UniversalMonk
@UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works
Socialist Mormon Satanist. Socialist Workers Party Kopimist. Debt-free. Alcohol-free. Drug-free. Caffeine-free. Work-free. Over 45,000 downvotes hurled at me for refusing to kneel and vote for the capitalist Duopoly. Despite the attempts to silence me, I’m still here. I won’t be stopped.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 6 days ago:
Yeah, I definitely wish I would have went that route when I was younger. I’m retired now, so I can’t complain, but I could have a lot more cool shit if I would have made more money! lol
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 1 week ago:
Good luck, friend! Most people won’t wanna put down PokemonGO long enough to even try something like that.
But hey, admirable that ya wanna try it! I’m all about self-sufficiency. It allowed me to retire early!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 1 week ago:
And what do you suggest that is?
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Congratulations you lived in a different world.
And I’m still in this world. Dude I still date. I’m only in my 50’s. I’m not even as old as brad pitt or Tom cruise.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
We’ll be fine. I promise.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
No clue. Some people just like to hate.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
America has gone AWOL and is selling random people to slave camps.
What?! lol no. Just no.
And AI is getting close to being able to improve itself, leading to the singularity replacing us all.
No.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
You’re the guy that for some reason people wanted to ban before right?
Yep, thats me. And they still wanna ban me. Lol
you’re as nice as can be!
Thank you!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
I’ll pass. You keep doing drugs. I’ll keep fucking. Drugs aren’t my thing. But hey, no hate. You do you.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Fair point. I have just never experienced it on Reddit like I have on Lemmy. But you make valid points!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Tbh playing Magic the Gathering or Warhammer 40k with random dudes at a hobby store is cheaper and more fun than most traditional dates I’ve been on.
You 100 percent just fit the stereotype of most Lemmy users. lol
I mean, hey, it’s your life, you do you. But that sounds like a horrible life to me.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
The crazy one was always great and was the only one who wanted it as often as I did but the rest of that relationship was a mess.
I’ve disagree with most of the posts in this thread. But I gotta say, this stereotype is true in my experience. I have dated a lot of crazy women, and mostly because even the everything else with them is a crazy fucked up mess, the sex is always amazing. The best sex I’ve ever had was with the crazy girls who were overly dramatic, and just always made shitty choices (like sleeping with me! haha)
I say this as someone who is in a kinda serious relationship now (she wants to get married, I’m not quite there yet). Love her lots, sex is great, but man, nothing matches the absolute insanity filthy sex that I had with the crazy girls. It’s something about that just not giving a fuck what they think or lack of respect, or something… But no lie, I kinda don’t wanna get married because don’t wanna give that all up just yet.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Sex with someone you love is the best thing.
It is! But sex with someone ya don’t love is pretty awesome too!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
First off: dating is fucking expensive, and unfortunately standard gender roles means the dude foots the bill most of the time.
Not an excuse for most Lemmy users. Most American Lemmy users make far more than the average American. I have seen Lemmy users legit bitch that they only make $80K a year. That’s mroe than I ever made a year in my entire working life. And I never had a problem dating.
It’s a personality issue, not a money issue.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
As someone who is a bit shorter than average and is socially awkward, it’s tough.
You can fix the socially awkward part. And women aren’t as obsessed with height as Lemmy and the interwebs make them to be.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
It wasn’t “Do not, under any circumstances, speak to a woman” it was, “if you shoot your shot and she’s not interested, move on and don’t make it weird. If she is at work, be very careful as customer service does not equal flirting.”
Yes. I’m amazed so many people are missing this. I’ve dated a lot of women. And when I’ve asked someone out and it didn’t work out, ya shrug, laugh it off and move on. It’s not THAT personal. I’ve turned down others too. It’s the same thing. Some people click with you, some done. Lemmy users seem to take a rejection way too personally.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
When your mom angrily throws out a Victoria’s Secret catalog calling it “disgusting” how are you supposed to feel about liking the pictures?
How about not thinking that since you are no longer a child listening to your mother?
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Despite this, for my entire life, sex has just been a thing that you don’t talk about.
But that’s all on YOU. I have more women friends that guy friends, and women talk about sex a lot. More so than guys in my experience.
Dude, you’re an adult. Doesn’t matter how you were raised, you are obviously smart enough to unprogram yourself from your upbringing.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Enough negative experiences reinforce and define behavior.
Unless you don’t let them.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
and you get another lecture for saying hi
I’ve never ever had that happen. And I’m old enough to have fucked your grandma when she was still young and cute.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
yes
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
Exactly right! Great post!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
This is it. I feel like I am inflicting myself on women. That I am a problem for them simply for existing.
And that attitude and thought process is exactly why you would have a hard time dating. Don’t think like that, friend.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
because the world is ending
Not anytime soon. Stop doomscrolling.
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
People in this thread are fucking wild
Right?! Fucking Lemmy, man… Reading this posts makes me realize why these guys can’t get a date! lol
I’ve never had an issue getting laid, and I’m not attractive or rich. I am lean and 6ft, but that’s not nearly is important to women as Lemmy thinks it is. It’s really about just talking to people.
I’ve never ever had an issue striking up conversations with people. From what I have seen in this thread and others, LOTS of Lemmy users do have issue with talking to people in real life. lol
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
and women have constantly stated they want to be left alone.
I haven’t seen this in the real world at all. lmao
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
It’s a Lemmy problem. The real world isn’t even close to what these Lemmy posters are saying. lmao
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
It totally is! lmao
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
- we have been cuddled too much
Yep!
- Comment on Anon is worried about men 2 weeks ago:
I think we’ve also socialized an entire generation to pathologize mental distress instead of teaching them resiliency.
You have my upvoted. This is 100 percent true! Especially here on Lemmy. I have seen people almost brag as they list their mental issues and meds they’re taking!