Pandantic
@Pandantic@midwest.social
- Comment on [deleted] 1 week ago:
Opening up your relationship to another is tricky - you have to have immense trust in all involved. Do you trust that this guy isn’t just trying to get your wife? Do you trust that your wife isn’t just trying to get another man in the bed or transitioning over to him? Do you trust yourself to not be jealous when he takes her to bed (or goes on a one-on-one date)? If any of these questions gave you a little twinge of sick in your gut, that means you need to explore that - is it something you can overcome with conversations and agreed limits or is it too deep?
I was in a triad and it took some work to get over my jealousy (which I had in all my previous relationships and was not healthy anyway). However, it was a really rewarding experience - I had a same-gender partner to do things with, being with two people in bed is fun, and when things went bad with one partner, I had another one to emotionally support me and help me work through it before having a conversation with the other.
However, again, you have to trust that everyone has the others’ best interests at heart because there’s definitely the potential for one to try and turn the other against you if they aren’t trustworthy.
Good luck!
- Comment on What Experts Want You to Know About Microplastics 1 month ago:
Either our intelligent gut bacteria will make us do the right thing, or we will kill ourselves like birds eating plastic. Heck, we could use Ai to make us a gut bacteria that eats plastic and turns it into energy - who knows what the future holds!
- Comment on fluffle!! 2 months ago:
Do you or your kid throw surprise farties for your wife?
- Comment on wednesday, my dudes 2 months ago:
Then are toads specialized frogs? How does that work?
- Comment on ain't your buddy, pal! 2 months ago:
I was thinking the north west was looking pretty bare too. Some in Montana, but that’s all.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
What’s with the text size / font inconsistency?
- Comment on Definitely didn't waste half an hour making this 3 months ago:
Oh, the “elite” looks so different I didn’t recognize it. I blame looking at it on a phone! 😓
- Comment on Definitely didn't waste half an hour making this 3 months ago:
Mine isn’t here, but 8 if I have to choose.
- Comment on Definitely didn't waste half an hour making this 3 months ago:
- Comment on 3's grip looks the most comfy 3 months ago:
Don’t leave us hanging! What is it?!
- Comment on 3's grip looks the most comfy 3 months ago:
I need all the different thicknesses for different writing tasks!!
- Comment on nature is beautiful 3 months ago:
Literally ants domesticating lower life forms to get sustenance from them, which is wild to me.
- Comment on Polish leader offers actor Jesse Eisenberg military training to 'land the new James Bond role' 3 months ago:
Him?
- Comment on What is the point of the Nicole spam? 3 months ago:
Finally got one today!
- Comment on What is the point of the Nicole spam? 3 months ago:
Someone looked into one of the Nicole accounts, and on that account there was a photo of something shiny, I believe it was a buttplug, and there was clearly a reflection of an old white man reflecting off the object.
I want to know more about this!
- Comment on Playing Dragonsweeper because of Ars' article. Did I have any way out of this without guessing? 4 months ago:
Yeah, I’ve gotten a 2 wins, the first was almost a full clear! I’m starting to get the hang of it.
- Comment on Playing Dragonsweeper because of Ars' article. Did I have any way out of this without guessing? 4 months ago:
I guess I just haven’t gotten the hang of it yet.
- Comment on Playing Dragonsweeper because of Ars' article. Did I have any way out of this without guessing? 4 months ago:
I was one heart away from getting 13 hearts, but at that point I was out of options. 😫
- Comment on Playing Dragonsweeper because of Ars' article. Did I have any way out of this without guessing? 4 months ago:
Have you ever won?
- Comment on Did anyone else notice the similarity? 5 months ago:
- Comment on im soooo normal 5 months ago:
Be the change, young one!
- Comment on Meta Censors #Democrat when searched for 5 months ago:
I wonder if this is Trump doing censorship or China doing censorship making it look like Trump doing censorship.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 months ago:
I didn’t notice. I don’t know, it’s the first one in DuckDuckGo search lol
- Comment on [deleted] 5 months ago:
Ever think about what’s in the middle of a swastika?
- Comment on Victim Anon 5 months ago:
I feel this so much - why not just say what you want/need? It makes relationships so much easier. I will admit, it took a lot of fumbles for me to realize that, tho. 😅
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- Comment on Walgreens Replaced Fridge Doors With Smart Screens. It’s Now a $200 Million Fiasco. 5 months ago:
But think of the ads we can’t play! THE ADS!
- Comment on Why does it seem like Americans have become so hateful and destructive in the past years? 5 months ago:
Maybe I’m wrong here but to me it feels like they become less human…
Oof, try not to do that. De-humanizing a people is a slippery slope.
If you look at the rhetoric spewed by our president-elect and his flunkies, you can see where many Americans (at least 77mil) get their marching orders. Unfortunately, the rest of us are just left to deal with this bad rap because of it. A lot of it comes from, as others said, propaganda in the media - distraction techniques, obfuscation, identity politics - because it sells. This, of course, also stems from our obsession with capitalism - letting the market and million/billionaires do whatever they want because it’s “good for the economy”. We haven’t matured enough to know that what’s good for the worker is good for the economy (or more insidious theories of this being done purposefully to keep us in “survival mode”).
Many of us who are not as you describe are moving out - a sort-of “vote with your wallets” of what country we support. However, not everyone has the ability to do that, and still others have a desire to fix this country. So, don’t paint Americans with such a broad brush because there are many of us who look at those you are speaking of with shame and disgust.
- Comment on 2073 by Asif Kapadia. sci-fi docu. 5 months ago:
That’s definitely eerie. You may be prophetic, we need more details!
- Comment on They used to send these out every year. Anyone remember what year they ended it? 5 months ago:
The town I live in now has not.
