anon, knows that drunk people can’t consent 👍
Anon pregames
Submitted 2 years ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 years ago
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 years ago
Anon is a good person
Enkrod@feddit.org 2 years ago
Anon doesn’t care she’s drunk, only that she “belongs” to someone else. Good Anon would have told her to try this again while sober.
Sarmyth@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Unfortunately they don’t actually state their reasoning. They just state what they told her while trying to reason with them to go to sleep.
You are probably right, but its just an assumption. It their position I would also be attempting to reason with them by reminding them of their existing relationship instead of “No, I don’t want to rape you. You cannot consent.”
ceenote@lemmy.world 2 years ago
He earned extra tendies.
BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 2 years ago
My dumb ass was expecting her to pass out and anon grilling everything in the fridge.
Schmuppes@lemmy.today 2 years ago
That would be an absolute alpha move.
Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
Me too! I was so excited to hear what random things he was gonna grill. 0.5/10, much disappointment.
Vivendi@lemmy.zip 2 years ago
ITT: The top regarded minds of Lemmy argue their shitty opinions on consent and rape
Abandon all hope ye who enter
10_0@lemmy.ml 2 years ago
First comment I see, thank you for the warning brother I’ll take a hike on this one!
Soulg@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
I didn’t see a single awful take. Some I disagreed with but none that were awful.
TriflingToad@lemmy.world 2 years ago
if looking for awful takes, abandon all hope ye who enter here
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 2 years ago
Ya did the right thing, anon. Your mama raised you right, and would be proud.
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 years ago
Good guy anon hope he lives life well
halvar@lemm.ee 2 years ago
I really thought there will be a plotwist at the end that somehow this is all about grilling.
pjwestin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
“It wouldn’t be right to rape you, you have a boyfriend,” is about what I expect from a 4Channer.
Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 2 years ago
If you were in that situation, would you say “no, I would be raping you”? The boyfriend excuse is a much more tactful way to get yourself out of the situation.
pjwestin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
No it’s not. “Hey, I really like you, but you’ve had too much to drink and this wouldn’t be right. If you feel this way tomorrow, let me know,” is a perfectly acceptable answer. Hell, I’ve given that answer before. It’s certainly not less tactful than, “You have a boyfriend and what you’re doing is wrong.” And yeah, cheating on your boyfriend is bad, but not as bad as rape, which this would have been.
Soulg@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
So you’re shitting on them for doing the right thing? Or am I misinterpreting
pjwestin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
His reasoning for not sleeping with her was that she had a boyfriend, so it, “wouldn’t be right.” But that girl was so drunk that sleeping with her would have been rape. He did the right thing, but his reasoning was clearly wrong, and implies that if she didn’t have a boyfriend he would have slept with her, even though she could not consent.
match@pawb.social 2 years ago
The last temptation is the greatest treason / to do the right deed, for the wrong reason
kuberoot@discuss.tchncs.de 2 years ago
Or maybe what he expected was most likely to let a drunk girl let him go?
pjwestin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
That’s a fair expectation, but it doesn’t change the fact that he only didn’t sleep with her because she had a boyfriend, not because she was so drunk sleeping with her would have been rape.
Doom@ttrpg.network 2 years ago
Wrong as fuck she is not too drunk to consent what the fuck lol
pjwestin@lemmy.world 2 years ago
LOL, exactly the shit I’m talking about. Imagine thinking it’s OK to have sex with a girl who just drank so much she puked. I thought thinking like this died out in the 80s, but i guess the kids are back on date rape.
jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 years ago
where’s the fake and gay comments
rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Fake: Anon got invited to a party
Gay: He couldn’t stop thinking about a guy
TriflingToad@lemmy.world 2 years ago
I thought anon was talking about grilling :c
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 years ago
Wouldn’t be lemmy if we don’t accuse this person of rape, AHH… Classic
HawlSera@lemm.ee 2 years ago
Based
hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Cheating on her boyfriend with you will end in cheating on you with a new guy.
He dd the right thing, no regrets. It sucks a lot tho, and it’s hard.
VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 2 years ago
And he didnt rape her which is more important than the cheating.
festnt@sh.itjust.works 2 years ago
how would he be raping her anyway? she was the one trying to force him to have sex with her even after he made it clear he didn’t want to
curiousaur@reddthat.com 2 years ago
Laaame. You don’t know their situation, seriousness, or arrangements. Fuck around. Fuck as many people as you’d like. You only live once, and your junk stops working once you’ve figured it all out.
Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 years ago
That’s rape apology right there