more as I know heâs been busy.
hugs, a cup of tea and a gentle shoulder rub , if thatâs not too forward
Thank you.
That sounds very nice. Wish I could have those things.
Gâday from Penola, peeps
Weâre running a little early, although had to sacrifice a few itinerary items because of a tyre blowout before 9am, lol
Massive pothole somewhere in the Moyne LGA. Didnât see it. 100km/h. Wheel absolutely fucked. I mean absolutely fucked, the rim has a massive dent in it, so itâs not just the wheel. No Bueno. Weâve stopped at about 5 places now, nobody has the rim we need. Currently pissing people off doing 80 down a major road towards Naracoorte (stupid space saving efficiency 80km/h restricted tyre thing). Oh well. Not much choice but to hope Naracoorte or Bordertown are able to help us, or leave it til tomorrow after we get to Adelaide
Stopped at a station called Kalangadoo. Fucking beautifully preserved. A bloke there has invested some major time and money into keeping it preserved (thereâs an ABC article about him and the station, will send pics tomorrow when I have better service). He gave us a 2 hour tour and showed us soooooo much cool stuff. When I get back home, Iâm going to post him a couple of the Vic things Iâve collected and some photos from our side of the country in case heâs interested (he did have some Vic stuff, mostly the more fascinating things, so I donât think heâd mind, even if itâs not from his neck of the woods). Ripper of a bloke
Isnât it lovely when you meet someone truly positive! Thereâs something about trains and train stations - it seems to bring out the best in people. Naracoorte has wunnderful caves - full to busting with fossils of thylacaleos and diprotodons and other cool stuff. If your itinerary permits, a visit to the caves is a MUST! Or a second visit just to do that âŠ
Unfortunately we didnât have time to stop in at Naracoorte, weâre already kinda pushing our time a bit, and we come back a different way. But thanks for the recco, Iâll keep it in the back of my mind until Iâm out this way again!
Btw what are mihirungs? A bug?
the caves are awesome , I had a look online and the parks have really improved the experience , looks so cool now, when I went it was basically go in the cave and a guide would give a talk
i took young miss seagoon many years ago
Iâm just glad you are ok and you arenât seriously injured!
Oh yeah I shouldâve added, V grateful for not losing control. It was a fucked pothole on a bit of a curve. The tyre rim absorbing so much of the impact also means I didnât end up with a concussion
I had a meeting with the general manager whoâs leaving. He admitted we have too much work.
So Iâm going to my manager this week and talking to her. At this stage, to keep up, Iâd have to be working outside of office hours. And that isnât happening.
I donât know your exact situation but my advice is keep your options open and if you need to leave for another job at some point in the future that might be the best path.
But if things get really toxic do not fool yourself into thinking you can change ethe organisation or that it will change for you.
yeah there has gotta be some sort of compromise here hey. they cant give you too much work then complain your not meeting the impossible goals they set.
Sort of fucked up yesterday.
Had âa goâ at the olâ man about the way heâs trying to tackle his little fence dispute (on top of everything else). Basically long winded combative emails to the neighbour. Problem is the neighbour appears to have literacy issues judging by the way he writes (so they need to be short and to the point).
Anyway so when you have a go, letâs just say heâs not the sort of person that will take criticism.
So he stood up, calmly said heâs going for a walk. That shit never happens itâs always far more heated.
On the one hand I shouldnât have done that right now and just let it be, on the other it shows where his head is with respect to mumâs issues. Itâs a completely unrelated issue (a fence and medical stuff) but it definitely says something.
I have no idea how to support someone like him emotionally through this (not the fence but mum heh). Heâs got a bunch of garden / house shit heâs doing which is his âescapeâ but I can tell itâs really taking its toll.
You are both under stress and it will happen. Donât dwell on it. Maybe a quiet âSorry if I came across harsh over the fence thing, let me know if you need anythingâ and move on.
Beautiful sunset out these ways, same in melbs?
The tyre, btw:
Nobody in Heywood, Mount Gambier, Naracoorte, or Bordertown either had a replacement rim available, or could buff out the dent same day. That was an absolutely cooked pothole, but we got out of it safely. Still, weâve had to do about 350km with another 150 to adelaide on the space saving 80k tyre. I donât think theyâre meant to be driven that far, but we donât have a lot of choice. Weâll find somewhere in Adelaide tomorrow I guess. Weâre nearly in Tailem Bend, and about 2 hours away from our hotel in Adelaide
Tomorrow was an intentionally blank day, I basically just want to get some postcards and stamps, nothing else planned yet. So having to spend the day waiting for a new wheel is no biggie. Weâre hoping to find an auto wrecker or something that has this model of car we can just buy a tyre off, and fix this tyre when we get back to Melbourne. But otherwise, itâs a steel rim, so somebody can just carefully hammer it out for us, that just takes longer
Damn, that wheel looks fucked! Iâd be so anxious about driving on the spare for that long (I had to drive on mine recently for like 15kms here and there all up and was having kittens). Fingers crossed no more potholes here on out and that you can get a new wheel soon!
No pretty sunset out here, too foggy
Ah, no good. Sunset was stunning out here!
Yeah, the wheel is making me a bit anxious, too. But weâre almost there, not much we can do ig
Iâve been dancing with my cat and singing âWhen youâre a Jetâ from West Side Story, but swapping it to âWhen youâre a Catâ. Iâm sure he loves it.
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I wish to emulate this cucumbers coolness
Reminds me of this - Coo Cumba youtu.be/RlLTtnV_DzM
bit moist checks weather 100% humidity
sounds about right
Air so thick, you can see it
Looks like no sun this week. Extremely depressing.
Itâs an AC on dehumidify kind of day. Otherwise, my girlfriend starts training for her new job today, Iâm excited to see how it goes
strange question for you, and you dont have to answer: Why the choice of the word âgirlfriendâ rather than âpartnerâ? I find this kind of stuff fascinating!
I go between boyfriend and partner, depending on the situation. But now that Iâm thinking about it, I have no idea what in the situation dictates which I useâŠ
it depends what the bf or gf prefers.
I guess Iâm one of those people that finds people who use the word partner annoying. I could use it since weâve been together for so long and have kids but I find girlfriend feels right to me
aaaaaaa repointing day todaaaaaay
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Maybe we should rename it âNot my problem dayâ
In a way, accurate. Garage needs repointing, the dude is merrily carving away at 60 year old sandpiles as we speak. So it shall no longer be a problem of mine.
This weather is actually pretty good for concrete work - doesnât set up so fast and is therefore stronger when cured.
yeah I was worried after the weekend, pretty stoked when I saw the weather today. Itâs all internal stuff today too, place is plumbed and wired so heâs happy as larry
The sleep worked better than expected. Sometimes I struggle a lot sleeping that early. But I managed to doze up about 7:30, woke up briefly at 9ish, then had a solid sleep until 3:30
Weâre taking the really really long way to Adelaide, going via Mount Gambier, then driving up along the Vic/SA border through Penola and Naracoorte up to Bordertown, then weâre taking the standard A8 into Adelaide
Nothing specific planned for tomorrow, so we can have a good recovery day. Might head to the National Railway Museum in Port Adelaide
I do find it hard to trust people. And not without reason, when your own parents abandoned you (both through actual abandonment or through neglect and abuse), then running the gauntlet of a number of toxic workplaces I just find it really hard not to see the world for what it is: a very dark place.
Not watching the news helps. But only to a point.
TIL it is possible to fill yourself stupid with too many dumplings.
attempt 2 at purchasing pokemon X did go well unfortunately, but the ebay seller has been awesome to work with! its like Iâm destined to not own this game.
Made it to the hotel safe and sound. The hotel room is super hot, but decent
the dogs having their own couch again seems to have stopped the cat bullying them, for now. So thats a win! not bad for a marketplace freebie!
TIL about the black screen of death, like the blue screen of death but black
could not get to sleep until late đŁ
Melbcat is curled into me with her head on my shoulder. Beautiful little baby.
Iâm finally making use of the Onepass subscription. I didnât really buy anything in the past 6 months because it felt silly to buy only a couple of dollars worth of things, even with free postage. But Iâve found the Catch bulk groceries again and putting it to use. We might as well have 300 dishwasher tablets
Tech question⊠If I was to get a mesh wifi setup, would the stock standard Google one be ok? Comes with Mesh router and two extra points⊠Current setup is router and secondary ap feeding single story house and shed⊠Wifi is questionable outside and at furthest point from router
Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone âš2â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Itâs one of those âfalling asleep patting the catâ nights. Goodnight all â€ïž
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Baku@aussie.zone âš2â© âšmonthsâ© ago
Night Gibsy!!