Usually being verbally abusive toward “females”
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SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
How the hell do you manage to get banned from dating apps?
ajmaxwell@lemmy.world 6 months ago
MxM111@kbin.social 6 months ago
Why female is “in quotes”?
bstix@feddit.dk 6 months ago
It’s a derogatory when used as a noun.
Previous poster put it in quotes to show that OP probably used it that way.
ajmaxwell@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Yup
Maalus@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Who says “females” in that context? Usually a very specific subset of people who have “never been in a relationship” and make it other people’s problem. Like, regular person would just say “women”, hence OP quoting from the post
Gallardo994@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
[deleted]MindSkipperBro12@lemmy.world 6 months ago
It’s a Brave New World and I proudly welcome it.
bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 6 months ago
Incels referring to women as females and likely a real chauvinistic attitude
Aggravationstation@lemmy.world 6 months ago
“Hello bambinos”
OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 6 months ago
My wife’s best friend has been banned a couple times and is waiting to appeal her tinder ban again.
Although often justifiable based on the ways these guys have acted/spoke to her, it’s usually because she’s super ruthless in her response. A guy got mad she wasn’t interested in just being a booth call after she said she’s there for dates too, said she was after a free meal (paying hadn’t come up yet, and she always pays for herself unless a guy insists) and so she tore into him. And she’s brutal. Another had ghosted her after rescheduling on the date twice and saying stuff came up and that he’s busy (days after the fact, no check in or nothing) and so she told him that’s some horse shit and that he’s a little bitch that needs to get his life in order if he’s gonna stand somebody up twice after begging for a second chance.
She definitely could be nicer sometimes, but from what I’ve read from her it’s no different than how I see a lot of dudes talk on there, I think those guys just got their feelings hurt more than standard tinder girls do.
Fosheze@lemmy.world 6 months ago
So someone who can’t control their temper got banned. The system works.
Illecors@lemmy.cafe 6 months ago
I don’t see where the temper is lost there. I can say yout reading conprehension is non-existant at best, or you simply can’t read at worst; none of that would be uncontrolled temper. It is very much pointing things out without sugarcoating.
Fosheze@lemmy.world 6 months ago
and so she tore into him. And she’s brutal.
If you’re “tearing into” people on a dating app then you have no business being on dating apps. I’ve definitely been ghosted and shit talked on dating apps and I haven’t ever snapped at someone over it. If you’re not mature enough to just block (and report if applicable) and move on then you should not be on dating apps. “Tearing into” people over dating app BS tells me that this is someone who can’t control their temper.
InfiniteStruggle@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
I don’t know man, I think temper is having the self control to consider your words BEFORE they fall out of your mouth, modifying it to take into account the circumstance and the recipient and all that, and THEN saying it.
In your example it would depend if your friend was being mean in the heat of the moment, or deliberately deciding to be so brutal. Either way, your friend doesn’t sound like a very nice person to be around.
arin@lemmy.world 6 months ago
I can see why she’s single LMAO
Clbull@lemmy.world 6 months ago
I used to go to school with a lady that was perma banned from Tinder last year. My guess is she replied to creepy/perverted messages with enough hostility that they yeeted her straight off the platform.
To put this in the most respectful terms possible, she was horrible towards me back in secondary school and that’s why we barely talk now.
By the way, she’s not single.
Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
In all honesty I’ve gotten banned from a couple. Turns out they don’t usually take account security super seriously. Stop using it for a bit, and suddenly it’s sending out obvious scam bait messages lol
SomethingBurger@jlai.lu 6 months ago
They shadowban you if you’re ugly.
Polyester6435@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 months ago
You can also get banned from dating apps for not using them the way the app wants you to. For example not messaging people back or not swiping right enough on tinder.
Clbull@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Source?
Dra@lemmy.zip 6 months ago
Mental mal-adjustment
CurlyMoustache@lemmy.world 6 months ago
M’lady
cro_magnon_gilf@sopuli.xyz 6 months ago
I’ve literally been asking that question. A lot of people never get to know why they’re banned.
Match Group owns the biggest ones, and sometimes people seem to get banned from all of them at once.
But Google Play Store also disallows installing dating apps for some people. Very unclear why, because there’s no official word on them doing it.
Maybe it’s for legitimate reasons, but given these companies dominance, I find it disconcerning.
chaogomu@kbin.social 6 months ago
There might be a link between the bans from dating apps and the "not been in a long-term relationship"...
FoundTheVegan@kbin.social 6 months ago
Add another link to posting on 4chan. I'm sure they are just a SWELL.
reflex@kbin.social 6 months ago
I feel like everything except their age can be traced back to no education.
Soulg@lemmy.world 6 months ago
There are plenty of otherwise normal, functional people on that website.
PM_me_your_doggo@lemmy.world 6 months ago
But they never post anything
Socsa@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
Nobody who is well adjusted would tolerate the virulent racism for very long.
fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
For example, /tg/ is a haven of tranquility, compare to the cancerous cesspool that is /pol/. I’ve never needed any of the other boards, frankly.
MartinXYZ@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
What is “a SWELL”?
HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
Sock With Exposed Lead Lining.
don@lemm.ee 3 months ago
Stagnant Water Enhanced Laser Level