I’m wondering what the hell he did at the gym to piss everyone off?
Anon has nothing to do
Submitted 3 weeks ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
tacosanonymous@mander.xyz 3 weeks ago
I assumed he just meant women in general.
Jesus_666@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
And that’s the thing: If you only go to the gym to pick up women because your horrible personality won’t cut it you’ll go home disappointed.
That’s a pattern I generally see with these self-loathing greentexts: The posters have “ambitions” (read: feel entitled to success, money, and/or women) but don’t want to put in consistent effort or figure out why things are going wrong for them. Instead they project all the blame onto the rest of the world and spiral into depression.
When they do decide to put in the effort you usually get something along these lines:
> be me
> ugly and everyone hates me
> go to the gym to get a bod I can pick up females with bc they’re all shallow
> actually get into working out
> become friends with the gym bros
> now I feel great, have a sixpack and real friends
> itsthateasy.tif
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 weeks ago
Threw around the weights and destroyed 50% of the gym equipment
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 weeks ago
I get the depression part, but what did he do to get so hated by eveeyone he knows?
bus_factor@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Beats me, he seems like he spreads joy wherever he goes.
Or it’s just the depression talking.
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
It’s 4chan. They assuredly developed some antisocial behaviors and some opinions on [a race, creed, skin color, political affiliation, sexual preference, nationality, incredibly niche video game that no one has heard of beyond the viscerally gut wrenching rape scene, etc.] that led them toward ignominy.
stray@pawb.social 3 weeks ago
It may actually be part of the depression. We don’t know that anyone hates him, just that he believes they do.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
I learned to not be hated by shutting up in places where it matters, and pretending I don’t exist. I just do whatever people want of me, assume I’m wrong about anything I say, and only speak if forced to
tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Same. Though I didn’t develop critical thought until my late 20s since I was basically in people-please mode 24/7 making myself useful.
There’s gotta be a balance
Auth@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’m curious how 4chan posters react to this kind of a post I am assuming the average age is like 35 on that site now. Its so pointless, blah blah blah im 20 and i think everything is the end of the world anyone relate? You’re 20 and lost some friends, it sucks but its not over and you havent been “left behind”.
Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 3 weeks ago
age 20? that’s nearly half way to 50 which is half way to 100 which is practically game over man
Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 3 weeks ago
That was my life. Then I find a woman who loves me. I have a lot to rebuild, sure. I was badly affected by the lockdowns and the depression they caused. I don't think it's hopeless, but I realize that the chapters of my life ahead will be far simpler and more isolated than those behind.
Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
I am in a similar situation. Except mine was forced to leave the country over strict immigration policy, as she isn’t a citizen here.
Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 3 weeks ago
I mean, that sucks, but that's not the end of the world. You can still communicate with her, and either of you can emigrate.
JokeDeity@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
20, lol. My “her” lasted more than half your life, I don’t think you know what pain really is yet, chief.
DrunkAnRoot@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
dont please anyone not worth the rime
Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
If you have a job, you can enjoy your spare time how you please. Although maybe be less hateable…
starman2112@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
/>doesn’t want to do anything or see anyone or go anywhere
/>thinks he has ambition
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 weeks ago
i think he misused the word but it gets the point across
ddplf@szmer.info 3 weeks ago
So many of these guys consider themselves Patrick Bateman irl, I’d absolutely not be surprised if it wasn’t just “I wish I was happy despite having no ambitions”, but rather he considers himself a “temporarily embarassed achiever”
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 weeks ago
I miss having ambition