Lol lemmy is just as terrible with women as 4chan is. Do you remember what it was like here during the man vs the bear question? So many users being the example of why women would prefer the bear
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red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 weeks ago
If we are the normies, what are 4chan users? The abnormies?
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 weeks ago
lka1988@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
This has nothing to do with online platforms, and everything to do with terminally-online people who have never experienced socializing with the opposite gender.
Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 weeks ago
Have you seen the 4chan response to that question? Its not comparable.
waigl@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
These days, there is nothing abnormal anymore about a 4channer in highschool with a self-centered and entitled world view, low work ethics and a video gaming hobby. He is the normie. The guy who volunteers in a soup kitchen and takes active care of his own body is the one who dares to stand out and be different.
Wanderer@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
Have you met a youth lately?
Every teenage and guy in their 20’s has two hobbies doom scrolling and gym. They can’t do anything else that doesn’t involve chatgpt
exasperation@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
any male born after 2003 can’t date… all they know is 4chan , lift they weights, goon, be incel , eat hot tendie & lie
lime@feddit.nu 4 weeks ago
lol like any of them have abs
schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 4 weeks ago
Everyone thinks of people who aren’t part of their group as “normies”. The Pope thinks of non-Catholics as normies. The Hebrew word for “normies” is “goyim”.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
Considering the community, you’re probably better off not talking about Jewish people.
ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
Artists.
BetaBlake@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Sociopathic deplorables
AbnormalHumanBeing@lemmy.abnormalbeings.space 4 weeks ago
As literally an abnormie, I am appalled by that thought!
Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 4 weeks ago
Like most of us don’t visit 4chan or something…
Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 4 weeks ago
According to them, robots, NEETs, -oids, etc.
Samdell@lemmy.eco.br 4 weeks ago
Lemmy users are not normies
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 weeks ago
How dare you.
thefartographer@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
No no, they might have a point…
red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 weeks ago
How double dare you.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I always want to point out that I’m a normie, then I start thinking of criteria and shut my mouth.
meep_launcher@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
The real normies are the ones you made along the way
j4k3@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Normal is someone you do not know well enough yet. It is a fictitious misconception. If you think about the concept objectively, you likely will not be able to name anyone you know really well that fits into the ideal group you have mentally abstracted as normal. The construct is part of tribalism and our human complex social hierarchy on a subconscious level; we are deciding who is and is not part of our personal tribe and their ranking within that hierarchy relative to our own. Everyone is abstracting on this level, but few are self aware in this space.
blarghly@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I honestly doubt this. Some people just live life by the book, never have an original thought, and are the square peg the square hole is looking for.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 4 weeks ago
Why? Having niche interests is pretty normal.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
If you’re part of .01% portion of a population that divides itself, you’ve likely got something different brewing in your brain than most. And there’s nothing wrong or right about that, but it is worth considering.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 4 weeks ago
In one way or another you aee .01% of population, e.g. someone is from austria, electrician speaks german and english and italian, goes to church and part of the chorus, their partner is from italy, and they like mountain bikes. How many people like this in the world? How exactly using lemmy is less normal then using another less popular forum?
Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 weeks ago
Niche in this context literally means to be of interest to a small minority. Or to say it in other words, not normal.
nesc@lemmy.cafe 4 weeks ago
I know what the word niche means, it doesn’t in any way or other words mean ‘not normal’.