anon, knows that drunk people can’t consent 👍
Anon pregames
Submitted 8 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to greentext@sh.itjust.works
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WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 months ago
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Anon is a good person
Enkrod@feddit.org 8 months ago
Anon doesn’t care she’s drunk, only that she “belongs” to someone else. Good Anon would have told her to try this again while sober.
Sarmyth@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Unfortunately they don’t actually state their reasoning. They just state what they told her while trying to reason with them to go to sleep.
You are probably right, but its just an assumption. It their position I would also be attempting to reason with them by reminding them of their existing relationship instead of “No, I don’t want to rape you. You cannot consent.”
ceenote@lemmy.world 8 months ago
He earned extra tendies.
BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 8 months ago
My dumb ass was expecting her to pass out and anon grilling everything in the fridge.
Schmuppes@lemmy.today 8 months ago
That would be an absolute alpha move.
Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Me too! I was so excited to hear what random things he was gonna grill. 0.5/10, much disappointment.
Vivendi@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
ITT: The top regarded minds of Lemmy argue their shitty opinions on consent and rape
Abandon all hope ye who enter
10_0@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
First comment I see, thank you for the warning brother I’ll take a hike on this one!
Soulg@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
I didn’t see a single awful take. Some I disagreed with but none that were awful.
TriflingToad@lemmy.world 8 months ago
if looking for awful takes, abandon all hope ye who enter here
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 8 months ago
Ya did the right thing, anon. Your mama raised you right, and would be proud.
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 8 months ago
Good guy anon hope he lives life well
halvar@lemm.ee 8 months ago
I really thought there will be a plotwist at the end that somehow this is all about grilling.
pjwestin@lemmy.world 8 months ago
“It wouldn’t be right to rape you, you have a boyfriend,” is about what I expect from a 4Channer.
Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 8 months ago
If you were in that situation, would you say “no, I would be raping you”? The boyfriend excuse is a much more tactful way to get yourself out of the situation.
pjwestin@lemmy.world 8 months ago
No it’s not. “Hey, I really like you, but you’ve had too much to drink and this wouldn’t be right. If you feel this way tomorrow, let me know,” is a perfectly acceptable answer. Hell, I’ve given that answer before. It’s certainly not less tactful than, “You have a boyfriend and what you’re doing is wrong.” And yeah, cheating on your boyfriend is bad, but not as bad as rape, which this would have been.
Soulg@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
So you’re shitting on them for doing the right thing? Or am I misinterpreting
pjwestin@lemmy.world 8 months ago
His reasoning for not sleeping with her was that she had a boyfriend, so it, “wouldn’t be right.” But that girl was so drunk that sleeping with her would have been rape. He did the right thing, but his reasoning was clearly wrong, and implies that if she didn’t have a boyfriend he would have slept with her, even though she could not consent.
match@pawb.social 8 months ago
The last temptation is the greatest treason / to do the right deed, for the wrong reason
kuberoot@discuss.tchncs.de 8 months ago
Or maybe what he expected was most likely to let a drunk girl let him go?
pjwestin@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That’s a fair expectation, but it doesn’t change the fact that he only didn’t sleep with her because she had a boyfriend, not because she was so drunk sleeping with her would have been rape.
Doom@ttrpg.network 8 months ago
Wrong as fuck she is not too drunk to consent what the fuck lol
pjwestin@lemmy.world 8 months ago
LOL, exactly the shit I’m talking about. Imagine thinking it’s OK to have sex with a girl who just drank so much she puked. I thought thinking like this died out in the 80s, but i guess the kids are back on date rape.
jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 8 months ago
where’s the fake and gay comments
rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Fake: Anon got invited to a party
Gay: He couldn’t stop thinking about a guy
TriflingToad@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I thought anon was talking about grilling :c
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 8 months ago
Wouldn’t be lemmy if we don’t accuse this person of rape, AHH… Classic
HawlSera@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Based
hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Cheating on her boyfriend with you will end in cheating on you with a new guy.
He dd the right thing, no regrets. It sucks a lot tho, and it’s hard.
VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 8 months ago
And he didnt rape her which is more important than the cheating.
festnt@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
how would he be raping her anyway? she was the one trying to force him to have sex with her even after he made it clear he didn’t want to
curiousaur@reddthat.com 8 months ago
Laaame. You don’t know their situation, seriousness, or arrangements. Fuck around. Fuck as many people as you’d like. You only live once, and your junk stops working once you’ve figured it all out.
Noodle07@lemmy.world 8 months ago
That’s rape apology right there