aceshigh
@aceshigh@lemmy.world
i am he as you are me and we are all together.
- Comment on Elon Musk’s father on the prospect of the U.S. becoming less white: “This will be very very bad. You want to see the U.S. go dark? You want to go back to the jungle?” 1 week ago:
So here we have a racist pedophile. They do go hand in hand.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
I think a part of that is being attached to things, to material possessions, to experiences. There’s nothing wrong with it of course, we are in charge of creating our own meaning, but attachment influences behavior and decreases our options.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
A possible challenge is that some men struggle to cut their salary because their job title, salary, lifestyle is a big part of their identity. Take that away and who are they?
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
By slowing down. Downsizing. Simplifying. Changing the environment. Maybe therapy. Maybe a support group. Maybe cutting your salary by 25%. But it sounds like you have a kid, so your options are limited - I wouldn’t recommend alcohol, gambling etc.
- Comment on I stream nothing, and I am happy. 3 weeks ago:
Mixed media art and I write.
- Comment on I stream nothing, and I am happy. 3 weeks ago:
Yup. It frees up my time to create instead of consume.
- Comment on Is it weird to simultaneously feel love and hatred towards parents? 3 weeks ago:
Not at all. As babies they were the first people we tried bonding with and that connection doesn’t fade away. That innate feeling competes with hatred if they’re bad/abusive people.
- Comment on BREAKING NEWS: We did it, guys! 20 poptarts! 1 month ago:
Your dog looks relaxed. I tried stacking toys on my pups head and he looked ashamed and uncomfortable.
- Comment on Important update: It's 10 poptarts 2 months ago:
That’s one long nose. What’s the breed?
- Comment on Pandering to conservative Americans 2 months ago:
That’s the only way they know they’re being good Christian’s. If they aren’t being persecuted then they’re doing something wrong.
- Comment on Anon puts himself out there 3 months ago:
Why is there always an assumption that women have support? Also, you really shouldn’t trauma dump on your friends either - they won’t be able to give you space and it may affect them emotionally. Go to a support group and share there.
- Comment on Do gangs that collect protection money actually do any protecting? 3 months ago:
They’re protecting you from themselves.
- Comment on Stunning new data reveals 140% layoff spike in July, with almost half connected to AI and 'technological updates' 3 months ago:
Wonderful. White collar and blue collar workers are both fucked.
- Comment on Every support thread on Reddit is literally this now 3 months ago:
… so now they’re linking to the deleted comments? Lol I guess they do need the users…
- Comment on Water Snek 3 months ago:
If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be 1 curve instead of zigzagging? You’re forgetting the ocean current.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 3 months ago:
You cannot control other people. And as I said, bouandry setting with others is a case by case situation. The next step would be to limit your interaction with them - this could be from changing your routine to something more drastic like changing jobs/going no contact.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 3 months ago:
Check in with yourself during/after interactions and explore your feelings/thoughts that came up. If you experience negative emotions after an interaction, ask yourself why. Did they say or do something that made you feel uncomfortable - ie: being controlling or physically being too close. Keep a list of this and update it. This will tell you what kind of boundaries you need to set and which people violate those boundaries.
- Comment on Funny 3 months ago:
The only way Christian’s know they’re doing good is when they’re being persecuted. So they do things to create conflict, and they get confirmation bias.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 3 months ago:
They see it as a vulnerability they can exploit to get what they want. This is a reminder to use strong boundaries. You can be kind but also strong.
- Comment on heaven 3 months ago:
lol I can’t believe grown ass adults believe this shit. I’m surprised most people dont start questioning this after they learn about Santa clause.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
When the world was on the up and up, some people were doing that. Now fewer and fewer people have kids - even those who want them.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
It’s so condescending when people do that. They don’t know you yet make generalized assumptions. If you never wanted kids you won’t want them - the responsibility won’t decrease, the cost won’t decrease, you won’t have more time to spend with them to parent them. Nothing will change.
- Comment on How do you reconcile staying sane while keeping yourself up-to-date with the news? 3 months ago:
I’m not sure you can. I think boundary setting is important and also contributing to causes you care about. It’s the difference between things you can control and things you can’t, and letting go of the things you can’t control.
- Comment on They even got their own island 3 months ago:
Cus 12 is waay too young… but not 13 /s
- Comment on I'm doing my part 3 months ago:
Why does this only have 4 pixels?
- Comment on Why doesn't Trump destroy or modify the Epstein files? 4 months ago:
They modified the jail video and were surprised that the metadata showed it… that’s the best they can do.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
I didn’t realize anti loitering devices were a thing. What part of the world are they used?
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
It’s a great superpower. In my 30s I got to experience my 20s (I pretty much wasted those years working) and had a bunch of early/mid 20 friends. I didn’t stand out. Everyone thought I was their age, but I had the brain of a 30++ year old so men couldn’t take advantage of me. It was awesome. Had I done that in my actual 20s, I would’ve made a lot of mistakes…
- Comment on Dik Piks 4 months ago:
I still have never received an unsolicited dick pic. I’ve never struggled to get men to like me though… I wonder what it is about me that tells them not to bother with the picture.
- Comment on Why doesn't the Trump administration simply edit the Epstein files and release them? 4 months ago:
MAGA has the memory of a goldfish. Everyone else has t deranged syndrome (or whatever the fuck it’s called).