Melvin_Ferd
@Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world
- Comment on Do you actually care about your friend's new baby, vacation abroad or similar life events or are you just being nice? 4 weeks ago:
That’s what I found. I thought people were faking because I was cynical. Then I met healthy people and realized it’s actually ok to care and I was choosing not to care instead of choosing to care. Do I care all the time, absolutely not. But I’m getting better. I find I enjoy listening to people who are healthy have these conversations while looking at them without the cynicism.
I started to realize the small talk that a lot of people online complain about is a choice.
- Comment on How can you make sure the ashes you get after a loved one dies is actually theirs? 1 month ago:
Why are you keeping dead bodies in your house, ashes or not.
- Comment on Why limit immigration? 2 months ago:
No unfortunately. There is plenty of evidence of immigrants building their own justice systems and authorities under the radar of their new countries because it goes against the freedoms and expectations.
We shouldn’t ignore that and not talk about it.
- Comment on Every show with a suicide now has a disclaimer with a suicide hotline at the beginning. Is there any evidence that these warnings make a positive difference? 2 months ago:
Need to test by providing a tag at the start of these episodes that provides instructions how to kill yourself
- Comment on Could an American please prove me wrong? 2 months ago:
Mr. Vatican
- Comment on How to treat a man 2 months ago:
I’ve given my kids tasers and shown them your comment. That should be good enough /s
- Comment on Bumble 2 months ago:
I’m not on any of these sites but often I’ll sit down to play a game and stare at my game library. Fully knowing if I try any I’ll like them. But instead I sit and flick through the library and end up playing nothing, maybe even buy a new game and turn it off before the load screen. Then I go to bed. I wonder if it’s the same feeling
- Comment on Swooped in with the quickness 2 months ago:
MATT DAMON
- Comment on Was Elvis Presley a pedo? 2 months ago:
I think it was that people weren’t seen as victims. They weren’t seen as helpless
- Comment on How come it seems for the past decades the Catholic Church has been plagued with sex crimes especially among young boys? How long has this been going on? Or did I just miss something up. 2 months ago:
Kind of given considering the nature of the job. I heard a radio show where they talked about this with someone in the church who explained that the church offers forgiveness for sins to people who are willing to commit to God. I don’t think to many pedophiles want to be attracted to kids and probably see themselves as evil. People probably figure it out at the same age that the priesthood is calling. So it’s a place for these people who probably do want to purge themselves of their evil but reality is the church can’t do that so their ranks fill with them as much as it gets filled with our types of people who see themselves as sinners like former drug users and wall street bankers. The whole program and discussion made me feel like the church could be seen as a victim in all this as well. But then they fuck up by hiding these people and shuffling them around instead of bringing them to justice.
- Comment on Anon tries to be ethical 2 months ago:
They’re honestly the worst
- Comment on What the fuck happened to YouTube!? 2 months ago:
But you’re stealing from content creators
- Comment on I Worked For MrBeast, He's A Sociopath 3 months ago:
See how hard the responses are just for saying anything. Same shit markings on any of these things lately.
- Comment on TitanFall 2 at 3$ 3 months ago:
Pair this with some Egyptian club music like dj nir Maimon and it’s the best game in the world
- Comment on I Worked For MrBeast, He's A Sociopath 3 months ago:
I have seen enough to know those is all some weird ass bullshit campaign too fuck this guy. It’s all been so engineered and vague. What a joke
- Comment on Rogan Khan 3 months ago:
Holy fuck the repost bots are here
- Comment on Inspirational quotes. 3 months ago:
When it happens do you say " husband it is time for performing oral" and your husband says “why indeed it is time for performing oral how delightful.” Because that would be weird.
- Comment on Ingredience 3 months ago:
Cancer cells are regular cells aren’t they?
What’s the difference?
- Comment on IQ Test 3 months ago:
Awesome thanks for all the information.
Here is my take away, speed is not real. Its a concept created by Big Relativity.
Just mindblowing to me that speed does have no effect on us under certain conditions. Like learning that pregnancy can work in zero G. As if we are star people not just Merpeople from the ocean.
- Comment on IQ Test 3 months ago:
But then there is no limit to how fast we could move? Like there is no speed our heads would explode. There’s no side effect of speed I guess is what I’m asking. Like 2x speed of light would be no different to us the 5km an hour only thing would stuff external to us like the length of things gets shorter. I get in atmosphere we’d be shredded. But technically we can just go.
- Comment on IQ Test 3 months ago:
Wait, dumb question. I’m a vacuum can I go as fast as I want. Like as long as acceleration is cool. Is there technically no downside to increasing speed. Just like we’re technically on a planet spinning fast. If I was in a ship in a total vaccumu and it accelerated at a pace that I could handle, could that ship go faster and faster like a bajillion km a sec and I would just be like sitting there enjoying the ride.
- Comment on Can somebody explain to me why this needs Bluetooth? 3 months ago:
Jokes on them dicks too small for sensors
- Comment on Can somebody explain to me why this needs Bluetooth? 3 months ago:
Where is this? Rimworld?
- Comment on Help me understand littering 3 months ago:
I’ve always wondered if it’s those over clean types. People whose always obsessed with cleaning. They don’t want to dirty their own environment with trash so it all goes out immediately
- Comment on New tech discovered 3 months ago:
I don’t think that’s why questions aren’t asked. I find questions aren’t asked because of ego. Nobody wants to look like they don’t know things. Lots of people will judge others for asking questions. I’m a question guy and it always surprised me how other people just knew things and didn’t ask questions. But I soon started to realize that they don’t know as much as they want others to think. They just have a high value for more independent thinking.
- Comment on New tech discovered 3 months ago:
AI clock would be sweet.
Knows I slept through an alarm and wakes me up or suggests the right time to set alarms based on traffic conditions
- Comment on I grew up in the era of Photoshop and people would post fake nudes. Why is it now a big deal that AI is doing it? Kinda like the Taylor Swift thing on twitter. 3 months ago:
What if my goal is to constantly be led around by media every decade to fear things needlessly when when they use the same lazy appeals every decade.
The right have immigrant headlines. The left seem to hate AI and technology now.
What’s mind blowing is how the same headline are used for both.
- Comment on Boys being boys 3 months ago:
We just want to sleep.
All the time.
Being sick just gives me way less tolerance to pretend I actually want to be conscious
- Comment on This is good stuff 3 months ago:
Then explain this
Boys go to school to get more smarter
Girls go to Jupiter cause they are stupider
- Comment on This is good stuff 3 months ago:
Girls are dumb. Build RC cars and kick ass dudes
