Why not just hire somebody? Like, I get that it isn’t ideal, but if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it, it can be obtained with a little cash and a week of research.
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malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Brah. Same. Ngl imma just Kurt Cobain when I turn 27 and I’m still a virgin. 3 years left.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I’ve got a funny story about that. We tried to call hookers with the boys, but got some weird dudes saying that they’re gonna fuck us up. A few days later they indeed fucked us up. It’s still a fucking mystery to me how they found us. Anyhow, it’s hard to find anyone to pay here. Best bet are girls that fuck around, but it requires them liking you first and also spending money, and I never really got past the liking part. Maybe it’s different in other places, I dunno.
Fizz@lemmy.nz 2 months ago
Dam that was not a funny story :(
I hope you find some real hookers that aren’t a squad of guys who will jump you.
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Aha, thanks Fizz. I’ll try my best 😁
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Are you in the US?
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Nope, alas
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Young children don’t have a drive for sex or intimacy (normally). Essentially (almost) everybody is aroace until puberty.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
This person isn’t a child, they’re 24.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You said “quarter of a century”, implying they’re wanting it since their birth.
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 months ago
Your gonna get assassinated by music industry goons when you turn 27?
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Okay my bad, imma Ronnie McNutt. Hope that’s more understandable
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 months ago
Nah, I’m mostly kidding. There are some conspiracy theories about his death though and I kinda wanted to say them out loud.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Your wife will kill you for your inheritance?
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I mean Ronnie McNutt style, I didn’t know much about Kurt lore my bad
Akasazh@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Just visit a prostitute. It’s tranactional. You get to choose and you don;t have to pretend to love somebody just to get laid.
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
Sex is not that important man
dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
That’s rich coming from someone who fucks sharks.
But honesty, sex is important. I get fucking crazy if I go without it for a long time.
It is different for different people, but saying it is not important to a person who comes in to the Diskussion saying that it is important to them, is kinda mean.
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
Nono, don’t get me wrong. Sex can be important. However, I do not think it is ever worth your life
Honytawk@feddit.nl 2 months ago
Long term virginity is sort of proof that you aren’t likeable enough for someone to have sex with you.
It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that.
So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up.
Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.
untorquer@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.
BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 2 months ago
Username doesn’t check out
Opisek@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Sex is temporary, Cthulhu is eternal!
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 2 months ago
sex isn’t temporary if you do it every day :D
festnt@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
sex is forever if you’re both horny!
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 months ago
It really isn’t. Obtaining social capital, political engagement, and philosophical discussion is like way better and more important than sex can ever be.
Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yeah I’ve been single a few years now and my life is much easier and more streamlined. I don’t miss sex and have plenty of friends. We’re kind of all expected to partner up and have kids and stuff but I just no longer want that.
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
It is.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It’s not, and it won’t solve any of your issues or fix your self esteem.
malware@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Oh it will. It will solve my absolutely bonkers sex drive that drives me insane.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I agree, but also, uh… hey, how you doin’?