Maybe I believe in community rules too strictly.
If the rules say women only, it means women only.
Comment on Dude read the rules of woman only community and decided to post anyway
Tedesche@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I honestly don’t know what you’re offended by. Maybe I wasn’t reading closely enough, but could you spell it out for me?
bytesonbike@discuss.online 3 days ago
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 3 days ago
How does an anonymous person on Lemmy prove they are a woman?
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Women enters men only space = stunning and brave
Man enters women only space = sexist and misogynistic and low key sexual assault…
Also, online, womens only spaces are usually just as toxic as fuck as any incel space. We just dont call them what they are. So, IMO, some rules need to take a big long hard suck of societies asshole.
starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
True let’s look at some of those super toxic posts that are very man hating, all taken from the front page
Do you want to have kids? I hate being pregnant essay on menopause tweet about is a woman being rude, or are people conditioned to think a woman being assertive is rude
I actually did not find a single post about a man in about 30 posts. Curious.
gmtom@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Almost like women were systematically oppressed by men for centuries or something
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 2 days ago
And thats why men arent allowed to some quiet time in the shed?
Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 3 days ago
Got and good examples for that statement? I can’t really think of any situations where it is seen as stunning and brave for a woman to enter a men only space. There is a big difference with mostly male and only male.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I suppose the most obvious example is men in sheds. It somethings that was created especially to deal with the issue of male loneliness, especially amongst the older community. Basis for being single gender, was to address those older gents who feel pressures to act a certain way around women. This was that one place they could go and just hang out doing wood working and what not. It was for men to make connections with other men, because men, seemingly, struggle with making or even keeping connections.
Enter the women, who think its sexist. Who think that men dont need just time to themselves. Theres mixed sex and single sex(female) things all over the place. But some women see men only spaces, and think “Not on my fucking watch!!!”.
Every day we talk about mens mental health, then some gaggle of cave brained cunts turns up to tell men how they have to sort their own shit out. Men in sheds did just that. Then it got popular, and then that same gaggle of cave brained cunts turns up talking about how male only spaces are toxic… Rinse, repeat, ad Infinium
www.4bc.com.au/women-are-demanding-entry-into-men… www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cg5qd9l3094o
Why cant men have male on spaces? Why can we have our man caves? And if we do, why is it a a bad thing?
theguardian.com/…/members-of-londons-savile-club-…
Theres a guardian hit piece on the “disappointing” vote to have one of the last remaining gentlemans clubs remain male only. They also have a little go at “mostly white” like thats a fucking crime as well.
Same thing happened at the Flyers club. Men only for 141 years, then all of a sudden women want in and its sexist not to let them.
We cant even just play fucking video games, without getting hammered over the head about how its childish and that we need to grow up. God fucking forbid, we have a fucking hobby and some fun together.
Honytawk@feddit.nl 3 days ago
Like every STEM field ever?
Even if it is just mostly male, it is still seen as stunning and brave. When it should just be the norm.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
time.com/…/organizations-not-for-men-only/
There’s also the Scouts formerly known as Boy (“Boy Scouts” no longer exists, it’s now “Girl Scouts” and “Scouting America” now.)
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 3 days ago
This is not an instance for incels, please leave, and take your mother issues elsewhere.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Username checks out…
Tedesche@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Ah, I was thinking it might just be that, but didn’t want to assume. Yeah, I don’t think it’s that big a deal. If the commenter came in and said some misogynistic shit, definitely, but just for commenting? Eh. Yeah, he shouldn’t have, but how much harm was actually done?
insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 3 days ago
What he said is not bad, it’s not about that, it’s the fact that he read the rules and still thought that he had every right to participate. He’s the reason the community was set up, to have a space where men don’t interrupt and insert themselves into every conversation no matter what.
h3rmit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Yeah, men should go to the back of that bus right?
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
Oh, poor poor oppressed men that aren’t allowed anywhere on the internet!
h3rmit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
I personally do not care, I usually do not want to go into communities/places where I’m not welcome. But disceiminating basing on gender, sex, sexuality, race, ideology, etc… usually frowned upon.
I just find that double standard quite pronounced.
FatVegan@leminal.space 3 days ago
He said female. That’s apparently the new n word
Gebruikersnaam@lemmy.ml 3 days ago
A female woman? In this economy?
To me it’s a sign that someone is not really used to communicating with people irl or that they are trans-exlusionary. Both are a red flag…
know_your_place@eviltoast.org 2 days ago
It’s literally language. If you use it as an adjective, it is literally how it’s meant to be used:
“A female coworker” ✅ “A co-worker who is a woman” ✅ “A woman coworker” ⛔ “A co-worker who is a female” ⛔
You’re just a misandrist masquerading as a feminist.
starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
I understand what you mean but “not used to communicating with people irl” being a red flag is kinda sad. Some people are just not good at socializing or don’t have many friends while also not being a bad person.
gmtom@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Please just go back to reddit
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
He read the rules of the community and decided to break them anyway.
Bazoogle@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Right, the infuriating part is the man ignoring the rules despite clearly being aware of them
Soulg@ani.social 2 days ago
Why is bringing a comment from a woman in his life so bad? It might be a gray area but it’s still from a woman which is what the point was.
I’m not arguing against the rule since I just blocked the community if I can’t interact with it anyway, but it feels like that should be an interesting gray area discussion thing, though that’s also just ignoring the femcels responding to him calling him a liar lol
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
Because he is not following the rules.
pyre@lemmy.world 2 days ago
it’s hearsay; if you can’t cross examine the testimony, it can’t be presented as evidence.