PSA: If you’re a guy on a dating site and you reply with “hey” or something similar to a lady then you’ve fucked up.
You get one shot at a semi-witty reply that may get her to smile before your reply is buried under 100 other guys also vying for her attention.
Just quickly read her profile and make some kind of riff off of it.
“Hey blahblah I saw you liked The Office, I’m more of a fan of working from home myself.”
Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 months ago
I don’t get it. You liked me to get to the point where we could talk, and then you don’t respond when I say what’s up. It’s not even just girls; guys do this shit too.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Social decorum was developed alongside our growing minds. In the absence of the triggers of sight, sound, smell, and touch, people are generally apathetic to the needs and wants of others. Anonymity was not something that our innately social brains were bred for and the monkey at the center of the human psyche is exposed through it.
IndiBrony@lemmy.world 2 months ago
we must return to monke
9point6@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Alcohol
aodhsishaj@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The appropriate response to hey is always.
Hey yourself, what’re you up to on bumble this tine of day/night? No good I’m sure.
Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m not on any of these sites but often I’ll sit down to play a game and stare at my game library. Fully knowing if I try any I’ll like them. But instead I sit and flick through the library and end up playing nothing, maybe even buy a new game and turn it off before the load screen. Then I go to bed. I wonder if it’s the same feeling
Veneroso@lemmy.world 2 months ago
My brother, do you know the way?
LodeMike@lemmy.today 2 months ago
I met a guy who just liked everyone because he liked talking to people better.