Comment on This world is cruel…

Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

• Agent641@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  “I’M NOT DRIVING OFFICER, IM TRAVELLING!”

  Gets 'em so wet

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  • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    sound of breaking window

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  • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    That explains why there are so many of them. It is for the WAP.

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• frickineh@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  It could also just be women thinking, “I’d like to visit _____ when I’m able, I want my partner to go with me.” Working in a passport office, I’ve met a shocking number of men who have never left the US (or sometimes even the state) by choice. Then their wife or girlfriend wants to go to Mexico or something, and they come in talking about how they’re only doing it for her and they’d never travel if it was up to them.

  Anyway, I’d consider traveling one of my hobbies even though I can’t afford to do it often - plenty of time is spent planning and looking at things to do, so it goes beyond just the few days of the trip.

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  • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I think so too.

    I’ve met people who are extremely happy living in their small town life doing small town things, then get angry or confused why anybody would want to go someplace “exotic”.

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    • Aceticon@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Maybe “travelling as a hobby” as a women’s preference with regards to men is really just about it being correlated to a man’s openness and ability to deal with totally different environments.

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      • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Ah it’s a yellow flag! Boys, we’re cracking the women code!

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  • BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I’m one of those people. I’ve never flown, rarely leave my state. My wife wants to travel, but we haven’t yet. I, personally, have no interest in it. Just like sports and most popular movie franchises. I just have no feelings about it at all. It seems like a huge hassle.

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    • lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Yea same. New places, new people, and trying to figure out where I’m going stress me the fuck out. A vacation is just a whole week of that. No thanks. I want to use my time off to relax. If someone else wants to plan the whole thing and I just follow them around it’s fine but I don’t want to deal with that shit myself. It’s not enjoyable to me at all.

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    • frickineh@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I don’t think there’s necessarily anything wrong with that, it’s just not going to be compatible with everyone. I would never date anyone who didn’t prioritize travel at least a little, but that’s definitely not universal.

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• Rooskie91@discuss.online ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  You can travel without spending a lot of money, people call it backpacking.

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  • bdonvr@thelemmy.club ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Time off is expensive

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    • saigot@lemmy.ca ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      It’s unclear what countries this poll includes, having minimum paid leave is the law in most of the world. There’s also quite a few careers that involve forced time off.

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      • gdog05@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        In the US you have just enough time off to be sick a couple of times a year. (If you’re lucky)

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      • RarePossum@programming.dev ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        College educated US women iirc. I found the source at some point

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    • IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      If you live at home or are technically homeless it doesn’t really matter. If you can save up a bit and have a charismatic personality you can go far, especially if you’re willing to pick up shitty temporary jobs in places where you go. I had a friend who would do this all the time and periodically return home to work at a reliable job while living with a friend, save up more, then fly off to somewhere for a few months.

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      • Honytawk@lemmy.zip ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        I love camping, I usually do it under bridges and in gutters.

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      • bdonvr@thelemmy.club ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Maybe, though that lifestyle is very unconducive to relationships generally.

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    • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Depends how you typically live

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  • bluewing@lemm.ee ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    For the vast majority of you, long travel is required to get to somewhere you can backpack. And the the gear and foodstuffs is expensive also. And judging by the damages to the environment that some inconsiderate people leave these days, I’m not sure that you should be allowed to. (I’m getting sick and tired of picking up garbage and hauling it out of the forest I live in).

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    • NielsBohron@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      “Backpacking” can also mean couch surfing and staying in hostels or on park benches. In the early 2000’s, it was a really popular way to travel across Europe (at least among rich white college kids)

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      • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Is hostels still a thing for young people?

        I wonder if AirBnB destroyed that industry. I saw a “hostel” in my city but it was charging $70 a night. When I was growing up, hostels were like $20-30 a night, cheaper than a motel 6.

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  • The_v@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Or be in a religious cult like Mormons. Of course they will send you to a foreign country and confiscate your passport until your 1.5-2 years are over.

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    • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Do they really confiscate your passport?!

      Holy shit thats what Dubai employers do to keep their servants enslaved!

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• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  That is one way to say, you think wealth is attractive.

  Is it not?

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  • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Depends.

    If they flaunt it, I think they’re gross.

    If they look like a hobo but are highly educated about finances… Aaaaay bay bee how you doin? Wink at me, you economist with a 401K who ties her hair up because she hasn’t showered in days because she was doing data science. Spit in my mouth, you engineer with a diverse stock portfolio who wears the same hoodie you wore in college because clothes shopping is hard and you want to focus on optimizing your CI pipelines. Choke me, you tenured professor with a retirement fund who dedicated their life building physics engines to each grad students.

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    • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I wasn’t saying it’s like that for everyone but rather in a generalized way being wealthy seems to be a factor in making someone seem more attractive.

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• Piemanding@sh.itjust.works ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I remember listening to some pop song and realizing that it was basically “You love me 'cause I’m rich”. Do you like trashing hotel rooms, going places you have never been? I don’t remember what song it was or the exact lyrics, but I just hated the guy then and there.

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• Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I love being in other countries and meeting new people and learning about their culture. But I fucking haaaaate traveling.

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• Fredselfish@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I have shit ton of these, man I am the sexiest man alive /s.

  These all great traits, I remember to include them if I ever have to go back out into the dating world. Please I hope that never happens.

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