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- Comment on Yet they know what dishware I'm looking for... 1 week ago:
Yeah turns out, “sitting in my room alone playing video games,” isn’t much of an alibi. I should get some hobbies that involve people. Like…multi-player games.
- Comment on If it would solve world hunger, what would be the largest item you could fit in your ass? 2 weeks ago:
Is there like, prep time? Or do you just have to decide and make it happen on the spot?
- Comment on SAD 2 weeks ago:
Yeah dude, it was some time in 2014. I’m good with that.
- Comment on Yule Tidings 2 weeks ago:
Damn, look at this guy going right to the “bending the laws of the universe” boasts.
- Comment on Performative Perp Walk 4 weeks ago:
Oh Eric Adams can fuck all the way off. They all can, tbh, but especially him.
- Comment on neotropical cockroaches 5 weeks ago:
Entomologists in shambles
- Comment on where's my damn plume 5 weeks ago:
I was about to be offended and then I remembered how I got out of breath walking up the stairs this morning. (To be fair, I’m anemic af and almost certainly have a touch of long covid, but still.)
- Comment on Writing tip: just start brain dumping 5 weeks ago:
I used to write intros like that as placeholders because I always wrote the real intro once I was sure where I was going with a paper. I learned to make placeholder text red and all caps after almost making that mistake.
- Comment on Starbucks wants a Bachelor's degree for a barista 1 month ago:
That’s the best part - they’re all bad! I’m lucky I usually stick to government and most use governmentjobs.com, which isn’t perfect but it’s miles better. But when I’ve been looking for a second job or trying to see what’s available in the private sector, I have yet to find a site that isn’t trash.
- Comment on Starbucks wants a Bachelor's degree for a barista 1 month ago:
Indeed has been trash for years, so that tracks. That’s why I’ve only ever used it to figure out who (maybe) has jobs open and then apply directly - they have so much bad information.
- Comment on Starbucks wants a Bachelor's degree for a barista 1 month ago:
Is this a 3rd party site? Every barista job on Starbucks’ actual site says no experience or education required, so I’m pretty sure what’s more infuriating is how god awful pretty much every job site has become.
- Comment on How am I supposed to obtain income? 1 month ago:
What state do you live in? I used to take unemployment claims and there was no requirement to file the initial claim by a specific date (though I’m sure there would eventually be a cutoff). The hard deadlines were once the claim was filled because claimants have to go in weekly and certify that they’re still unemployed and actively looking for work. It’s possible you can still apply, and layoffs tend to be processed faster. I’d strongly recommend trying. The worst they can say is no.
Also, I realize your situation really sucks, and I don’t want to downplay that at all, but I wouldn’t be surprised if at least some of your expectation that you’ll be rejected is coming through in interviews. Interviews are at least part about how good your acting skills are, which is ass, but also reality. I have often crippling depression and anxiety, but I’m great at faking positive and confident, and I’ve been offered most of the jobs I’ve interviewed for in my life. Not because I’m always the most educated or experienced candidate, but because I seem like I’ll be tolerable to work with.
Oh and lie if you’re overqualified - say you’re looking to take a step back because you want to go back to school or something. Stupid but people respond better to that than the idea that we want to pay our bills and a job is a job.
- Comment on Absolute slander 1 month ago:
Valid question. I haven’t eaten there in years.
- Comment on Absolute slander 1 month ago:
Maybe Chick-fil-A wouldn’t give them a third sauce packet. Did you ever think maybe this person was doing their best in a sauce-deprived world?
- Comment on Good News! 1 month ago:
Oh yeah, and the misunderstanding could be solved if the leads had one 5 minute conversation.
- Comment on Good News! 1 month ago:
The latter is Lifetime.
- Comment on Good News! 1 month ago:
Just add her falling in love with (and then subsequently blowing up?) a man in a flannel shirt and I think you could talk hallmark into it.
- Comment on Good News! 1 month ago:
Wow how dare you? Big city career woman goes home to small town for the holidays and falls in love with her childhood sweetheart and dumps her evil fiance who worked on Christmas, big city career woman who swore off men falls in love and surprise! he’s actually the prince of a small but wealthy English-speaking country in Europe, and big city career woman goes home to small town for the holidays and saves one of the local businesses from foreclosure and falls in love with the owner who is also hot Santa are totally different stories.
- Comment on This world is cruel… 1 month ago:
I don’t think there’s necessarily anything wrong with that, it’s just not going to be compatible with everyone. I would never date anyone who didn’t prioritize travel at least a little, but that’s definitely not universal.
- Comment on This world is cruel… 1 month ago:
“Fun” fact, this is actually why my mom has no interest in camping as an adult. Her family was homeless a lot when she was a kid and her mom disguised it as a fun extended camping trip. The kids bought it for the most part, because the family really did camp for fun, and they were used to fishing for dinner and things, but she said as she got older, she realized things like the month long trip in November were because they lost their housing.
- Comment on This world is cruel… 1 month ago:
It could also just be women thinking, “I’d like to visit _____ when I’m able, I want my partner to go with me.” Working in a passport office, I’ve met a shocking number of men who have never left the US (or sometimes even the state) by choice. Then their wife or girlfriend wants to go to Mexico or something, and they come in talking about how they’re only doing it for her and they’d never travel if it was up to them.
Anyway, I’d consider traveling one of my hobbies even though I can’t afford to do it often - plenty of time is spent planning and looking at things to do, so it goes beyond just the few days of the trip.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
The only thing I disagree with is that he finds being president stressful. He’s both incredibly stupid and lazy, so I don’t think he really even gives a shit about what his staff is doing as long as they keep jerking off his ego and don’t interrupt his golf and McDonald’s time. He’s likely not even aware of most of it, except whatever gets fed to him to post on social media.
- Comment on bitey 2 months ago:
Man, we gotta pump those numbers up. Get our bite force on the next level.
- Comment on Mine's a Juicer 2 months ago:
One of ours gets stuck on the 3 different sets of measuring cups. Why do we have 3 full sets? No one knows!
- Comment on Anon watches an old concert video 3 months ago:
And I had horrific, untreated anxiety and depression. Fun!
- Comment on Vinegar 3 months ago:
The vinegar situation where I am atm has kind of made me more depressed? Some of it is straight up ass, and the salt & vinegar chips have been pretty terrible across the board. I love vinegar, too, so I’m very sad. Maybe the vinegar has to taste good to work.
- Comment on Why do I feel sick every time I go out to eat with my gf? 3 months ago:
Maybe she’s poisoning you just a tiny bit at a time. Kidding, but have you guys eaten a meal at home together without you feeling sick?
- Comment on Kevin's a lady's man 3 months ago:
Well in that case, can Kevin sleep with me?
- Comment on I hope you don't have any plans this evening. 3 months ago:
It’s almost 9pm where I am and there’s no sign of it. Jesus better hurry his ass up if he wants to be on time.
- Comment on Is assasin's creed origins good? 4 months ago:
I enjoyed it. It’s definitely a different feel than previous AC games, so if you go in hoping for that, you might be disappointed. I think it’s definitely worth checking out, especially if you can get it on sale.