Easy mistake to make

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• EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  When bro is such a bro you completely forget he’s trans.

  My wife’s got a friend this happens with all the time. She’ll be talking to him and something about our oldest will come up. She’ll make some remark to him thinking he’ll relate, entirely forgetting that he had to transition so he didn’t experience whatever it was the same way.

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  • bus_factor@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I learned that my coworker was a lesbian three times before it stuck. What made it stick was during a talk she was having about LGBT issues, where she referenced how obviously gay she looks. I guess the short hair with bright dye was a tell-tale sign to other people. I just enjoy chatting with her, and that sort of thing just didn’t come up very often.

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    • EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      This reminds me of a burn my wife gave to a random guy that decided to hit on her one day she was out running errands while I was taking care of the kids.

      Deadass just first thing out of her mouth after he hit her with the “I won’t tell if you won’t,” to her saying she’s married. “Ew, I’m gonna need you to tell me what about any of this (gesturing to her entire Butch Lesbian look) made you believe I was straight so I can immediately remedy it.” I almost felt bad for the guy for a second. Almost.

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    • shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      My gaydar has been broken since the 80s. Whatever.

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    • MNByChoice@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Good on you for not judging people by their looks.

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  • slaacaa@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I had a “similar” thing with a British colleague.

    We have been working together for months already, then once he made a joke of aiming to be the first POC James Bond. That was the point I realized he’s not white. I of course seen he has a darker (brown) skin tone, but I didn’t pay any attention to it. Turns out he’s parents are from South Asia.

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• svc@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  haircuts are a form of top surgery though…

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  • 0ops@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Can't get more top than a spiffy

    do

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  • caseyweederman@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Gender-affirming care

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• vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  As a cis man I have had the opposite effect, wherein trans men have misidentified me as one of them. No motherfucker I am an attempt at recreating the Norse-Gaels where they stopped at Scottish and durable, I am barrell chested like a mother fucker that mass sticking out is mostly my ribs.

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• dalekcaan@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Just a little off the top, please

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• rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Mike may have been binding before.

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  • Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Why did I also assume his name was Mike?

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    • new_guy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      It’s written in the drawing?

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    • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Safe assumption with white men below a certain class.

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  • JasonDJ@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yeah I’m guessing he was passing quite well if it wasn’t obvious to op, unless ops head is completely up their own ass.

    Probably quite likely that Mikes mood was the most noticable thing about him. He was probably glowing.

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• Gork@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  \GIRL HE HAD F CUPS

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  • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Sorry? I was lookinh at his face.

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• Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Just a little fade

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• FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  “Nah I got something else cut”

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