And this is why I (almost) never comment/post… Can’t overshare if you don’t start sharing!
my Lemmy modus operandi & why I end up deleting an account and making a new one
Submitted 3 weeks ago by violet08_@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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ScytheDraven47@piefed.zip 3 weeks ago
imadethis@fedinsfw.app 3 weeks ago
Stop worrying about oversharing. I won’t speak for everyone, but I’ve been practicing, and I’m pretty sure I can take everything you’ve got.
ScytheDraven47@piefed.zip 3 weeks ago
Tbf, I’m pretty open in 1:1 situations, but not public (internet or IRL)… Side note, that’s a helluva double entendre given your fedi instance heh
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 3 weeks ago
We’ve all been there. Believe it or not, I’m pretty introverted, yet I like to chat, at least in a ‘small group’. The internet feels kind of small because each thread you’re in only has a handful of people commenting, so you feel like you’re talking to a small group, despite it being disproportionately lurkers.
At some point you kind of stop caring, or at least that’s been my experience.
beep@piefed.world 3 weeks ago
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moakley@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Weird. There wasn’t any attribution for you to remove, and yet you edited it anyway.
skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
What did you over share last time?
ScytheDraven47@piefed.zip 3 weeks ago
Doesn’t that kind of defeat the purpose of a “fresh start”?
skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
Looks like the next step in his plan to me. Just trying to help /s
pooberbee@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
It’s missing a stwp after vow of silence where I ghost my friends for a month.
deathmetaldawgy@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
lol, a month… I lost all the buddies I had all thru high school and a little after cuz during Covid I kinda intentionally unintentionally ghosted everybody, haven’t made solid efforts really since. I’ve gotten a lot closer to my family and my gfs family but sometimes I wish I had a good friend. Some of them are legit scary people now tho so I kinda never really regret my decisions I just need a bro that’s not my actual brother lmao.
Palerider@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
I deleted my Facebook account (don’t judge me) 10 years ago and only one person actually called me to ask why I unfriended them…
imadethis@fedinsfw.app 3 weeks ago
One of the worst feelings about ghosting my friends was their complete lack of awareness of it.
j4yc33@piefed.social 3 weeks ago
How do I report being in an image that I don’t like?
hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
it’s really annoying to have to block someone half a dozen times yk
deacon@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I can relate to this cycle. For me it plays out irl more though.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
Same, just takes me way longer to cycle through.
Dialectical_Specialist@quokk.au 3 weeks ago
with so many instances to choose, how does one not get curious to test another? this is the additional factor that always pushes me to a fresh restart
redsand@infosec.pub 3 weeks ago
Because you’re either a girl who desperately needs real friends which that’s nearly impossible with your parents and level of wealth( therapy helps some people ). Or a very persistent dude playing a swiss teen.
Post whatever memento you kept from your first and I might believe, until then I remain on the fence and ammused.
MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Someday I will have control of my own internet, and host my own instance. Then deleting/making accounts will be a lot easier. (I have 28 replies from my last night out. To scared to read them)
YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
Fuck this hits. Maybe time for me to engage in some introspection.
violet08_@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
i’d make a great reality star
zxqwas@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Don’t they have to do embarrassing things while unable to “delete” their small time celeb status?
Luvs2Spuj@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Wouldn’t you delete the account and make a new one with a different name if the over sharing became an issue ? Also, I’ve not seen all your posts but unless there is something identifying in them, you’re probably good to get doing your thing.
anzo@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
“Some answers are best while left unquestioned”
boboliosisjones@feddit.nu 3 weeks ago
reach for the stars buddy
anzo@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
You are one already. Fedi diva ftw.