if bars are empty that’s because you live in a weird suburb
Anon is worried about men
Submitted 2 days ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 2 days ago
Yeah bars are not empty in places that encourage going to places without a car. If you need to be sober to go to and from a bar, then nobody will go to a bar.
echodot@feddit.uk 2 days ago
Americans need to adopt the UK system for bars.
The correct number of bars is equal to, one per every 20 people in the town and they should be at the corner of residential streets and not in the town proper. They all need to be called things like “The Slug and Cabbage”
nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
in my experience every single person in a florida bar is drinking and then driving home
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 days ago
Alcohol is damned expensive at bars, and the number of people who drink is going down over time.
Banana@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
They’d rather complain about being single and resent women than become vulnerable enough to make a real human connection.
MNByChoice@midwest.social 2 days ago
Chasing women used to be presented as the reason for art and accomplishment.
Are the kids alright? (I fear it is more than a vocal minority with jobs writing that are having issues.)
Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
This generation of men should be called the V generation cause they identify as victims.
TheBat@lemmy.world 2 days ago
What speed dating trouble anon is talking about?
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 1 day ago
It’s a lie.
Part of an attempt to further isolate people.
Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 1 day ago
Yea one of the reasons my ex gave when we broke up was that I’m a workaholic. I sometimes finished 20 - 30 minutes after my regular time when I worked at a newspaper and a story came in late.
straightjorkin@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Too busy conforming to some Podcasters idea of masculinity
Nosavingthrow@lemmy.world 2 days ago
refuses to wipe, wonders why women don’t like me
UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 day ago
GhostedIC@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Knew a girl once who smelled like she probably didn’t know how to wipe her ass.
I wouldn’t say she’s been happy or successful, but she’s had a few long and short term male partners (to the surprise of our friend group).
Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Maybe they’re just chronically online complaining that there’s no place for men in this world?
sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
Well I think it’s still part of the problem if 60% of men are addicted to a thing
Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 2 days ago
Maybe growing a spine and doing something of their life would help. Everyone as access to social media, not just men.
driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 2 days ago
I moved from Rio de Janeiro to São Paulo a couple years ago, and while I miss living 15 minutes walking for the beach, the club scene here is in another level. I even starting doing that years ago I tough was crazy that is going to a club for a couple of hours, getting out going to another club after.
Jumi@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Are the non-ace okay?
Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Speed dating is dumb anyway
sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
Tell that to the woman you’re not speed dating rn
TheBat@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Need for Speed Dating: Most Unwanted (2005)
alxmg@slrpnk.net 1 day ago
If only getting a woman wasn’t as hard of a task as climbing to the top of mount Everest.
Guns0rWeD13@lemmy.world 1 day ago
incels always got an excuse.
Alpha71@lemmy.world 1 day ago
This is a western world problem. In other countries this isn’t as much of a problem.
UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
It’s a Lemmy problem. The real world isn’t even close to what these Lemmy posters are saying. lmao
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 days ago
LodeMike@lemmy.today 2 days ago
What’s the reference?
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 days ago
Number stats. Also the song is not really related, it is about bush being reelected in 2004 because only 17% of young voters voted. The song is pretty much a tweet in the form of a song.
JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
I don’t really see a good time in dating strangers, so bars and speed dating are unappealing. Same for dating apps. I’d rather have an outing with someone who I am familiar with and already jive with as a friend.
I don’t think that these stats really matter that much because I already know that I’m not represented in these stats. That’s obviously a biased view, but I don’t think it’s necessarily a incorrect for being biased.
imsufferableninja@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Every stranger is a friend you haven’t met yet
JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
Not true - the vast majority of people you meet, you will not end up connecting with meaningfully. On top of that, you’re risking you and the other party’s social comfort. I’ve already had plenty of cases of people I find obnoxious and unbearable try to force themselves into my social spaces, and I would not wish that on anyone else, nor would I want to be that person.
If people give off the right vibe or are maybe talking about the right thing when I pass by, I might chime in momentarily, but I’m not bothering strangers when there’s no indication of a connection.
UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Actually kinda true! But the downers on Lemmy will never admit that! lol