cross-posted from: lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/55097036
I used to be like that guy till I took an arrow to the knee.
Best stay away from that guy
Submitted 3 weeks ago by SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com to [deleted]
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ceenote@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Don’t hate him, he just knows how to draw aggro.
Siethron@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I knew I shouldn’t have let him cast sunder twice!
psx_crab@lemmy.zip 3 weeks ago
When you’re tank drawing aggro and your healer still got chased by mob
trum_pam_pam@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Best description. I wish they taught me like that at school
Formfiller@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Incel logic be like
SkybreakerEngineer@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Literally Kaladin Stormblessed
Dozzi92@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You mean tall, right?
SkybreakerEngineer@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Of course not, arrows are too scared to go after Taln
shalafi@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’m 5’8" and I’ve knocked it out the park with women. Weirdly, maybe did better when I was young and totally broke.
renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
shouldn’t the bottom label be next to the woman? she is the one outside the attraction field, the guy might as well be within it
lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
There is no arrow from the bottom guy to the upper guy, so…
bored_boar_onboard@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
The bottom guy is typically the one receiving the arrow.
SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
!antimeme@sopuli.xyz
Hacksaw@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
But don’t stay TOO far away, otherwise you can still be a victim of arrows. There is in ideal distance to THAT GUY to minimize your arrow related risks.
shalafi@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
LOL, dating isn’t hard for guys. You think guys have it rough, you should hear it from the girl’s point of view. Jesus fucking Christ. These women must be horny as hell to even keep trying with some y’all. I should start a “dating tips for guys” comm.
For background; I’m 5’8", 140lbs. soaking wet, been broke most of my life (am now), no real prospects, no fancy cars, nothing. I take care of my health and hygiene, mostly, dress well (nice clothes are stupid cheap, nearly free and comfortable) and have a decent attitude towards the opposite sex. I drink loads of light beer every day, but I’m not dancing on tables or angry drunk, ever.
Look in the mirror and ask yourself why a woman might want you. You know you got flaws. What can you fix? Start fixing those things. Baby steps. Can you polish up your teeth? Lose some fat or gain some tone? Better haircut? Dress nicer? Got any interesting hobbies? And your interests don’t have to be attractive. Having a passion is interesting in itself.
What can you do? You know damned well you can do better. I’ve met very few humans I considered “maxed out” on attractiveness stats. (OK, strippers are kinda cheating, they know what they’re doing.)
And keep in mind, no one out there is judging you harder than yourself. Posted this a while back. Read it for yourself. Point being, I inadvertently saw myself from the outside, and I was surprised.
I’ll give you a pro-tip; A great first date question is, “Tell me about a fucked up first date.” Listen, learn, don’t be that guy. Some of these women had me laughing out loud. SERIOUSLY?! And have a good story of your own! You know you got one.
OK, one more; Join these dating sites as a woman looking for a man. Read the men’s sad-sack profiles, look at their pictures, and don’t be that guy. Dead animals and fancy motor vehicles ain’t gonna turn anyone on. And FFS, stop with the, “I’m a really nice guy and just want to find true love.” No. Yeah, they want love too, but they’re not interested in being your mother.
Tried that on PoF before I met my second wife. Jesus y’all, I felt awful for my gender. I really mean that. I was actually sad, really felt for those guys. But I didn’t want to fuck them. Can’t imagine how turned off the women must be, but they got stories.
REDACTED@infosec.pub 3 weeks ago
Look in the mirror and ask yourself why a woman might want you. You know you got flaws. What can you fix? Start fixing those things. Baby steps. Can you polish up your teeth? Lose some fat or gain some tone? Better haircut? Dress nicer? Got any interesting hobbies? And your interests don’t have to be attractive. Having a passion is interesting in itself.
Uhh, the problem with dating men are the things you can’t see. Pretty much majority of men are capable of violence, have tendencies towards cheating, toxicity (or just mansculinity), men who make first good impression due to naturally hitting it off and humor, but later you realize he sees women as sex toys, ectera ectera.
Insert good guy meme here
boonhet@sopuli.xyz 3 weeks ago
Just because we’re capable of violence (i.e stronger) doesn’t mean we are violent. I’ve had exes attack me at random, never did I do anything to defend myself except maybe try to hold them still. Now if another man attacked me, I wouldn’t hesitate. But never have I as an adult attacked another person. It’s a fucked up thing to do, it’s so easy to accidentally disable another person for life.
Likewise, I’ve never cheated, but I’ve been cheated on plenty. So maybe it’s not a men vs women thing but rather a shitty people thing?
Plus if we’re talking about men seeing women as sex toys, let’s talk women seeing men as walking wallets or maybe let’s just stop stereotyping people based on gender because otherwise we’ll just sow more hate between the genders.
squaresinger@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
If you keep getting into relationships with crappy people, that it might not be because everyone is crappy, but because that’s what you subconsciously look for.
- One bad relationship: Bad luck.
- Only bad relationships (especially if you keep getting into the same crappy relationship with different people): The problem is with you, you are subconsciously looking for people like that.
Check out How we love if you want to know more.
MrMakabar@slrpnk.net 3 weeks ago
Being capable of violence and men being masculine are really hardcore deal breakers /s
Sir_Premiumhengst@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Hmm… I thought 8 arrows would’ve filled up the octet. Maybe I missed something in my education.
YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I think ‘that guy’ is phenomenally successful due to the weird and wildly superficial dating world tech has created.
I’m quite fortunate as I met my wife before the apps had taken over. Other than being reasonably tall and having a pulse, I am far from being that handsome dude.
But I did ok as I was brought up around women and have always used humour as a crutch since I was a kid, which I found women were responsive to when I grew up.
I doubt I’d have survive the online dating world with my beer belly and average face.
MrMakabar@slrpnk.net 3 weeks ago
Gigachads like Elon Musk attract all the ladies. They all want to kill him with arrows…
mhague@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Needs to be injective and surjective
starchylemming@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
no, the low quality arrow attraction field just has a maximum capacy of 9. i just sticked with arrow 9 instead of getting the costly upgrade to the next level.
TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
the guy:
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Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Borimir would have attracted every arrow
MeatPilot@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
He could steal my purity ring any day