aceshigh
@aceshigh@lemmy.world
i am he as you are me and we are all together.
- Comment on "No eating for free allowed! You must only watch it rot on the beach!" 1 day ago:
You won’t have to, the edible part of the banana will absorb the skins content.
- Comment on "No eating for free allowed! You must only watch it rot on the beach!" 2 days ago:
That delicious plastic and sewage and population. It does a body good.
- Comment on "No eating for free allowed! You must only watch it rot on the beach!" 2 days ago:
Wonder what all that banana skin soaked up.
- Comment on When a parent's primary/preferred language differs from their child(ren)'s primary/preferred language, who should have the most "obligation" to learn more of the other's preferred language? 3 days ago:
Personally I think the winning language is the language that’s most spoken in the country you both live in. I have been the family translator since I was 6 and I’m exhausted. My parents speak English but they don’t always get things and they’re insecure about it so they’ve always relied on me to translate. Throughout my life we’ve always had weird arguments because we don’t understand each other.
- Comment on why 1 week ago:
Dogs are male? In Russian dogs are female. So I guess there is no standard for gendered language.
- Comment on idk 1 week ago:
I have the same exact kettle.
- Comment on Huge if true 2 weeks ago:
37
- Comment on Huge if true 2 weeks ago:
It’s always interesting to hear about where people draw the line. I drank 6 beers over 4 days and I feel like an alcoholic. I’ve also done takeout 3 days in a row and I feel gross about it - I just made meals for the week. In the meantime what I described for some people is an average week.
- Comment on WhatsApp appears to have ads now. Good thing I don't really use it anymore. 2 weeks ago:
The selling point is unlimited video chat, unlike free zoom.
- Comment on Elon Musk’s father on the prospect of the U.S. becoming less white: “This will be very very bad. You want to see the U.S. go dark? You want to go back to the jungle?” 4 weeks ago:
So here we have a racist pedophile. They do go hand in hand.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
I think a part of that is being attached to things, to material possessions, to experiences. There’s nothing wrong with it of course, we are in charge of creating our own meaning, but attachment influences behavior and decreases our options.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
A possible challenge is that some men struggle to cut their salary because their job title, salary, lifestyle is a big part of their identity. Take that away and who are they?
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
By slowing down. Downsizing. Simplifying. Changing the environment. Maybe therapy. Maybe a support group. Maybe cutting your salary by 25%. But it sounds like you have a kid, so your options are limited - I wouldn’t recommend alcohol, gambling etc.
- Comment on I stream nothing, and I am happy. 1 month ago:
Mixed media art and I write.
- Comment on I stream nothing, and I am happy. 1 month ago:
Yup. It frees up my time to create instead of consume.
- Comment on Is it weird to simultaneously feel love and hatred towards parents? 1 month ago:
Not at all. As babies they were the first people we tried bonding with and that connection doesn’t fade away. That innate feeling competes with hatred if they’re bad/abusive people.
- Comment on BREAKING NEWS: We did it, guys! 20 poptarts! 2 months ago:
Your dog looks relaxed. I tried stacking toys on my pups head and he looked ashamed and uncomfortable.
- Comment on Important update: It's 10 poptarts 2 months ago:
That’s one long nose. What’s the breed?
- Comment on Pandering to conservative Americans 3 months ago:
That’s the only way they know they’re being good Christian’s. If they aren’t being persecuted then they’re doing something wrong.
- Comment on Anon puts himself out there 3 months ago:
Why is there always an assumption that women have support? Also, you really shouldn’t trauma dump on your friends either - they won’t be able to give you space and it may affect them emotionally. Go to a support group and share there.
- Comment on Do gangs that collect protection money actually do any protecting? 3 months ago:
They’re protecting you from themselves.
- Comment on Stunning new data reveals 140% layoff spike in July, with almost half connected to AI and 'technological updates' 3 months ago:
Wonderful. White collar and blue collar workers are both fucked.
- Comment on Every support thread on Reddit is literally this now 4 months ago:
… so now they’re linking to the deleted comments? Lol I guess they do need the users…
- Comment on Water Snek 4 months ago:
If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be 1 curve instead of zigzagging? You’re forgetting the ocean current.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 months ago:
You cannot control other people. And as I said, bouandry setting with others is a case by case situation. The next step would be to limit your interaction with them - this could be from changing your routine to something more drastic like changing jobs/going no contact.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 months ago:
Check in with yourself during/after interactions and explore your feelings/thoughts that came up. If you experience negative emotions after an interaction, ask yourself why. Did they say or do something that made you feel uncomfortable - ie: being controlling or physically being too close. Keep a list of this and update it. This will tell you what kind of boundaries you need to set and which people violate those boundaries.
- Comment on Funny 4 months ago:
The only way Christian’s know they’re doing good is when they’re being persecuted. So they do things to create conflict, and they get confirmation bias.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 months ago:
They see it as a vulnerability they can exploit to get what they want. This is a reminder to use strong boundaries. You can be kind but also strong.
- Comment on heaven 4 months ago:
lol I can’t believe grown ass adults believe this shit. I’m surprised most people dont start questioning this after they learn about Santa clause.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 months ago:
When the world was on the up and up, some people were doing that. Now fewer and fewer people have kids - even those who want them.