Like, it can't be a real person, right? Has anyone tried following the links? I'm curious how they're scamming people. It just seems like anyone getting the same message 5 times won't fall for being catfished, so I don't understand what their strategy is.
The same reason a lot scam emails are riddled with typos, follow recognisable formats (eg nigerian prince) and can be easily determined as scams. If you can spot it you aren’t the mark. It’s a form of selection bias. If your recognise Nicole you probably aren’t new to Lemmy or the Fediverse and are a bad mark. I’d guess, I never followed the links, don’t generally follow links dm’d from random, days old accounts in general. Maybe Nicole truly is just thirsty for Lemmy friends and keeps getting banned lmao.
Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 days ago
The strategy is to get you onto a different platform to make instant messaging easier. They are just “advertising” on Lemmy.
Sparkega@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
There is an effort to reterm away from the dehumanizing and victim blaming “Pig Butchering” to “Romance Baiting”.
Oka@sopuli.xyz 17 hours ago
I’ve updated the post to reflect this.
T156@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Easier and/or less moderated. They would be much more difficult for a moderator to track down if you’re talking with them on another platform.
HappyTimeHarry@lemm.ee 1 day ago
A good guess but so far as i can tell they dont actually message people directly outside of the initial contact. The chat rooms are barely active but ive been idling on the matrix for days and nothing.