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- Comment on do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated? 3 weeks ago:
You don’t need to apologize to take ownership of your impact.
When partners acknowledge how their words and actions affect the other (regardless of intent) they make the relationship safer, more responsive, and more connected.
Ownership is acknowledging the effects of your behavior, not absorbing all blame or excusing harmful behavior from either partner.
It sounds like “When I did X, the impact on you was Y…here’s what I’ll do differently,” which lowers defensiveness and invites collaboration on solutions.
- Comment on If I found voter irregularities in my home district do I have to hire a lawyer to prove it.? Or just let it go and the Florida Orange win? 2 months ago:
Also because it’s an effective way to prove you voted a certain way to a vote buyer.
- Comment on Why build for tomorrow when it's someone else's tomorrow? 6 months ago:
They would never build for you because you will teach them by example to build for their descendents.
“A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they know they shall never sit.”
- ancient Greek proverb
- Comment on Why is OCR for handwritten content still that bad? 7 months ago:
100% agreed. But it doesn’t change the answer of why they are apparently better than OCR.
- Comment on Why is OCR for handwritten content still that bad? 7 months ago:
Because it can fill in gaps where the recognition fails.
- Comment on Do you need to adjust your speedometer if you change the size of your tires? 7 months ago:
Judging people for their actions/choices is wildly different from judging someone for how they were born.
- Comment on Can you "change" the environment in your "local" area? 1 year ago:
This city in Colombia did.
- Comment on How could I order flowers for someone in Poland, as a Canadian? 1 year ago:
Yes they can - through Glovo
- Comment on If civilization continues to the year 9999, is the idea to go to year 10.000, or...? 1 year ago:
If we’re no longer on earth, days and years will be based on whatever orbit we’re following. So I guess the counter would start from zero.
- Comment on Please help me find/place a quote from Aleister Crowley 1 year ago:
You’re probably looking for this book (not written by Crowley himself)