This basically North American high school PTSD
I knew very little people in my high schools … yes high schools, I went to three different schools and in every one I didn’t know many people
In my first year of school … I quickly found out … you don’t take a shit in school … EVER!
It’s basically like prison rules … if you ever get caught in the bathrooms, you’re on your own as officials, teachers and adults are seldom there and you are stuck behind closed doors with other students, most who are older than you. So all you do is pee as fast as possible and leave. You usually wait until times and moments when its quiet and no one is there … or less likely to be there.
It’s nuts because the more I write about it and remember it … the more I felt like it was more like prison rules or an institution rather than a school for children or teens.
Dr_Box@lemmy.world 1 day ago
At my school no one took shits because if you did anyone else in the bathroom would laugh and call you out by name if they could figure out who was in the stall “HAHA he’s taking a shit in there!” I was so self concious about it until senior year when I stopped caring about it
ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Yup and my wife is constantly complaining that my son and I won’t poop in public. It’s a childhood trauma that nobody wants to recognize and prevent. Men’s bathrooms should by code be floor to ceiling and private, especially in schools.
gigachad@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
Maybe it’s a lack of a ventilation system why the doors have gaps? I am from Europe where the gaps are not as excessive as in the US, still they exist and the trauma is real.
Shootingstarrz17@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Yes, I’m so envious of the bathrooms in Europe, they give good privacy.
PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 23 hours ago
i had this for a while. end when on holiday having not had a shit in a week.
I really cracked the porcelain when i got over that particular fear that week
Laid a real bog clogger
altima_neo@lemmy.zip 16 hours ago
Doesn’t help they were fucking filthy