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• TachyonTele@piefed.social ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  “you look super youthful"
  Wasn’t going to be my next pickup line, but here we are…

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  • letsmusicandsleep@lemmy.world ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

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    • tias@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Maybe they mean that you look like you have cool, youthful interests and values.

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    • tomiant@piefed.social ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Me too IRL, but on the Roblox forums I am eternally 11 like all my friends

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    • TachyonTele@piefed.social ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Come here often?

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    • BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      It do be like that

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  • magnetosphere@fedia.io ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Sorry to nitpick, but it’s “seem”, not “look”. That makes a big difference.

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    • TachyonTele@piefed.social ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Good catch. It’s creepy either way lol

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• frog@feddit.uk ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  First time seeing someone dadzoned.

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  • ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    How far is it from the dadzone to the daddyzone?

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    • cornshark@lemmy.world ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      About 6 inches

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• OmegaMouse@pawb.social ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  So when are you meeting him? :3

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  • WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Honestly, I have a weird feeling that this might be genuine. No need to sleep with the dude if OP doesn’t feel it, but it could be a cool opportunity to be a mentor and a friend to a younger queer dude if they get along.

    Either way, meet in public and inform a friend.

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    • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      My entire friend group all found each other essentially through dating apps. It’s a way to form connections outside of sex for sure, it’s just not talked about much.

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    • OmegaMouse@pawb.social ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yeah I thought so too. He seems sweet and I’d meet up just out of interest. Could be a nice friend going forward

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• CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  This person 1000% wants to fuck you

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• homes@piefed.world ⁨22⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I dunno… I never got into the apps, so I may not be the best judge, but this kinda seems like a lot at once for someone who’s an introvert that was bullied and has anxiety issues.

  I would definitely ask more probing questions before agreeing to meet anywhere, and definitely in public, and I would definitely inform a friend.

  On the other hand, if it’s genuine, this could be really sweet and nice opportunity to mentor our a young fledgling queer.

  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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  • Banana@sh.itjust.works ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    When someone says they’re interested in meeting to see if a friendship forms, a tactic I used to use was to see if they are okay with one or both of us each bringing a friend along.

    Their reaction will reveal a lot about their intentions. It’s also a good way to ensure safety.

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    • homes@piefed.world ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      ooo, that seems like a good idea, especially since they say that they’re only interested in friendship anyway.

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  • toynbee@piefed.social ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    The emoji concern me.

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• magnetosphere@fedia.io ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Either this took a lot of courage to write, or it’s their strategy for finding “daddies”. If sincere, I’d suggest looking into the possibility of creating a real friendship with someone in need. @homes gave some solid advice. I’d go with that.

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  • dontgogettingtooclever@piefed.social ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Yup. If they’re willing to go dutch, then it might be genuine

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    • magnetosphere@fedia.io ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Now that you mention it, that seems like a very simple yet reliable test

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• baggachipz@sh.itjust.works ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t think this person was laughing out loud as often as they claimed.

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• 1dalm@lemmy.today ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t know why anyone would use any of these apps.

  I would basically assume that 99% of all messages were scams of some kind.

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  • Dojan@pawb.social ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    They exist, but most of the scams you get on Grindr in my experience are like “WANT SEX?! Check out my profile on BugDickDudesSite dot C🫦U🫦M No credit card required!!”

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  • letsmusicandsleep@lemmy.world ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

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    • foodandart@lemmy.zip ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Go make a new friend.

      They may just be looking for someone to hang out with, and if they’re looking for romance, you can become the matchmaker.

      I have a feeling that they’re probably too insecure to know where to start.

      NGL, it’s great that they’re mustering up the courage to ask for help.

      It can’t be easy in the current climate.

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    • 1dalm@lemmy.today ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I’m so happy I got married before romance was “disrupted” by tech bros.

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    • orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Leave it to dudes to power through the bots for a bone. Envious.

      Meanwhile over on Hinge, Bumble, etc., nothing but spam. (I gave these things up a while ago. Just going to rawdog my love life from here on out.)

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  • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I use Grindr to get laid. It works 100% of the time. 🤷‍♂️

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• SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Did you respond to him?

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• Reygle@lemmy.world ⁨21⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  If genuine, that’s incredibly relatable. A little TOO relatable.

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• hayvan@piefed.world ⁨19⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  This me, but straight.

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