Lol lemmy is just as terrible with women as 4chan is. Do you remember what it was like here during the man vs the bear question? So many users being the example of why women would prefer the bear
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red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
If we are the normies, what are 4chan users? The abnormies?
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
lka1988@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
This has nothing to do with online platforms, and everything to do with terminally-online people who have never experienced socializing with the opposite gender.
Fizz@lemmy.nz 2 months ago
Have you seen the 4chan response to that question? Its not comparable.
waigl@lemmy.world 2 months ago
These days, there is nothing abnormal anymore about a 4channer in highschool with a self-centered and entitled world view, low work ethics and a video gaming hobby. He is the normie. The guy who volunteers in a soup kitchen and takes active care of his own body is the one who dares to stand out and be different.
Wanderer@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Have you met a youth lately?
Every teenage and guy in their 20’s has two hobbies doom scrolling and gym. They can’t do anything else that doesn’t involve chatgpt
exasperation@lemm.ee 2 months ago
any male born after 2003 can’t date… all they know is 4chan , lift they weights, goon, be incel , eat hot tendie & lie
lime@feddit.nu 2 months ago
lol like any of them have abs
schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
Everyone thinks of people who aren’t part of their group as “normies”. The Pope thinks of non-Catholics as normies. The Hebrew word for “normies” is “goyim”.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Considering the community, you’re probably better off not talking about Jewish people.
ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Artists.
BetaBlake@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Sociopathic deplorables
AbnormalHumanBeing@lemmy.abnormalbeings.space 2 months ago
As literally an abnormie, I am appalled by that thought!
Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 2 months ago
Like most of us don’t visit 4chan or something…
Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
According to them, robots, NEETs, -oids, etc.
Samdell@lemmy.eco.br 2 months ago
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
How dare you.
thefartographer@lemm.ee 2 months ago
No no, they might have a point…
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
How double dare you.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I always want to point out that I’m a normie, then I start thinking of criteria and shut my mouth.
meep_launcher@lemm.ee 2 months ago
The real normies are the ones you made along the way
j4k3@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Normal is someone you do not know well enough yet. It is a fictitious misconception. If you think about the concept objectively, you likely will not be able to name anyone you know really well that fits into the ideal group you have mentally abstracted as normal. The construct is part of tribalism and our human complex social hierarchy on a subconscious level; we are deciding who is and is not part of our personal tribe and their ranking within that hierarchy relative to our own. Everyone is abstracting on this level, but few are self aware in this space.
blarghly@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I honestly doubt this. Some people just live life by the book, never have an original thought, and are the square peg the square hole is looking for.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 2 months ago
Why? Having niche interests is pretty normal.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
If you’re part of .01% portion of a population that divides itself, you’ve likely got something different brewing in your brain than most. And there’s nothing wrong or right about that, but it is worth considering.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 2 months ago
In one way or another you aee .01% of population, e.g. someone is from austria, electrician speaks german and english and italian, goes to church and part of the chorus, their partner is from italy, and they like mountain bikes. How many people like this in the world? How exactly using lemmy is less normal then using another less popular forum?
Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Niche in this context literally means to be of interest to a small minority. Or to say it in other words, not normal.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 2 months ago
I know what the word niche means, it doesn’t in any way or other words mean ‘not normal’.