Anon tries to help
Submitted 2 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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can@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Anon should only speak when spoken to smdh
WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
hot
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 months ago
We don’t have context but unless she and he were talking to each other for a while anon wanting to help and being turned down not with a ‘no, just need him, thanks though’ but by being sworn at is extreme behaviour
Anon needs a talk with that friend of his honesty
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Middle school is, was, and will be full of dicks. How 1/2 of all middle schoolers turn into decent people, I don’t know.
Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Lmfao you think 1/2 of everyone is decent? How optimistic of you
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Half feels right. The moral median is forever moving up. I can trust most people in a room to avoid murdering, robbing, raping, or engaging in political conversation with me, so that’s my rationale.
Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Parato principle works here too. It’s like 20% are decent, 60% sit on the fence depending on context, and 20% are always awful.
These ratios are more strictly 20/80 the older the sample sets, ie roughly 80% of people over 65 are toxic, in most cases, even when their behavior hurts themselves.
Speiser0@feddit.org 2 months ago
1/2 of them have not dicks.
anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Nah, less than half since sone of them are penetrating, and that proportion on average is less than the number of people that age getting bottom surgery
Saledovil@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
The parts of the brain responsible for social behavior don’t fully develop until adulthood, and the brain gets rewired substantially during puberty, around middle school age. So, a middle schooler is seriously handicapped when it comes to social behavior.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
How 1/2 of all middle schoolers turn into decent people, I don’t know.
that’s the trick actually, they don’t.
Skkorm@lemmy.world 2 months ago
What a virgin. They were clearly flirting, mind your own business.
grue@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Dollars to doughnuts Anon was autistic in the literal sense and didn’t understand.
Skkorm@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’M autistic in the literal sense. It’s pretty common for us ASD folks to read social scenarios incorrectly. “I just stayed away from girls after that” is an extreme reaction.
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Nothing some bullying won’t fix
akkajdh999@programming.dev 2 months ago
but my friend agreed with her
??? did you try changing friends?
Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Friends, plurar?
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 months ago
Not a change of friends but instead a talk with them
I would assume he did it without thinking much and a quick discussion would allow said friend to improve his behaviour
akkajdh999@programming.dev 2 months ago
Agree
Donkter@lemmy.world 2 months ago
middle school
x00z@lemmy.world 2 months ago
How does one feel bad about this?
I learned very quickly to determine such people as worthless and to not let it bother me.
deathbird@mander.xyz 2 months ago
Awkward teens trying to flirt with each other, who get mad when their oblivious friend tries to get in between, are worthless?
x00z@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Perspective.
Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Me too. Only took 20 years past high school
qyron@sopuli.xyz 2 months ago
Like that, sadly.
Thcdenton@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I got so many memories like this that they take turns fucking my brain 24/7
rockerface@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Thanks, now I’m less sad about the fact I barely interacted with other people in middle school
Bronzebeard@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Anon still hasn’t figured out they were trying to flirt with one another and he had butted his away into the middle of that?
grue@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I mean… it’s 4chan, what did you expect?
Honestly, by clearly explaining the problem you probably do those anons a genuine service.
Gustephan@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Identifying flirting when you’re autistic is hard. I did an extra-cirricular in highschool that involved regular travel for tournaments. One time while on one of those trips a girl on the team knocked on my hotel room door and asked if she could sleep in my room because her roommate was being loud, so I let her in and she slept with me in my bed. I mean slept in a very literal sense; I took her at face value and thought she was just trying to get better sleep for the tournament the next day. I did not understand that she was flirting with me until years later when the roommate who was “being loud” that night tore into me for rejecting her and destroying her self esteem. The kicker is that I was into her, I just had no idea she liked me. It seems very plausible to me that anon is/was that bad at identifying flirting
mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Honestly, identifying flirting in general is hard. One time I spent half an evening cooking with a friend while she wasn’t wearing a shirt, just a bra. I thought that was a pretty strong hint that she was into me, but she seriously wasn’t
Lojcs@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Anon forgot straight people exist
teslasaur@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Autist gonna autist