Why not just hire somebody? Like, I get that it isn’t ideal, but if you’ve gone a quarter century without intimacy and you desire it, it can be obtained with a little cash and a week of research.
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malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
Brah. Same. Ngl imma just Kurt Cobain when I turn 27 and I’m still a virgin. 3 years left.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 days ago
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
I’ve got a funny story about that. We tried to call hookers with the boys, but got some weird dudes saying that they’re gonna fuck us up. A few days later they indeed fucked us up. It’s still a fucking mystery to me how they found us. Anyhow, it’s hard to find anyone to pay here. Best bet are girls that fuck around, but it requires them liking you first and also spending money, and I never really got past the liking part. Maybe it’s different in other places, I dunno.
Fizz@lemmy.nz 6 days ago
Dam that was not a funny story :(
I hope you find some real hookers that aren’t a squad of guys who will jump you.
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
Aha, thanks Fizz. I’ll try my best 😁
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 days ago
Are you in the US?
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
Nope, alas
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Young children don’t have a drive for sex or intimacy (normally). Essentially (almost) everybody is aroace until puberty.
WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 days ago
This person isn’t a child, they’re 24.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 6 days ago
You said “quarter of a century”, implying they’re wanting it since their birth.
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 6 days ago
Your gonna get assassinated by music industry goons when you turn 27?
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
Okay my bad, imma Ronnie McNutt. Hope that’s more understandable
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 6 days ago
Nah, I’m mostly kidding. There are some conspiracy theories about his death though and I kinda wanted to say them out loud.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Your wife will kill you for your inheritance?
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
I mean Ronnie McNutt style, I didn’t know much about Kurt lore my bad
Akasazh@lemmy.world 5 days ago
Just visit a prostitute. It’s tranactional. You get to choose and you don;t have to pretend to love somebody just to get laid.
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 6 days ago
Sex is not that important man
dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 6 days ago
That’s rich coming from someone who fucks sharks.
But honesty, sex is important. I get fucking crazy if I go without it for a long time.
It is different for different people, but saying it is not important to a person who comes in to the Diskussion saying that it is important to them, is kinda mean.
sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 6 days ago
Nono, don’t get me wrong. Sex can be important. However, I do not think it is ever worth your life
Honytawk@feddit.nl 6 days ago
Long term virginity is sort of proof that you aren’t likeable enough for someone to have sex with you.
It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that.
So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up.
Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.
untorquer@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Yuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.
BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 6 days ago
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Opisek@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Sex is temporary, Cthulhu is eternal!
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 5 days ago
sex isn’t temporary if you do it every day :D
festnt@sh.itjust.works 5 days ago
sex is forever if you’re both horny!
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 6 days ago
It really isn’t. Obtaining social capital, political engagement, and philosophical discussion is like way better and more important than sex can ever be.
Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Yeah I’ve been single a few years now and my life is much easier and more streamlined. I don’t miss sex and have plenty of friends. We’re kind of all expected to partner up and have kids and stuff but I just no longer want that.
malware@lemmy.zip 6 days ago
It is.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 5 days ago
It’s not, and it won’t solve any of your issues or fix your self esteem.
malware@lemmy.zip 5 days ago
Oh it will. It will solve my absolutely bonkers sex drive that drives me insane.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 5 days ago
I agree, but also, uh… hey, how you doin’?