Why build for tomorrow when it's someone else's tomorrow?

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• thefactremains@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  They would never build for you because you will teach them by example to build for their descendents.

  “A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they know they shall never sit.”

  • ancient Greek proverb

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    What if they don’t care for their descendents and they only care for ideas.

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    • BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Not really how our monkey brains work generally. We’re biologically programmed to do lots of things, like want to have babies (or at least sex and not be smart about it) and to take care of them. Not everyone does a good job, but historically speaking it’s led to a population of a few hundred people turning into a few billion.

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    • Kelly@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      That’s the whole gene vs meme concept.

      The same principal applies in that people who come after you can receive your ideas.

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• ExtremeDullard@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’m from yesterday. When I was a kid in the 70’s, my tomorrow was the triumph of science, an evermore interconnected world of evermore educated people, the rule of individual rights and freedoms, the retreat of religion and magical thinking, fewer and fewer wars and the gradual end of poverty.

  I’m very bitter today because somebody stole my future. But you can also argue that I, a man of yesterday, failed to shape the world of today too. We all failed.

  If you’re a person of today, you need to work towards a better tomorrow right now. Because if you don’t, you’ll end up regretting not doing it later in life like I do.

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• ToiletFlushShowerScream@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Because someone else has already built it for us. It’s our duty to pass it on. And honestly it is the core of what it means to be human. Otherwise you’re a parasite who deserves what parasites deserve.

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• shaggyb@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Because you are not the main character of the universe.

  You will leave behind consequences for your actions. The consequences of the actions of others gave you the world you have lived in, as will the consequences of your shape the world of the future.

  There is nothing after death and we all know that, so all there’s left to plan for after you die is the legacy of what you did while you were here.

  Speaking for me, I value the idea that the consequences of my life wind up being more positive than negative for future generations. I also value feeling like I’ve changed things for the better now, and so when I have a platform or any influence I aim for that.

  If you don’t care about any of that, please seek counseling. The rest of us will be better off with fewer narcissists.

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Sorry, my question really hurt you.

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    • shaggyb@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      We’re talking about you, bud. I’m good.

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• truthfultemporarily@feddit.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Empathy.

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• VitoRobles@lemmy.today ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.

  Your other person’s tomorrow is you.

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• hedge_lord@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Today was pretty shit but there were some parts of it that were neat and I want others to be able to cherish more of the parts that were neat

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• garbagebagel@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I think Western society/individualism has erased a lot of this but for centuries before colonialism and still in a lot of indigenous and non-western societies, it’s expected to respect your elders and take care of them. In turn, they should be aiming to build that respect for themselves and to be a good ancestor for those preceding them. You see this all across indigenous belief systems - your society/nature will take care of you just as you took care of it.

  The reason nobody did shit for us is because that’s been overridden by colonialism and individualistic mindsets. Humans aren’t meant to be as selfish as we’ve become, that’s why we’re so unhappy.

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• HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Because I want the future to say nice things about me.

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    “…And children then there was HobbitFoot. He was just a good dude, what can I say.”

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    • Kolanaki@pawb.social ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      “He was a lucky Hobbit’s Foot.”

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• Spacehooks@reddthat.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I like the idea that I was part of the foundation of something positive that will outlast a single human life time. All you have to do is not be a douch to positively impact. Maybe it’s just a drop in a bucket but ocean is just a collection of drops of water.

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• bigboismith@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Not sure why this is so downvoted , it’s an interesting question.

  There are many things that made us shoot forward in the evolutionary arm race, but one the parts is the sharing of knowledge and values to our offspring.

  Children want to learn from their parents, and parents want to teach their children in the same way they learnt from their parents.

  The early humans who started this generational knowledge sharing fared better, and humans became more social and dependent on each other, while the humans focused on themselves more than their offspring perished.

  It’s in our nature to care for our next generation, in the same way the previous generation cared for us.

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  • XTL@sopuli.xyz ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Not sure why this is so downvoted

    My guess is because it’s kind of an asshole sentiment and not a useful post on any way.

    Until you notice that it’s posted in nostupidquestions and actually is on topic.

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  • Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Monke want hug

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    • bigboismith@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Monke give hug, monke get hug

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• Quadhammer@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Because helping others feels better than being an asshole

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• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  From a purely cynical perspective: Species survival. Evolution has programmed us to desire offspring and try to ensure their ability to produce offspring. To do that, I need to make sure the world is livable for them and the next generations.

  Small minded people see this and think “I just need to make it better for my kids not everyone”. They’re missing the big picture. They fail to see that we survive better if everyone is surviving better.

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• jeffw@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Sometimes you can be so sure about the poster’s age

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  • ExtremeDullard@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Is it a problem?

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  • shaggyb@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    May as well teach them then.

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• Treczoks@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  It could be a tomorrow you are building for your children.

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• BmeBenji@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Odds are that there are dozens of people way cooler than me who would benefit from the work that I can do in preparation for them.

  Also, eternal life, like immortality in the annals of human history, is only something I can hope for. Making other people’s lives better is the only way I know for sure I can make a mark in the world.

  As Bo Burnham puts it, “You pray so badly for heaven knowing any day could be the day that you die. Maybe life on Earth can be heaven. Doesn’t just the thought of it make it worth a try?”

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• FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  We are monkeys that with the benefit of lots of time have developed opposable thumbs, tools, and language. We used language to describe abstract concepts in words. One of those words is “legacy.” Some people are driven to build one. Some are just altruistic. The urge to create offspring is also common and with it the hope your brats will fare well. There are your reasons why some people build for a tomorrow that never pays them back.

  Consider also that somebody has built the road that leads to your house, the city you’re in, the hospital you go to when you’re sick. Civilization is a chain of paying stuff forward for those who come after you.

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• deadcatbounce@reddthat.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yes, pretty sure no-one is going to (be able to) look back on Gen Z and remember their achievements, except maybe in a negative way.

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