Seriously I don’t understand how some people can handle their best friend and roommate being a POS
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baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
I could never have the opposite politics of my spouse. Sure, we may disagree slightly on some matters an nuance, but a world view in direct conflict with mine would be irreconcilable.
Bristlecone@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
- Fear of making near friends / difficulty making the new friends
- Actual naivety of thinking the POS behaviour doesn’t matter
- Weirdly, peer pressure from other people? For instance you might want to distance yourself from one friend and you are then peer pressured to be in situations with them more often by the other friends, told to build your tolerance of them
… 1 + 2 also applies to romantic relationships!
Edit: just realised ‘best friend AND roomate’ is just a way of referring to a spouse. But there it is, there’s the low-down in my opinion.
SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You bond over other shared interests, like video games and drinking.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
As silly as bonding over race, especially when we disagree on basic morality, but that’s sadly what happens. 😔
laranis@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
When politics felt like shades of policy disagreements I could see it. Now it is either you support democracy and human rights or you’re supporting pedophiles and genocide. Not much common ground anymore.
Leg@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
The Overton window has been busy.
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Is it a roadrunner? Is it a train? No it’s the Overton window growing 120 in the slow lane.
EmpathicVagrant@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
A politically charged tv channel with specifically that goal running for three generations will do that.
bobbear@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Most people vote for the pedophiles, though. Either through the ballot or with their wallet. They’re in politics on all sides. They’re in business. They’re on the computer they use every day. The car they drive.
And human rights. Goes out the window the moment somebody has a bad case of the sniffles. Or when brown people can be blamed for pretty much anything and everything.
It’s almost as if, the main problem isn’t the corrupt deranged elite, but the system and boot lickers that uphold them.
whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
If we’re talking about politics like loudness ordinances and funding for road projects and whether the fire department needs a millage we can share the same values or same values with different priority orders no problem on the different politics.
If we’re talking about whether some people deserve rights or racism or if laws don’t some to some people then it’s more than a politics difference, it’s a values difference.
ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’m so glad my parents and brother have (nearly) the same politics as me. Having to regularly deal with trumpers (without being able to laugh in their faces as with my co-workers) would be a perpetual torment. My brother did have an inexplicable phase of loving Putin, but that passed quickly.
Mrkawfee@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
Same. I couldn’t respect someone with hardened, opposite politics to me. Sex would be satisfying though.
SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
…would it??
Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You never had a good hate-fuck?
SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
It doesn’t seem appealing tbh
rumba@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
All fun and games until you end up pregnant.
shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
For which party and why?
garbagebagel@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
My partner is just slightly less left than me and I struggle with it some days. I can’t even imagine trying to date someone on the other side.
binarytobis@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Sometimes I think about dating again after so long, and I imagine my girlfriend wanting to wiretap our place with an Alexa in the kitchen.
rumba@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
My wife finally gave when the latest round of spying stuff happened. I’ve been trying to get around to building new ones for home assistant that all happen on prem, but there’s a lot of knowledge gap there.
KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2 weeks ago
Nobody can. Egomanic psycopathy isn’t attractive to anyone but the most indoctrinated birds