IME there's nice guys and then there's "Nice Guys"
Submitted 3 weeks ago by bubblybubbles@lemmy.ml to [deleted]
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ddplf@szmer.info 3 weeks ago
Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
Oh my god, seeing that dude always makes my skin crawl. This man is the epitome of the evil that lives openly where I grew up. I don’t understand how anyone who believes in Satan doesn’t immediately see it when they look at him. I don’t even believe in Satan and I see it.
Raiderkev@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Can’t fly in a tube full of “demons” (the poors)
bigfondue@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Joel Osteen too. When he’s preaching he does this eyebrows circumflex fake sincerity face and I don’t understand how anyone can look at him and see anything other than a grifter.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
Come on, “nice guys” aren’t literal Satan, give them a sliver of a break !
cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
Who’s that?
peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 3 weeks ago
It’s ok to feel hurt if you get rejected.
It’s not ok to go full Joker and hurt other people because you were hurt.
ozymandias@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
sometimes women are especially mean and insulting when rejecting men…
i don’t think it’s super common, and it’s a natural response to all of the men trying to be “players”….
but i think it comes from there, and then deciding all women are exactly the same as the worst experience they’ve ever had with a woman.peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
I sort of get that. But after what I went through with my ex wife, rejection seems so tiny compared to what a bad relationship can put you through.
A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Fuck “nice”, be kind
y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
Came here to say something similar.
There are “nice guys” and there are kind people and they are not the same thing.
fodor@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
If someone rejects you and in their explanation they say that “you’re a nice guy but”, don’t believe them. They just don’t yet realize that they don’t have to explain themselves, and they’re grasping at any words they can use that are generic and non-confrontational. Which is understandable, don’t judge them for that, just move on with life.
Genius@lemmy.zip 2 weeks ago
Sometimes I want to explain myself because the person I’m rejecting is my friend and I want them to have a sense of closure because I like them
TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
I’m a nice guy, but… I’m not a guy lol
cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
Yeah, youre a toad
dumbass@leminal.space 2 weeks ago
Yeah, cos you a bitch that’s why.
ikidd@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I just stopped being nice after the first couple times; it was highly effective.
lyrixez@lemmy.zip 3 weeks ago
Became a villain
chiliedogg@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
If your kindness is transactional, you’re not a nice person.
bubblybubbles@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
Hecks yea!