Anon reaches encopenment.

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• Rusty@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • joyjoy@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Sixes

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• ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Sex with another person was in some ways disappointing when compared to masturbation and porn. I value emotional intimacy and you can’t get that by masturbating, but if OP is interested purely in physical pleasure then he may in fact be better off on his own. Obviously your mileage may vary - lots of other people do enjoy casual sex so I guess they must get a lot out of it.

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  • Fuck_u_spez_@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Heeyyyy, it’s me, your future partner…

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    • Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      That is ArbitraryValue not spez.

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    • AtariDump@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Idk, my physical pleasure is heightened by sharing it with my SO. The more I please them, the more I get into it and the better the whole experience is. If both partners are focused on maximizing the others’ pleasure, it’s way better than just doing it yourself.

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• WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Cope. Also, thinking that casual sex is the standard is self defeating if pleasure is the goal. Casual sex is cool because it requires very little of the participants. Get off and get going, everyone is somewhere between satiety and scratched itch in terms of payoff.

  Long term partnered sex is like an ongoing conversation about pleasure and likes and dislikes and leads to way more fulfilling encounters. It can also just scratch the itch but has more upstream pleasure potential ime.

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• Nomecks@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Stop whacking off for five minutes and see if your views change.

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  • SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    This is the true benefit of No Nut November

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    • taladar@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      You mean it is a kink so annoying that it will put you off porn for a while because of how often it is mentioned around that time of year?

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• Fizz@lemmy.nz ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Another level of cope.

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• Ethalis@jlai.lu ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Wait, starfish position? Am I doing sex wrong?

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  • AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Depends, are you into marine invertebrates ?

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    • Ulvain@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Who isn’t??!

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• conditional_soup@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Well, anon has re-discovered the Buddha’s advice on dealing with lust. I don’t have the text handy, but basically, somebody asks the Buddha about dealing with lust, and the Buddha advises that you strip away your preconceived notions about sex and look at it neutrally. Consider that this same body undertakes all the boring and tedious things that bodies do, that the body will age and decay, that the grave beckons. The way he puts it is better than I do, ofc, but that’s the gist, and Anon’s converged on it. Not saying that it’s good or bad, but hopefully it helps Anon feel better and be a better person.

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• UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Just go to the local glory hole.

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• OmegaCloud@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Anon is ready to leave the samsara.

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• Ma10gan@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Sounds asexual tbh.

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