Flexisexual - you’ll take what you can get
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BartyDeCanter@piefed.social 23 hours ago
Bisexual - You’re over 35
Pansexual - You’re under 35
Omnisexual - You’ve spent way more time thinking about your sexuality than getting laid
Sapiosexual - You’re a straight guy trying to seem cool and intellectual
ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
bitjunkie@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Also known as bi-greedy
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
Mexisexual if you like it spicy, corny, and fulfilling.
Muffi@programming.dev 11 hours ago
That is the best description of sapiosexual I have ever heard
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 14 hours ago
Under what does someone fall, who regularly forgets that sex exists, immune to flirting, needs external reminders/influence and effort to get in to the mood, cant wrap their head around attraction at all and completely hates the hand their dealt with?
bitjunkie@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Autistic.
cmbabul@slrpnk.net 5 hours ago
Hey now! I may be autistic but I assure you I don’t ever forget sex exists and im horny like 90~95% of the time, but I am completely oblivious to flirting or interesting shown so that doesn’t get mitigated as much as I’d like
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 9 hours ago
Well yeah, little bit of that too. That’s what probably makes it more confusing.
Zron@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
That would be asexual
anzo@programming.dev 13 hours ago
Ace, or graysexual
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 14 hours ago
Damnit, i always circle back to that one.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
Probably because the identities we circle back to often have merit even if we don’t like it (the number of years I kept finding stupid arguments that I wasn’t trans…)
It sounds like you dislike this about yourself. You could check to see if there’s a medical issue causing extremely low libido. But fair warning, it may just result in you being horny and not finding anyone attractive.
atomicorange@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Pretty sure that’s demi.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 12 hours ago
Others are saying grey or ace. Why demi then?
atomicorange@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
I may have gotten my terms mixed up, but I think demi is reactive sexuality, someone who gets turned on by their partner getting turned on. Requires a bond / connection. Not really interested without it.
I’m not super familiar with terms on that ace spectrum though. It’s somewhere on there.
kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 21 hours ago
I’ve been Demisexual since I first watched Striptease as a teenager.
SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de 22 hours ago
I like to call it “millenial” vs “gen z” pan/bisexuality
Mesophar@pawb.social 22 hours ago
I’m pansexual, solidly a millennial, and started using the term nearly a decade and a half ago. Which was late to the game, since the term had been around for about a decade before that.
SGforce@lemmy.ca 21 hours ago
Swear I heard it late nineties
apotheotic@beehaw.org 16 hours ago
Demisexual polyamorous transgender lesbian here - what queerness am I denying myself ;-;
BartyDeCanter@piefed.social 15 hours ago
I’m not certain, but I wish you the best of luck in finding it. 😅
glimse@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
Huh, I’ve only ever heard women describe themselves as sapiosexual
BartyDeCanter@piefed.social 9 hours ago
Updated!
glimse@lemmy.world 8 hours ago
Honestly I think you’re giving them too much credit to say they’re doing it to avoid messages. It’s the same weird virtue signalling in both cases. “Not like the other girls,” etc.
It’s inventing a sexuality because you think it makes you sounds smart. Ooohh physical attraction is for losers, I’m only attracted to BRAINS. I can’t help but think these people would still shy away from an ugly genius