minorkeys
@minorkeys@lemmy.world
- Comment on do you think freewill truly exists? 1 week ago:
For many, small talk does not strengthen or maintain a relationship. It is something that works for some people. Others endure it for the sake of the one who does but it doesn’t hold the same role for them and is not a necessity to have a loving and healthy relationship for everyone. Just as we express and receive love differently, small talk doesn’t serve the same role in everyone’s life. If it does for you, that’s great, hopefully you’re getting what you need.
As for the double duty, that is true of all communication, whether small or not. As noted above, it may be an expression of love for some people, but it’s far from universal.
Not everyone finds the smaller, and often repetitive, experiences of their day to be important or valuable and people are perfectly capable of having time for the other person’s life and feelings without the focus being those topics or experiences.
It sounds like you value smalltalk in your life but may not accept that it isn’t as widespread as you seem to imply. I don’t doubt it does what you claim for yourself and others you know.
- Comment on do you think freewill truly exists? 1 week ago:
Only for those who spend time engaged with existential topics rather than shopping though.
- Comment on do you think freewill truly exists? 1 week ago:
Need for small talk suggests the contents of your thoughts revolves around topics and depth of thought suitable for small talk, I wish you the best in finding someone similar who can appreciate its value to your life. I’ll be elsewhere and hope you wish me the same luck.
- Comment on End of 10 is a campaign to move people over to Linux with Windows 10 support ending 3 weeks ago:
Then she can run Linux.
- Comment on Polar bears 4 weeks ago:
Yeah, it hurt.
- Comment on Polar bears 4 weeks ago:
Still rather a bear than a man though, amirite?
- Comment on Bingo 1 month ago:
Wrong. That’s absolutely what your responsibility as a citizen is, to ensure the protection of democracy from everyone in any position capable of undermining it.
- Comment on Luigi checking out another CEO in my feed ? 1 month ago:
Not directly, it just helps build a world in which empathy and freedom are dead.
- Comment on Luigi checking out another CEO in my feed ? 1 month ago:
All to better manipulate you into giving more money to a corporation than the value of the product or service they give you in return. This entire fucking system is to manage how much the powerful are allowed to exploit the weak.
- Comment on This is how we do it 1 month ago:
Lol I need this shirt.
- Comment on If you're still on Lemmy... 1 month ago:
They will follow us everywhere. If the medium is commercial, the capitalists will capture it. If its public, the extreme social interest groups will capture it. There is no place for the vast majority of average folk to just exist without being pushed, prodded, guilted, baited, enticed or forced to stop being ourselves.
- Comment on The pipeline 1 month ago:
Stalin would have, and possibly did, murder non-binary folk without hesitation.
- Comment on purpose 1 month ago:
Until we are forced to replace them with technological bandaids and hope the ecosystem keeps churning. Like we’ve been doing for a couple centuries atleast.
- Comment on Prison slavery 2 months ago:
Wage stagnating and unbalanced wealth distribution is a reward decrease, imo.
- Comment on Prison slavery 2 months ago:
We’ve long since discarded the faggy liberal Democrat reward system with the superior punishment system. /s
We’ve gone from the reward being more happiness to the reward being less suffering.
- Comment on Skill issue 2 months ago:
“I can’t even beat a girl!?”
- Comment on Amazon Contractors can't even sing in their cars now. Unions protect against this micromanagement. 9 months ago:
If you want a robot then hire a robot!
We’re trying. We aren’t quite there yet. Just keep suffering for a feeew more years, then you won’t have to worry about our micromanaging.
- Comment on If everyone is fired by AI, who's going to buy the products and services made by the companies if no one has money anymore? 10 months ago:
Whoever still has money. Either importing wealthy immigrants to replace the American market or they’ll move their products to the markets that still have money.